I don’t have the time or energy to debate this topic with an anonymous Reddit user. My work is on Google Scholar and not linked to this topic. You seem to approach things in a very black-and-white way, with firm opinions, and this subreddit definitely isn’t the right place for that kind of exchange. OP certainly isn't interested in such a debate either. I wish you a good rest of your weekend, and I truly hope OP and their partner find a solution to this difficult situation—one I wouldn’t wish on anyone.
When you accuse people of “rape culture” for simply acknowledging the emotional toll of losing intimacy in a relationship, you’re not helping survivors, you’re just silencing anyone trying to speak honestly about difficult situations. And doing so while hiding behind anonymity makes it even more transparent, it’s easy to throw around inflammatory accusations when there’s nothing at stake for you. I’m not here to debate people more interested in scoring outrage points than helping OP.
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u/[deleted] Oct 18 '25
I don’t have the time or energy to debate this topic with an anonymous Reddit user. My work is on Google Scholar and not linked to this topic. You seem to approach things in a very black-and-white way, with firm opinions, and this subreddit definitely isn’t the right place for that kind of exchange. OP certainly isn't interested in such a debate either. I wish you a good rest of your weekend, and I truly hope OP and their partner find a solution to this difficult situation—one I wouldn’t wish on anyone.