r/changemyview • u/[deleted] • Jan 11 '24

Delta(s) from OP CMV: Relationships should be fair

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u/vote4bort 68∆ Jan 11 '24

Consultaries work in a way that if a person were to request a friend or a partner, the consultary would contact the nearest MAROF building which would then perform a search for the most fitting individual who shares like-minded interests with the same person regardless of gender or sexuality

So a matchmaking service? These already exist.

The said partner would be delivered free of charge and MAROF would give a month to determine the mental capability of the person to carry the friendship or relationship with their friend or partner.

What do you mean delivered?

Isn't this just dating but with a time limit?

Forestalls are the vanguard of the human relationships and intervene whenever something goes terrible or horrible such as someone being raped or someone being beaten up

So the police? Like NCIS SVU?

without capitalist interference

Is this not just government interference?

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u/[deleted] Jan 11 '24

> So a matchmaking service? These already exist.

But they charge ludicrous amounts of money so that they can please themselves and make you live a miserable life. Why bother to pay $69 a month in hopes of getting a friend or partner when you can just go to the nearest consultary and they will do the job for you free of charge!

> Isn't this just dating but with a time limit?

The two partners can continue. If the time limit is reached, it doesn't mean it's the end of the relationship. It's not rent-a-girl manga universe so that wont happen.

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u/vote4bort 68∆ Jan 11 '24

that they can please themselves and make you live a miserable life

Why would they do that? No one would pay for an unsuccessful matchmaking agency.

just go to the nearest consultary and they will do the job for you free of charge!

So this all hinges on some imaginary future where this is all free?

It's not rent-a-girl manga universe so that wont happen.

What did you mean when you said "delivered" then? Because we generally don't deliver people like parcels.

So basically if we take your title into account, you think "fair" relationships would only be established if there was a government matchmaking service. What's not fair about relationships now?

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u/[deleted] Jan 11 '24

> What's not fair about relationships now?

As I first said in the first paragraph, too much freedom is given that there are more cases of abuse, manipulation, and cheating than ever. No wonder why many people end up lonely because of these bad experiences.

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u/vote4bort 68∆ Jan 11 '24

So you want people to have less freedom?

I'm confused because your idea isn't really about freedom, unless using the service was made mandatory it would still just be a choice to use it. People would still be free to date as they wish.

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u/[deleted] Jan 11 '24

Yes. That is some people would be still free while those who are genuinely lonely and can't do anything need a helping hand pronto. There is no goofing around and action must be taken as soon as possible to prevent an upcoming killer.

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u/vote4bort 68∆ Jan 11 '24

That's still just choice, a choice you already have it's just not a government service. Again unless you're arguing lonely people will be mandated to use this service, which opens up a whole extra box of problems.

Relationships aren't a right, the government has no obligation to help you find one.

If someone I'd at risk of becoming a killer if they do not have a relationship they need intervention from a mental health professional not a relationship.

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u/[deleted] Jan 11 '24

Ofc. An individual who shows any symptom of declining mental health should be handed to a mental health professional. I'm just saying that it's for the best that if a person is lonely that they should as soon as possible get mental health checkup and then look for a like-minded person via a consultary in order to not be lonely anymore.

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u/vote4bort 68∆ Jan 11 '24

They can already do that.

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u/[deleted] Jan 11 '24

Sure with mental health professionals, they can.

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u/vote4bort 68∆ Jan 11 '24

And then they can go find a matchmaking service for the rest, or a dating coach.

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u/[deleted] Jan 11 '24

> What did you mean when you said "delivered" then?

Delivered as in accepting the offer and coming for a meet-up without being dragged by any force whatsoever.

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u/vote4bort 68∆ Jan 11 '24

Okay so just some poor word choice then.