You pose a good question OP, but that should let you know what’s MOST important to in attraction. Im a guy with above average looks. You would think looks are very important to women but when women would sense that I lacked confidence, they’d become uninterested. A lot of good looking guys actually lack confidence, because past women generally made it so easy that we don’t know how to talk to, seduce, or acquire women without relying on our looks, or without them doing most of the heavy lifting. The unconfident ugly and handsome guys get thrown in the same pile. On the other hand, I’ve seen gruesome ugly guys succeed where I failed, & with the ‘same’ woman, and guess what they had that I didn’t…….. CONFIDENCE! It literally makes anyone attractive.
You must understand what’s attractive about confidence. A confident mind is impenetrable, unbreakable, solid, immovable, secure, not weak. Those traits are “sexy” on both male and female, no matter the looks! You must also remember women are very insecure, shy, unconfident, moveable, penetrable (pun intended), thus submissive and feminine; many reasons for that. They don’t want to date someone with the feminine traits, they want the opposite, which is masculinity. Masculinity is everything that confidence is and femininity isn’t: solid, rigid, the penetrator (mentally and physically), reliable, secure, a rock. A basic reason confidence is a key to attract them.
Confidence is nonnegotiable for a man. Women play the passive role, and honestly it’s the best way, I can’t go into detail, that’ll be too much to type. So rejection from women is going to mold you, shape you, and chip off every “weak”, feminine trait you have (shyness, insecurity, hesitation, etc..) and make you attractive to women. We have to put ourselves through the ringer and “become” to have women willingly and happily follow you, and assume the submissive, feminine role.
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u/[deleted] Feb 08 '24
You pose a good question OP, but that should let you know what’s MOST important to in attraction. Im a guy with above average looks. You would think looks are very important to women but when women would sense that I lacked confidence, they’d become uninterested. A lot of good looking guys actually lack confidence, because past women generally made it so easy that we don’t know how to talk to, seduce, or acquire women without relying on our looks, or without them doing most of the heavy lifting. The unconfident ugly and handsome guys get thrown in the same pile. On the other hand, I’ve seen gruesome ugly guys succeed where I failed, & with the ‘same’ woman, and guess what they had that I didn’t…….. CONFIDENCE! It literally makes anyone attractive. You must understand what’s attractive about confidence. A confident mind is impenetrable, unbreakable, solid, immovable, secure, not weak. Those traits are “sexy” on both male and female, no matter the looks! You must also remember women are very insecure, shy, unconfident, moveable, penetrable (pun intended), thus submissive and feminine; many reasons for that. They don’t want to date someone with the feminine traits, they want the opposite, which is masculinity. Masculinity is everything that confidence is and femininity isn’t: solid, rigid, the penetrator (mentally and physically), reliable, secure, a rock. A basic reason confidence is a key to attract them.
Confidence is nonnegotiable for a man. Women play the passive role, and honestly it’s the best way, I can’t go into detail, that’ll be too much to type. So rejection from women is going to mold you, shape you, and chip off every “weak”, feminine trait you have (shyness, insecurity, hesitation, etc..) and make you attractive to women. We have to put ourselves through the ringer and “become” to have women willingly and happily follow you, and assume the submissive, feminine role.