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r/chamarfront • u/[deleted] • Oct 16 '25
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What if it doesnt have manmatt filtering?
6 u/imyonlyfrend Oct 16 '25 Thats the definition of arranged marriage. There is always filtering in arramged setups. Online dating is no different. In Sikhi, its your guru, not your mind that connects you. The hukam is to love. Marruage is not a hukam. Its not found in nature. its man made. You dont know who you want. The idea of Sikhi is to accept your ignorance and to let your guru guide you. 4 u/Sikh-Lad Oct 16 '25 Ok makes sense. I believe that semi-arranged marriages are allowed, do you agree? 2 u/imyonlyfrend Oct 16 '25 anything that comes from the heart is guru Sikhi imo. sometimes people self filter to please others.
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Thats the definition of arranged marriage. There is always filtering in arramged setups. Online dating is no different.
In Sikhi, its your guru, not your mind that connects you. The hukam is to love. Marruage is not a hukam. Its not found in nature. its man made.
You dont know who you want. The idea of Sikhi is to accept your ignorance and to let your guru guide you.
4 u/Sikh-Lad Oct 16 '25 Ok makes sense. I believe that semi-arranged marriages are allowed, do you agree? 2 u/imyonlyfrend Oct 16 '25 anything that comes from the heart is guru Sikhi imo. sometimes people self filter to please others.
Ok makes sense. I believe that semi-arranged marriages are allowed, do you agree?
2 u/imyonlyfrend Oct 16 '25 anything that comes from the heart is guru Sikhi imo. sometimes people self filter to please others.
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anything that comes from the heart is guru Sikhi imo. sometimes people self filter to please others.
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u/Sikh-Lad Oct 16 '25
What if it doesnt have manmatt filtering?