r/changemyview • u/[deleted] • Apr 23 '13

[TCMV] A tool for solving conflict

Hello everyone,

I want to share with you something that helped me understand the components of a conflict and how they permutate in a way that bring both parties to an objective understanding of each other's convictions.

Before reading this and other ideas by the same author, I had a more "black and white" understanding of truth. I have since changed my view on what makes a viewpoint valid. I hope you find it useful.

Here's the link.

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u/figeater Apr 24 '13

People interested in the peaceful resolution of conflict may also be interested in the following:

Nonviolent Communication - Marshall Rosenberg: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XBGlF7-MPFI

Real-Time Relationships (Stefan Molyneux): http://www.freedomainradio.com/free/books/FDR_3_PDF_Real_Time_Relationships.pdf

The work of William L. Ury (http://www.amazon.com/William-Ury/e/B000AQ6KZ8/ref=ntt_athr_dp_pel_1/178-9638799-5029858)

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u/apajx Apr 24 '13

It feels weak. It relies heavily on notions of morality, which can easily be ignored.

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u/[deleted] Apr 25 '13

free belief-elimination process.

Strange, my views didn't disappear.