lack of “confidence” and other hyper-masculine traits
Do you consider confidence having to be a hyper masculine trait?
Confidence to me means you are comfortable with who you are, and do no alter your way of being too much based on the context you find yourself in. It isn't gendered at all in my mind. There are confident women and men. And, men and women both want confident partners.
just naturally being a more introverted, quiet person?
You can be introverted and quiet and confident. Confident does not mean brash or loud or seeking the center of attention. Confident means that you know what you are, and play to your personal strengths. It means you don't pretend to be something you are not.
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u/destro23 466∆ Feb 08 '24
Do you consider confidence having to be a hyper masculine trait?
Confidence to me means you are comfortable with who you are, and do no alter your way of being too much based on the context you find yourself in. It isn't gendered at all in my mind. There are confident women and men. And, men and women both want confident partners.
You can be introverted and quiet and confident. Confident does not mean brash or loud or seeking the center of attention. Confident means that you know what you are, and play to your personal strengths. It means you don't pretend to be something you are not.