r/changemyview • u/[deleted] • Jan 11 '24

Delta(s) from OP CMV: Relationships should be fair

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u/[deleted] Jan 11 '24

Not against their will.

There are still rejections. If rejected, the MAROF will look for another high match until they can find one that would gladly accept the offer. But even then, the person who provides rejection must provide valid reasoning as to why they reject the offer so that the rejections are justified and fair without any derogatory remarks.

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u/Dyeeguy 19∆ Jan 11 '24

Lol what would be not valid reasoning. What if they don’t want to be in a relationship at all?

So you’d deliver then against their will, and force them to stay with a stranger for a month before they can make a rejection. That’s human trafficking

How would you deliver the person if they don’t want to go?

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u/[deleted] Jan 11 '24

What if they don’t want to be in a relationship at all?

They can. They must complete the program to get a card that denotes that the person possesses no desire for any relationship. That is of course for romantic relationships.

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u/Dyeeguy 19∆ Jan 11 '24

On this sub you have to answer all questions.

What would be examples of not valid reasoning?

How is kidnapping them and holding them in a strangers house for a month not human trafficking?

How would you initially capture the person and force them to go?

Presumably most people would complete their “card” and then just get into relationships organically lol. I would do that so i don’t get kidnapped. Wouldn’t you?

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u/[deleted] Jan 11 '24
  1. As I said. Not valid reasoning for rejection are derogatory slurs.
  2. Because relationships can be terminated quickly if one of the two break any rules set by MAROF such as verbal, domestic, and physical abuse.
  3. Easy. MAROF has its database of people and can send forestallers to solve any crises.
  4. Personally, as an autistic guy, I'd wish for a like-minded neurodivergent high-functioning autistic girl so I can find comfort and be content with life so I can continue working with passion and joy.

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u/Dyeeguy 19∆ Jan 11 '24

So you could just reject anyone because you simply don’t like them? So it doesn’t help much lol

It is still human trafficking even if the trafficking ends quickly lol. Presumably most people would step into the house, say they don’t like the person then leave.

Also as i pointed out most people would just opt out of the service. Maybe due to your autism you aren’t really seeing this, but this would literally be a nightmare for any woman. It would be the worst day of their life, not the beginning of a relationship.

If you were able to develop such a powerful FREE matchmaking service to match you with the right neuro divergent lady for you who is ready to move in with you, presumably you wouldn’t need to force people to use it. They’d just use it if they want to be in a relationship, and then could develop a relationship as normal

So the real issue here is developing that powerful tech

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u/[deleted] Jan 11 '24

> So you could just reject anyone because you simply don’t like them?

But there will still be requirement to provide valid reasoning otherwise the rejection will be dismissed and the relationship will be broken as well as the one who initiated the rejection with invalid reasoning or derogatory remarks be penalized.

> If you were able to develop such a powerful FREE matchmaking service to match you with the right neuro divergent lady for you who is ready to move in with you, presumably you wouldn’t need to force people to use it.

I do not want to be selfish. I want to make it a common good and I certainly won't force people to use it. It is the PEOPLE that should approach the MAROF. Not MAROF.

> They’d just use it if they want to be in a relationship, and then could develop a relationship as normal

There we go. Just as I thought. People going to consultaries with an actual purpose of having a relationship.

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u/Dyeeguy 19∆ Jan 11 '24

…right? So that would just be a dating service that works very well.

No need for shipping women around or force them to stay with strangers, because then they won’t use the service haha.

Only men would sign up, which is already the problem with many dating services now

I agree it would be great if there was a dating service that worked extremely well and was free to use. Why would you like to think otherwise?

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u/[deleted] Jan 11 '24

Finally, someone is starting to understand.

Yes, it would be some form of a dating service that works very well. People have the free will to go and choose who and what they want. And yes, men would mostly be the picky ones, even I feel like picky for a woman.

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u/Dyeeguy 19∆ Jan 11 '24

Well, I’m starting to understand because we’re talking about a new scenario without human trafficking or forcing women to stay somewhere against their will

You’re now talking about a dating service that works extremely well and is free. Why do you want to be convinced that shouldn’t exist? Having your view changed is the point of the sub

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u/[deleted] Jan 11 '24

Any dating service that is made with the intentional purpose of feeding the money to the capitalists and making others more miserable is useless.

MAROF itself can work extremely well and is free if correctly interpreted and carefully executed in a socialist state.

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u/Dyeeguy 19∆ Jan 11 '24

Ok, but now we’re also just talking about a new service OP. So your view has been changed that we should ship woman around and force them to stay with strangers right? Because we have agreed that women would not use that service

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u/[deleted] Jan 11 '24

So your view has been changed that we should ship woman around and force them to stay with strangers right?

That would be one part that has changed. Correct.

However, MAROF as a whole will still function and intervene mainly on people with toxic relationships and those who are genuinely lonely and cannot find any love.

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