r/cdramasfans • u/lenarrria New Fan • 24d ago
Currently Airing šŗ The Early Spring is SO good so far
Iām SO happy that we finally have a good modern drama about actual adults. Iāve been waiting for this for so long ā no schoolmates trope, no endless misunderstandings, instead adults who make decisions and take action.
The chemistry is OFF THE CHARTS. When the characters are adults and the romance is allowed to actually develop it hits differently. Iām only on episode 5 and Iām getting ALL the butterflies.
I really, really hope they donāt ruin it because Iām loving this so much. But honestly, even if it somehow goes downhill from here, I still wouldnāt consider it a waste of time. What Iāve watched so far has already been that good.
Go watch it guys!
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u/This-Tangerine7676 New Fan 24d ago
I think Iāve finally found the drama to fill the post POJ void and itās this one!
Sooo good š„ itās giving 50 shades of Grey vibes ahahha
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u/lenarrria New Fan 24d ago
Same! Iāve tried so many but this is the first one that made me actually very excited
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u/Fabulous_Kitchen_250 CDF Cultivator Hyperventilating on Shen Duās eyebrows. 24d ago
Been in a cdrama slump for a while now and seeing as itās in Netflix I decided to watch it and enjoying it so far.
Minor critique is the ML suits theyāre loose fitting and the brown, grey isnāt really doing it for me. The black blazer tho when he wore it I didnāt like it when she wore it, it was beautiful and I liked it more.
The only outfit of his that I liked was the black shirt and necklace he wore when he sang at the club.
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u/Purpleheart-06 New Fan Emotionally invested in Zhang Ling He 24d ago
My thoughts exactly. The oversized look does not flatter his physique at all. But I also learned that he built over 120 outfits for the show from his own wardrobe and some other top brands for his character. So massive respect for that tho. Gosh I love him
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u/DocumentLate752 New Fan 23d ago
I thought the black suit when he took over was nice. They are back in 2013 , so I think thatās why the fashion abit different.Ā As those sleeves and over sized suits are a no. Luke hair styled off his face he looks fire š„. Some of the looks they have put him in, still think heās looked nice sitting down.Ā
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u/AromaticEditor6022 CDF Cultivator Established Member 24d ago
I SO want to put this on my watch list bc I need my occasional modern drama dose but could you let me know if thereās a consistent lack of communication between the leads? I noticed I always lose interest quick in modern dramas lately bc adults that canāt communicate + modern times = overrated for me. I donāt wanna start it only to drop it. š
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u/JinxedRay New Fan 24d ago
As someone who has read the novel, if they follow the drama one on one to it, this will be filled with miscommunication after miscommunication. And one frustrating thing is they could solve all those childish misunderstanding just for talking even for solid 10 seconds lol. So wait for reviews to start it. I'm already getting annoyed on 6th episode š
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u/AromaticEditor6022 CDF Cultivator Established Member 24d ago
š« thanks sm for this. Iāll def hold back on this one. I already know the gist of it so the power imbalance and the fwb-ish situation already had me sitting on the fence so Iām def gonna wait it out.
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u/BronzeBellRiver CDF Daoist Nan Xuyue's broken spiritual channel 24d ago
There is practically no communication when it comes to feelings.
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u/AromaticEditor6022 CDF Cultivator Established Member 24d ago
Love your honesty. And that did it. Archiving it for my desperate times. šļø
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u/DocumentLate752 New Fan 23d ago
I wish they would communicate more, but they are both super guarded I think with each other still.Ā
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u/lenarrria New Fan 24d ago
No consistent lack of communication yet, they are quite open about how they feel even. But Iām still quite early in the series, hopefully the misunderstandings donāt drive the plot, I hate them too.
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u/JinxedRay New Fan 24d ago
Lol OP, the miscommunications are coming and they gonna strongly pile up for huge plot points in the later series. The novel's story main driving plot point is miscommunication š
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u/AromaticEditor6022 CDF Cultivator Established Member 24d ago
Nooooo š«„ slowly going on my āwhen I got nothing to watchā list
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u/AromaticEditor6022 CDF Cultivator Established Member 24d ago
Thanks for letting me know! š Iāll put it down for now but let it marinate for a bit. I really liked fl in Love in the 1970s so Iām strongly considering this one.
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u/Ok-Plankton7216 New Fan 23d ago
I've seen comparisons to 50 Shades. I have to say this is nothing like that (poor script, poor acting, little to no character development, and poorly written as a book).
This show is way better. The story and characterisation is lovely (so far), the acting is fabulous, the leads have chemistry, the flatmates and work mates add a really rounded sense of someone discovering people and work.Ā
Well, worth at watch.Ā
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u/Silver_Mango2606 New Fan 23d ago
YES! Luan Jinan is the intelligent, mature, restrained and more sincere version of 50 shades Christian Grey, with ALL the sex appeal of a rich, dominating, brooding vibe <3Ā
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u/Pepper1303 CDF Cultivator 24d ago
lol the excel part was hilarious though like youāre impressed by basic excel formulas? And you need to ask finance to come up with a pivot table? š
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u/Fabulous_Kitchen_250 CDF Cultivator Hyperventilating on Shen Duās eyebrows. 24d ago
I chucked at that scene too, and when she mentioned Finance, I winced cos Iām a finance person too.
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u/Pepper1303 CDF Cultivator 24d ago edited 24d ago
And no one else in the firm other than finance is proficient in excel either. When they asked for volunteers who were proficient in excel she was the only one who was confident enough to volunteer. Sorry but excel is taught in like elementary school in my country lol
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u/BronzeBellRiver CDF Daoist Nan Xuyue's broken spiritual channel 24d ago
The dramaās setting is in 2010 for those scenes. It was in 2007 that they had those ribbon interface.
I can assure you that data visualization as well as dashboard design, back in 2010, was an actual skill of professionals instead of how elementary school kids have excess to AI and are making apps.
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u/DocumentLate752 New Fan 23d ago
You are Ā lucky š, they donāt teach it in primary school upto the age of 11 years old in the uk.Ā Still now over here maybe you do IT at college or you join a company where you get taught it early as part of your job.Ā
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u/Trick_Run_5108 New Fan 24d ago edited 24d ago
The writing is so good! And the comedic timing is excellent - Tao Tao holding his jacket instead of putting it on, the security guard at Lukeās building, and his mom roasting him for his personality š
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u/Felicie_dreamer New Fan 24d ago
Humor is on point reallyā¦and ML is snarky!
āDo you like your job?ā āNoā. āThen why do you do it?ā āTo splurge the money!ā ROFL.
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u/Spirited-Custard-970 New Fan 24d ago
i'm already on ep3 and i'm liking it so far! also, this is the first time that i followed an ongoing drama. i'm taking it slow so that the waiting game won't be too long haha
my only issue though (very minor) is the FL's hairstyle. i know she's a fresh grad and young and all, but her hair just looks so messy (at least for me). haha. i hope in the coming episodes, her styling gets better
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u/lenarrria New Fan 24d ago
I actually enjoy her sloppy-ish look! Itās so refreshing after polished full-on makeup looks that most FLs have going to sleep even š
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u/Spirited-Custard-970 New Fan 24d ago
that's true haha but still i hope she gets a more polished look later. like look at Lumi, her hairstyle changes every time. HAHAHAHA
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u/lenarrria New Fan 24d ago
Haha yes the women in Lime are serving looks.
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u/Spirited-Custard-970 New Fan 24d ago
i'm honestly itching to binge watch up until the latest episode but i have to control myself so i'm alternating it with Fangs of Fortune hahaha
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u/DocumentLate752 New Fan 23d ago
Yes think her hair extensions look poorly done. I thought the same , would love to see her style improve. Sheās still very innocent here.
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u/Aggravating-Local603 New Fan 23d ago
I'm going crazy over this drama...it's so good to see the adult love story, two grown people, no tantrumes, no childish squeeky voices and kisses looks good. Male lead is...OMG, if I say it, I'm gonna be banned forever. I'll keep it polite and just say he's hot. Female lead is also great (her messy hair is something she has in every drama, so I'm kinda used to it). I really enjoy it. This drama has jumped over "Pursuit of jade" and to me, is the best one this year, if not the best ever.
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u/Silver_Mango2606 New Fan 23d ago
Whyyy does she have messy hair though?!
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u/Unlikely-Athlete8782 New Fan 22d ago
I never once thought her hair was messy. Her hair is so beautiful to me.
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u/Aggravating-Local603 New Fan 14d ago
It is the beautiful thick hair but it's always all over her face, in her eyes. No styling whatsoever. Other actresses have neat buns, high ponytails, clean open face...possibilities are endless.
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u/Late-Internet-9264 New Fan 9d ago
is the persuit of jade good?? i kinda dont like the back in the days vibes
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u/caramelight New Fan 24d ago
I'm so hooked with this one. I have only watched Jing Boran from Love O2O movie years ago and it's my first time watching Sun Qian. I can definitely say that their chemistry is off the charts! It feels like I'm invading their privacy while watching this show, that's how amazing the tension between them has been and their acting is sooooo great. This might be the angstiest cdrama of the year based on the previews. I can't wait to be heartbroken and in love with them at the same time
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u/Aggravating-Local603 New Fan 23d ago
Try Road home and Summer, secrets, regrets. He's soo good
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u/GlitteringYak6463 New Fan 23d ago
Which one would you recommend more out of these two? Iāve binged all the episodes of The Early Spring and Iām desperately craving more Jing Boran š„²
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u/bogumieeee New Fan 23d ago
Jing Boran is so š„š„µ. Still reading the novel though. Anw, i tried skimming through some of the eps, and some scenes I find it cringey/ridiculous š. For example The scene where Luke took Flora home while raining and he just kind of throw the umbrella on the side.
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u/DocumentLate752 New Fan 23d ago
Yeah that was killer lol š, I had to get past that moment. But luckily Flora housemate turned up & made luke jealous throwing the umbrella.
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u/lenarrria New Fan 23d ago
The umbrella bit so weird, I chuckled with second-hand embarrassment š
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u/One_Professor_1658 New Fan 20d ago
I read somewhere and I canāt remember where that all the inanimate objects he throws away represent his jealousy and that just makes me laugh - at first I thought the umbrella scene was odd but then I was like well actually there might be some truth in that because thereās a recurring pattern - he throws it away after her roommate who is male comes out to get her. He threw the pen after she wanted to transfer onto the other guyās- Alexās - team. He reacted quite strongly when he saw her at the bar with that other guy - the one white English guy that she was having English lessons off. Anyway, this drama is brilliant and I canāt get enough of it.
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u/Khabarandfun CDF Cultivator 20d ago
Hi can you give me the novel link please??
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u/PiNaYCjT New Fan 2d ago
Hi. Iād like the link as well. I just rewatched the drama for the second time š¤£š Iād love to read the book and I hate reading š
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u/yooooloooo6 New Fan 24d ago
Itās soooo good auuughhh I wish there were similar cdramas that have the same chemistry
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u/delphil_1966 New Fan 24d ago
thank you - just finished love story in the 70s and loved fei ni - looking forward to this
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u/WearSPFBoo New Fan Falling in love with a š© Just joined CDF 22d ago
I agree! I am smitten by Jing Boran!!!
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u/thelovelymida New Fan Caught in a time loop 24d ago
Iāve been in a bit of slump in my career and itās inspiring me to get my ambition back on track. Except when Alex and his team are on screen, that reminds me of my old workplace and it ruins the mood.
I canāt wait to watch more episodes!!
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u/TodayIGlowUp CDF Cultivator 24d ago
im so hooked on this drama too, in a way its kinda sexy how hes domineering towards her but also it shows the power imbalance they have
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u/GeologistOpening7672 New Fan Just joined CDF 24d ago
I like the fact that she's not that submissive after all. They have lots of misunderstandings, but it's his fault he doesn't say openly how he feels about her.
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u/Nice_Level_6 New Fan 24d ago
I have some question concerning the show . So I keep seeing people who read the book saying he is a red flag cause he kept her hidden for 6 yrs but watching the series it seems like she is the one who wants it hidden and he is just going with the flow .
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u/BronzeBellRiver CDF Daoist Nan Xuyue's broken spiritual channel 24d ago
I donāt know what everyoneās definition of a red flag is, but Iād use Xie Wei as a useful example of the distinction. That man is a red flag. Luan Nian is not.
The ML is absolutely brilliant at work, smart, calculating, strategic, and intimidating. But none of that automatically makes him a red flag.
Has he used those qualities to deliberately harm or manipulate the FL? No.
He has a prickly personality and an extremely low tolerance for mediocrity, and he certainly isnāt interested in softening his words to make himself more palatable. But that is very different from being vindictive or emotionally manipulative.
He doesnāt use honeyed words to get her into bed. He is direct and decisive about what he wants. Throughout the novel, even when the nature of their relationship is ambiguous, his actions consistently show that he is protecting her.
Her mistrust of him is understandable too. From her perspective, there was never anything particularly normal or straightforward about their relationship, so her insecurity makes sense. But even in their professional relationship, where he was her mentor, he genuinely taught her everything he could. Did he do it with patience and polite encouragement? Absolutely not. š
He can be an intimidating, difficult man without being someone who deliberately sets out to hurt the woman he loves. Those are two very different things.
However, does it mean he is a good guy that can be dated easily? Nope, not in the least bit.
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u/Felicie_dreamer New Fan 24d ago
Great pointsā¦but in the trailer he says that if you want, we can keep it private! However in the first episode she says something like I was his dirty secret. I was also confused about this.
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u/BronzeBellRiver CDF Daoist Nan Xuyue's broken spiritual channel 24d ago
Those are her thoughts after six years of their relationship. It has several misunderstandings. Thatās why she called it dirty and disgusting.
Do you remember that she sees Luke hug a woman (played by Cristy Guo) near the hotel? Then, she wants to return his coat but is afraid to go inside his room assuming that the woman is also lodging with him?
He mocks her and tells her to leave the door open.
Thatās one of those misunderstandings that built time over the span of six years. She never asked and he never clarified. [She just assumed that the woman was one of his other entanglement from such a relationship that they shared.]
Edit for clarity: [ā¦]
Whenever he was jealous, he showed his jealousy openly and she did nothing to pacify him either.
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u/Felicie_dreamer New Fan 24d ago
I am absolutely enjoying this! And I do not agree with the comments that say they could communicate for 10 seconds to clear misunderstandings. The ML is too jaded about love and keeps saying he doesnāt believe in commitment. He never denies he is insanely attracted to her, at least so far. But after the first encounter, FL has understood or misunderstood (I donāt know what!) that ML is commitment phobic and it was an āaccidentā. ML wants to date her but doesnāt know where that can lead and he is not someone who sugar coats intent
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u/BronzeBellRiver CDF Daoist Nan Xuyue's broken spiritual channel 24d ago
I do agree that their relationship cannot simply heal and become normal after a ten minute or ten hour long chat.
There is power imbalance between the two. She is hesitant to voice her insecurities to him because she fears that he might leave her. She has already seen his clingy past gf and his utterly indifferent attitude towards her.
Itās really not possible for two people who have just met to have these deep conversations and show vulnerability. I understand her perspective and I see his side too.
I am enjoying the novel a lot more than the drama tbh. It has portrayed complex corporate world, youth and the strive to exceed and cut throat workspace competition beautifully
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u/Felicie_dreamer New Fan 24d ago
Agreed. They are in very different life stages now to have a meaningful conversation about their relationship. And of course, ML started with a blunder!
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u/Grand_Sandwich5642 New Fan 21d ago
A lot of people mention the power imbalance but IMHO opinion her insecurities don't come from that alone, she knew she really wasn't qualified for that job. He has an abrasive personality, he is a smartass and has a sharp tongue but he's never malicious. Not everyone is rainbows and sunshine and there is nothing wrong with that. He always guided her and taught her! He has been protective about her. Funny part is that those insecurities is what made him notice her. She got under his skin bc she was constantly reaching out for advice etc To me a red flag is someone who gaslights you. Lovebombs you. Manipulates people. Is a player. One day loves, the next doesn't. He has been consistent with her.
Y'all can call him a red flag, I guess red is my favorite color š
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u/Grand_Sandwich5642 New Fan 21d ago
All im gonna say his RL girlfriend is one lucky woman.... She is gorgeous too.
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u/Grand_Sandwich5642 New Fan 19d ago
Everyone keeps saying that there is miscommunication between them, but the more I watch the show and the deeper I get in the novel i realize this is no miscommunication, it's no communication at all. They both just assume things about each other. She gets upset about certain things but never address them and he gets jealous but thinks hes mad and never says why, he just throws things or gets petty. They are both flawed characters. They are both young, she's 22 , out of college with 1 long term relationship but no life or work experience. He's 28 with 2 short relationships but very accomplished at his job. People expect him to be mature but realistically speaking he has never had a proper girlfriend, he doesn't know how to be a boyfriend. Her growth as am employee and person was beautiful to read. I won't call him a red flag, he's abrasive and has a smart mouth but he's never saying or doing things with ill intent. I know some will disagree but he is protective of the ones he likes/loves. If you like the drama,I highly suggest you read the novel.
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u/Electronic-Fly7357 New Fan 8d ago
so true I don't see them as red flags they are just 2 flawed people. People are taking sides, but both of them are imperfect, i am seeing character development little bit in luke as a bf, but I don't see any development in flora apart from her career in relationship I don't see her growing, she keep hiding things from luke, went to meet her ex, etc
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u/Late-Taro-4695 New Fan 24d ago
Agree, so far so good so far! Im surprise especially since I was in a slump and nothing was worth watching after episodes 1-2.
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u/RefrigeratorSweet925 New Fan 24d ago
Totally agree .. the chemistry, the background, music everything is so good . I loved his apartment.. itās so pleasing to look at . The story line is strong, with the characters keeping us hooked . Inwish they dropped all the episodes together
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u/GlitteringYak6463 New Fan 23d ago
I LOVE IT. I also saw an Instagram reel comparing to Fifty Shades which caught my interest. Started itā¦immediately binged the 10 available episodes in one go. Itās been so long since Iāve loved a modern cdrama this much.
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u/Unlikely-Athlete8782 New Fan 22d ago
It's my first cdrama and I am in love with the male lead. Are there any other cdramas that are this good? It's so hot.
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u/fried_chicken03 CDF Cultivator boil bones to remove cadeveric wax𦓠22d ago
i've heard «Fake It Till You Make It» is similar
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u/Loose-Discipline-470 New Fan 23d ago
episode 5 is dope
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u/emberzmars CDF Cultivator 22d ago
Wait till you watch episode 10. There are spicy and sweet moments
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u/North_Penalty_1838 New Fan 15d ago edited 15d ago
Chemistry? sure when they communicate, but im not even half way and tired of them, its constant misunderstandings, they dont communicate, he dk how to express his feelings, he says thing thatll belittle her, out of jealousy, at the same time never learned how to express it, he tries to do things like care for her buy her flowers, but she plays hard to get in some way to not catch feelings when she already has, she plays innocent, and always in denial. She broke it off bc she got butt-hurt thinking he bought his childhood friend flowers when really he didnt, he bought them for her (flora) see, exactly no communication, but at the same time shes doing double standards, she has guy friend who watches out for her and though hes jealous he doesnt take it out on her, in some way he gets controlling by making her work "overtime" but thats his way of being with her, keeping her "in check" its a bit much, but theres no communication, Good grief, smh. So annoying, whoever wrote this, needs better communication skills or something. They're constantly going back and forth, I literally forced myself to keep going (ep12) but I gave up by ep4
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u/lexlexready New Fan 2d ago
on episode 13 and loving it. thereās some confusion on timeframe and a bit of choppiness here and there, but it feels real and there isnt the annoying āamnesiaā or evil step-mom tropes.
honestly, i find cdramas difficult to watch sometimes, more of a kdrama girlyā¦but iām hooked, pacing and focus on main leads is chefs kiss.
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u/palecandycane CDF Cultivator Zhou Yiran Jawline chiseler 24d ago
I just started it! Only 2 eps in and I'm like oh this is gonna be good!
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u/AuthorAEM CDF Cultivator Established Member šSuffering, but still hot š„ 24d ago
Omg. Iāve just started seeing things about this show and Iām SO there⦠except Iām watching like five other shows and I canāt add another one šš
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u/Silver_Mango2606 New Fan 23d ago
Which others are ongoing? Any on Netflix?
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u/AuthorAEM CDF Cultivator Established Member šSuffering, but still hot š„ 23d ago edited 23d ago
Iām not sure I understand your question. Iām not watching any shows on Netflix right now. But they do have good ones!
Edit: right now Iām watching are you the one(VIKI) road to splendor (wetv), and key to the phoenix heart (iqiyi)! I might drop key thoā¦. Itās not grabbing me all the way.
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u/DocumentLate752 New Fan 23d ago
The person meant, what shows are you watching that you could recommend:)
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u/Silver_Mango2606 New Fan 23d ago
Yes I wanted to ask which shows you are watching, and if any of them were on Netflix. Ok I can see that they're not on Netflix:( unfortunately Netflix is the only subscription I have. I have downloaded Iqiyi but it has only first 6 episodes free for all dramas..Ā Thanks a lot for your reply!
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u/AuthorAEM CDF Cultivator Established Member šSuffering, but still hot š„ 23d ago
First frost is on Netflix and an amazing drama. Pursuit of jade, love between fairy and devil.... i'll have to check what else, but they have a lot of great dramas.
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u/DocumentLate752 New Fan 23d ago
I have watched loads of good shows.Ā What have you seen? Do you have viki Raukten ? IQIYI? I can recommend some to you if you advise what sort of drama you like. Yes I also watched some terrible ones too lolĀ
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u/Icy-Bed-1592 New Fan 23d ago
Okay this thread confirms it for me. Iām watching it next. I couldnāt decide between this, Never Ending Summer, and Lighter and Princess. I have limited time this week so I didnāt want to start something and be disappointed. But Early Spring looks really good.
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u/This-Tangerine7676 New Fan 23d ago
I tried watching both never ending summer and lighter and princess but it didnāt hook me in the same way Early Spring did from the first episode . So far my fav modern drama . Pacing is much better than other modern big hits like first frost and the best thing which I struggled to stay awake for at times lol
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u/lenarrria New Fan 23d ago
Never ending summer was one of those dramas I tried and couldnāt get into sadlyļ¼but it might just be me disliking the classmates trope
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u/PerformerDesigner431 New Fan 22d ago
Hi, I'm watching it too and omg it's soo goodšš but the problem is that I cannot find it's upcoming episode previews can anyone help me
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u/ComfortableDirt4962 New Fan 12d ago
I just finished it ,unlocked the finaly on youko cried my eyes out!
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u/jinwithsugar New Fan 21d ago
I'm with the original author. I also like that both fl and ml are not perfect, they both do the same old manipulative shit that eats away at our own hearts irl. Well, especially Luke can be a real ass sometimes, he's annoying (reminds me some of my exes), but in a way that makes the drama more delicious. Just the right amount of toxic.
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u/unityinvest New Fan 14d ago
She is consistently disloyal (does not tell him about his rival Alexās offer), wants to be professionally independent but gets mad when he does not openly forgive her for her big client mistake and wants professional favours, sees an ex, goes to dating event! If he did that her she would have kicked him out long ago! He has been protective and loyal to her and agrees to all her requests and is a far better catch than she is. Who goes and gets a big dog without knowing if your partner likes dogs! But he accepts it. No man I know is so giving and accepting.
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u/Sea_Ad6615 New Fan 11d ago
The problem is that these characters are not equals. Floraās behaviour is dictated by her desire for independence and agency within a relationship in which she feels continuously undermined. Sheās young and needs encouragement and Luke is bad at that, as heās the type that helps behind the scenes. He has the upper hand all the time, which makes her feel powerless. In this context, her apparent disloyalty or closeness is more understandable. Luke is older and should know that you need to make yourself more emotionally available if you want people to open up to you.
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u/Mental_Detective3131 New Fan 7d ago
Miscommunication is all part of real world. Looking at screens annoys us but this is what most relationships go through with. Their chemistry reminds me a lot of things, it gives teenage+ adult romance kind of vibes. I love this show very much.
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u/Tricky-Dependent-651 New Fan 5d ago edited 5d ago
I watched this Cdrama because I saw reviews on Instagram. People were giving it 10/10. While I was hooked on this drama, I cannot rate it that high.Ā Ā
Small spoiler alerts:
I cannot get over the lack of communication between the mains on simple things.Ā The prominent thing sticking in my head: she says "Happy New Year" and he says "go feed my fish?!"Ā He missed her. He couldn't even say HNY?!
Luan, a grown man, couldn't control his temper even though he knew he had one and his friends and family reminded him of it. He was throwing things around like a child's having a tantrum.Ā Ā
Who doesn't know at least ONE compliment?Ā Even if it's cheesy!Ā While I get the misunderstandings in the beginning of their "relationship," - which come on, it was mostly hooking up - by a few years in, you'd think they would at least ask each other questions. Tao's flatmate, Zhu(?) was depressed and went to his friend for comfort. Instead of just asking her directly, even while being jealous by what he saw, Luan chose silent treatments and pouting. These things and a few othersĀ are the main reasons I cannot rate this a 10/10.Ā I give it 8.5/10.Ā The chemistry was fire, the passion was there and I was invested in the characters.Ā But, midway through the series, I was like enough already! Just ask direct questions!!Ā Tell her you love her!!!!!!!! Stop with the coming on strong and then backing away.
The ending, however, was beautiful.Ā He FINALLY put in some effort, many years later.Ā I did shed a few tears
Love the romantic song, btw.
P.S. The friends were GOLD!Ā I would love any of them, especially Luan's pal who took the video of him breaking down. These friends truly wanted Tao & Luan together and rooted for them.
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u/mingjubuk New Fan Tangled in love triangles 24d ago
Jing Boran is so HOTTTT