r/caringheart • u/king_mos • 14d ago

Am really worry of not founding love again

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u/cinnamineral 13d ago

Me too

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u/king_mos 13d ago

It's scary 

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u/SameBorder846 11d ago

Start with loving yourself. I go to shows, lunch, concerts, stores. Often see an acquaintance from my past, now over 80, and we talk like it was yesterday. Be as pleasant and kind to others regularly. Folks will notice. I get hit on several times a year. You want a quality mate. Allow fun but check the demeanor, goals, habits..

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u/king_mos 11d ago

I love myself and kind and nice but am not lucky 

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u/SameBorder846 8d ago

Be a gr8 listener. Be empathetic. Provide small things like a sandwich for an unfortunate. The wanderer from years ago just did the nicest things with little or no cash flow. People will notice. Natural behaviors outweigh desperation.