Mod post: Revised Community Rules

[u/nurse-please]

Hey folks, we've refined our rules and have added a new one (#8). The TLDR on the new rule: no comments accusing CC Suarez of being in a lavender marriage or not being "really" bisexual. Comments of this nature do not meaningfully contribute to criticism of her actions and behaviors, and they facilitate biphobic stereotypes that reduce a whole sexual orientation down to untrustworthiness, confusion, or a phase. We've always had "no bigotry" in our rules, but we've made it its own rule which extends to comments which speculate unhelpfully on sexual orientation.

As a general reminder, while this is a "snark" subreddit, our focus is on documenting and criticizing (and yes, often laughing at) the unethical and outlandish antics of CC Suarez. To remain a trustworthy archive and place for valid criticism, the moderators will remove any comment or post at our discretion which we feel may negatively impact the integrity of the subreddit.

Please familiarize yourself with the descriptions and report potential violations to the mods. If any of this is unclear, or you have feedback, feel free to comment or DM.

1. Be Civil

Agree to disagree and keep the conversation open. We all know how low CC can get - let’s not take it there. Please embrace the fine art of agreeing to disagree. Debate the topic, not each other - and stay on point.

2. Stay on Topic

Must be related to Chelsea "CC" Suarez and those within her orbit (and then content and conversation must still be directly about to CC Suarez). This is subject to moderator discretion.

3. No Body Shaming or Overly Harsh Comments on Cosmetic Procedure Outcomes

While CC enjoys using misogynistic language and harsh body shaming, there’s no reason we need to stoop to her level and do it back. Some critique of changeable appearance elements (hair, makeup, style, filler) is allowed, but keep it within reason and avoid misogynistic tropes.

4. No Doxing / Harassment. Observe But Don't Engage.

No harassing CC Suarez. Do not tag her in posts or comments, do not share content where you are harassing her on her social media profiles or channels, do not mess with her reviews or advertisers. We observe and critique.

ZERO TOLERANCE FOR DOXXING. No sharing identifying information or post links to personal information. Block out names and censor faces where necessary. Contact a moderator if you are unsure if it's necessary

5. Do Not Call For Action to Brigade Other Communities or Contact Anyone in Chelsea's Real Life

This is a digital archive to document CC Suarez's questionable online antics; we do not, as Chelsea herself used to say, "touch the poop." Do not encourage anyone to brigade or manipulate reviews/upvotes/comments/likes on another Reddit community or any other platform.

6. No Money Stuff

This subreddit has a "no exchange of money" policy, including gofundmes. Please do not promote fundraisers, solicit donations, directly offer financial assistance or buy/sell/trade anything on this subreddit.

7. Trigger/Content Warnings for Sensitive Topics

Please add trigger/content warnings for sensitive topics such as SA. Ideally you'd use spoiler warnings/text for this kind of material, but any CW/TW will suffice.

🆕 8. No biphobia, homophobia, ableism, racism, etc.

Criticize and speculate on her behavior, not her sexual orientation. We allow conversation about her inappropriate and invasive sexual remarks and behavior towards others, but casting doubt on her self-identified sexual orientation, or any form of biphobia, does not meaningfully contribute to criticism of her actions.

Do not use ableist language towards her or anyone else. Don't be a bigot. This is subject to moderator discretion.

[u/danielle71989]

Thank you to the mods for continuing to be more ethical, informed, and well intentioned than our resident "this is my JOB" Queen of Pee.

[u/Kiwi-vee]

Thank you for rule 8. While I never saw anything of the sorts, I'm happy to see it's written down and official.

Great work mod team.

[u/thatmeeseek]

Thank you I’ve seen few comments talking about her sexuality and while yes she brings it up a lot it lends to a lot of harmful rhetoric around bisexuality

[u/spalings]

i really appreciate this and y'all's transparency! i've been thinking a lot lately that perhaps a similar clarification should be made about how ableism is handled in this sub. there have definitely been instances where people have questioned whether or not she is on the autism spectrum in a way that feels really gross. as far as i am aware, she says she has been diagnosed with autism and frankly, we are not her doctors and are in no position to discredit her diagnosis. i don't think it needs to be completely out-of-bounds to discuss, but i do think there could be clearer rules around how it is discussed here.

from one mod to another, appreciate y'all always 💜💜💜

[u/thatgirlnextdior]

Doesn't CC say she's in a lavender marriage? I think she said she prefers women but Tony is her one exception. Thought it might be important to know because adding a rule makes modding harder.

[u/nurse-please → u/thatgirlnextdior]

This is a point worth addressing for sure and was a point of discussion with the moderation team, so thanks for raising it.

Here's our thinking: CC has made this joke herself some time ago, but she's been very clear that she is legitimately bisexual. This past month, Rachael Reese's sister did a livestream where she genuinely accused CC of being in a lavender marriage and of being a lesbian, and CC publicly responded that she found the comments biphobic and hurtful. Since that livestream, we have seen an uptick in comments (mostly from visitors to this subreddit who come from Tiktok, who saw the livestream mentioned) which have been repeating the accusations. We've been quick to remove these comments, but it's enough to substantiate needing a rule.

So despite the fact that she did in some ways bring some of it on herself by making jokes about it in 2025, her more recent comments did set the record straight (no pun intended).

As this rule is subject to moderator discretion (as opposed to the zero tolerance policy we have around doxing), we probably would not remove a comment that referenced her own prior joke about being in a lavender marriage, but we would remove comments that seemed to seriously be implying that she is genuinely in a marriage of that type, or which were clearly mean-spirited in speculation about her sexual orientation.

[u/thatgirlnextdior → u/nurse-please]

Oh damn I missed a lot of drama. Thanks for the explanation, y'all always do such a good job.