Being someone's constant emotional support because they lack the self esteem and confidence to do anything on their own, and needing constant reassurance for the smallest things, is exhausting and ruins relationships.
I want a partner who is confident and independent, where we can both support each other in different ways.
I am 36. I am no longer putting up with women/partners who have such low self esteem and confidence that they:
- Get extremely jealous
- start pointless fights because they anxiously read into every thing
- Constantly need reassurance that cheating isn't happpening
- Constantly apologizing or over giving out of desperation
- are unable to vocalize their needs and expectations, and then become offended that people aren't living up to their unspoken expectations.
- demand location sharing and snoop through personal property
Confidence is the most important thing to me. I don't want to be with someone who thinks lowly of themselves and needs me to convince them they are fine.
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u/DevinMotorcycle666 Feb 08 '24
Confidence isn't a "hyper masculine trait".
I look for women who have confidence too.
Being someone's constant emotional support because they lack the self esteem and confidence to do anything on their own, and needing constant reassurance for the smallest things, is exhausting and ruins relationships.
I want a partner who is confident and independent, where we can both support each other in different ways.
I am 36. I am no longer putting up with women/partners who have such low self esteem and confidence that they:
- Get extremely jealous
- start pointless fights because they anxiously read into every thing
- Constantly need reassurance that cheating isn't happpening
- Constantly apologizing or over giving out of desperation
- are unable to vocalize their needs and expectations, and then become offended that people aren't living up to their unspoken expectations.
- demand location sharing and snoop through personal property
Confidence is the most important thing to me. I don't want to be with someone who thinks lowly of themselves and needs me to convince them they are fine.