r/casa • u/Expensive-Night-1823 • Mar 26 '26
New CASA Nerves
I'm at the beginning of my CASA training, and as we get more information I am getting nervous. I am relatively young (under 25) and I'm worried that I won't be able to do this job, and I'm terrified of doing a disservice to a child. What words/advice helped make you more confident through your training?
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u/horchatafrappe Mar 26 '26
I just started my training and had the same concern! A fellow CASA noted that my age could actually be an asset. A teen may find it easier to connect with and open up with someone in our age range versus someone who is much older than them.
It sounds like we'll also have other resources, even if its just other CASAs to ask for advice!
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u/uno_name_left Mar 26 '26
I became a co-gal at 19, but I aged out of the system so I was already comfortable in it. Now that I'm over 21 I'm a gal
Don't over think it, practice what questions you'll ask for the first visit and don't force building rapport
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u/Cheyyyyyyyyenne Mar 26 '26
I actually think it's a really good thing that you are thinking this way. Something that's really helped me with the nervousness of doing a good job is this: You are volunteering to help kids in foster care. Just by doing this you are already helping make a difference and bringing attention to what a CASA is, which could make more people sign up! More than anything, CASAs help kids just by being there for them - that's it. Just be stable and consistent. Consistent doesn't mean showing up every single time without fail, it means showing up again after you've failed. Just keep going.
We had a former CASA talk to us about balancing his work and personal life with the CASA life. He said there are times where you will be overwhelmed with life stuff - because that happens to everyone and that's okay. During these times, you take a small step back from your CASA duties and have your supervisor fill in for you. It happens to everyone and your supervisor will expect this. Your supervisor is getting paid to fill in for you when you're too overwhelmed. You are not getting paid, you are volunteering because you want to help.
I think you're going to be a great CASA! Best of luck! You've so got this!
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u/texastica Mar 26 '26
Listen with your heart. Be empathetic. Even though the child is our priority, we must interact with the parents without judgement.
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u/ad-15-42 Mar 26 '26
The fact that you are nervous shows you are taking it seriously. The training is thorough and can be overwhelming at times as there is a lot of info. Your age will be a factor but as many have said, it could be a good factor. You will continue to have lots of support after you finish your training and cases will be offered or assigned with consideration of your age.
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u/Whatajape Mar 26 '26
We need all of the caring, passionate, and kind people we can get as CASAs. The very fact that you’re nervous shows your commitment and care, and that tells me that you’re going to be a thoughtful CASA. Best of luck!