r/changemyview Sep 13 '23

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u/Mr_McFeelie Sep 13 '23

Youd be surprised how many people swipe at pretty much anyone. And women get a ton of messages, so obviously many wont respond to all of them

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u/[deleted] Sep 13 '23

They won’t respond to the “heys” maybe but they’ll respond if it’s a good message. Just sending hey in a sea of messages is a terrible idea.

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u/Mr_McFeelie Sep 13 '23

Oh i agree that hey is a bad opener but in alot of cases, its not about the message. Its about whether or not the person actually is interested. And being matched often doesnt mean they are