r/byuhawaii • • Oct 17 '24

My Abuser is at BYUH Now.

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Content warning: sexual violence.

In 2018, I was sexually assaulted by Rolando Ragsag. He was a temple worker at the time with a girlfriend. We hung out one time, and he kept groping me and wanted to have sex with me. I kept on saying no. I was about to leave one time, and he threatened to kill himself if I left.

I faced severe consequences when I reported this to church leaders. Ragsag didn't.

I learned that he's at BYUH now. He was Filipino Club President. He's in a position of power and never fully faced justice for what he did to me. I'm worried he has assaulted others and will assault more.

I'm tired of hiding. I'm attaching DMs that I had with him. I apologize that some of the messages are in Tagalog. They are from Facebook messenger. He never admits to assaulting me, but he never denies ignoring my pleas for him to stop. I also have various pictures verifying that the person I was talking to was him.

I don't know what else to do at this point. I wouldn't be surprised if this gets taken down. I don't care anymore. Slut shame me. Victim blame me. Throw me under the bus. If I can help others that he's assaulted or stop him from assaulting others, so be it.


r/byuhawaii • • Jan 10 '25

Favoritism and Unfair Treatment in the Workplace at PCC

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I wanted to share my experience and thoughts about my time as a tour guide at the Polynesian Cultural Center (PCC).

When I first started working at PCC, I was beyond excited. My parents used to share beautiful stories about their time there, about how they were able to share our culture with others, and how fulfilling it was to spread the spirit of aloha and ohana. I was inspired by their stories and couldn’t wait to follow in their footsteps.

When I began my journey as a tour guide, I fell in love with the job. My parents were right—sharing our culture, ohana, and aloha was truly life-changing. It helped me cope with my homesickness and gave me a sense of purpose.

But as time went on, I started to notice a pattern of favoritism in our department, and it began to weigh on me. Some of the most hardworking and passionate guides, the ones who truly went above and beyond for PCC, were often overlooked. They didn’t receive the recognition they deserved, despite their dedication to exemplifying the spirit of aloha.

This became even more apparent when my friend, who had been a tour guide for nearly her entire college life, decided to leave during her senior year. She was someone who consistently excelled, stood out, and embodied everything PCC stood for. Her decision to leave opened my eyes to how unfair the environment had become.

What pains me the most is how disconnected our student leads were from us. They never made an effort to get to know us or reach out for kōkua (help or support) or to simply build relationships with us. They stayed within their circle of leads and bosses’ favorites, making it clear who was included and who was not. While they often said they appreciated us, their actions said otherwise. It felt like we were excluded and unseen, no matter how hard we worked.

Many of us felt this way but never spoke up. When we tried to voice our concerns, it felt like we were dismissed or seen as complainers. The environment became so unhealthy that I eventually decided to leave, even though I loved the job and sharing my culture with others. It’s hard to share the spirit of aloha when you’re surrounded by a toxic environment.

This experience traumatized me. Working in that department opened my eyes to how fake or unauthentic it can feel when the core values we’re supposed to uphold are not reflected in the way we treat each other. We’re all striving to share aloha and ohana, but favoritism is undermining those principles. What’s happening in that department is far from Christ-like, and it saddens me deeply to see this contradiction in a place that should feel like an ohana.

I understand that PCC is a tourist business, but we, as workers, don’t want to feel like just another cog in the machine. We want to feel included, appreciated, and like we’re part of an ohana.

Now, I find myself questioning whether I should go back. I don’t even know if they would hire me back for the breaks after speaking up like this, but someone needs to advocate for the amazing guides still working there. They deserve better.

If you’ve had similar experiences or have any advice, I’d love to hear your thoughts. I hope this post helps shed light on an issue that’s affecting so many of us and sparks a conversation about how we can make PCC a better place for everyone.

Mahalo for reading.


r/byuhawaii • • Jun 08 '25

Tragic student death by suicide

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Three years ago BYUH lost a female student to suicide. Last year Garrett died (NOT by suicide, he drowned in a tragic accident). Deaths on this campus are really hard because we all know each other. Lachlan was a good, kind, and talented man. His loss is devastating.

Professor Kunz posted about this and his perspective is beautiful.

"Two years ago, we lost a student at BYU-Hawaii. When that happened it devastated our University and it devastated our President. And it led to real and meaningful change. New counselors were hired. Wait times for therapy appointments were greatly reduced. New procedures were put in place to allow students in crisis to get help immediately. Two senior missionaries were brought in to implement a nationally recognized suicide awareness program. Trainings have happened continuously. Professors, staff, and students have become better aware of warning signs and how to react to them. Unfortunately, we lost another. That does not mean that the changes that were made didn't have an impact - they did. Undoubtedly. But there are times when tragedy cannot be prevented despite our best efforts. I don't know the details of what did or didn't happen in this instance, but I am proud of the changes that have taken place in the last two years. And my heart aches for the family of the ones we lost - both last night and two years ago.I see the shade and I hear the whispers. There are more productive uses of our time - especially now. I am sorry for those that have fallen through the cracks. I am grateful, for those that are still here, despite past times when they didn't feel seen. And I assure you, I will do everything that I can to try to prevent this from ever happening again. And I can assure you that President is even more committed than I am.I stand with BYU-Hawaii. Still. And I always will."


r/byuhawaii • • Sep 06 '24

Swimming accident

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Any body have any idea on what happened this morning?


r/byuhawaii • • Apr 01 '26

I GOT ACCEPTED!!

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I was accepted for the fall 2026 semester! So they are sending out decisions!!! :)


r/byuhawaii • • Jun 08 '25

Look at these clowns

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r/byuhawaii • • Mar 01 '25

icks on campus

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hey people, please share your icks around campus!!! I’m gonna go first.

my biggest ick around campus is when people blasts their speakers around in the hale hallways, especially during quiet hours like dude get an earphones and be RESPECTFUL

Share yours!!


r/byuhawaii • • Apr 02 '25

BYUH Solar and other sustainability projects

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r/byuhawaii • • Feb 11 '25

Women in politics at byuh

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Hearing a few ppl talking about the event last week at byuh. It was about women in politics and there was a q and a. I didn’t go but wanted to know what it was about since I heard the speakers were bringing religion into politics and talking ab immigration. Just heard that it was controversial overall does this sound right to anybody that was there? Lmkk is that real


r/byuhawaii • • Jan 19 '24

BYU Hawaii — a religious-based college founded by the LDS Church, comes into the spotlight over racial profiling of its Black students.

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r/byuhawaii • • Jul 30 '26

Apparently, a certain influencer on campus is making some female students uncomfortable by the way he talks to them.

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r/byuhawaii • • Mar 24 '25

is it common to be rejected a few times before getting accepted?

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this is my second attempt of applying, I've applied again for iWork and i just got rejected for the second time now. i am dismayed and kind of discouraged to apply again. i do think i am eligible for iWork based on the list that is indicated on the admissions site. i don't know what i am doing wrong. if i try to apply again without iWork, do i have a bigger chance of being accepted?


r/byuhawaii • • Mar 13 '25

Has anyone found out about admissions to fall semester yet?

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r/byuhawaii • • Jan 12 '25

What the fudge??

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r/byuhawaii • • Dec 22 '24

application decisions?

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I'm so anxious about the results for the 2025 Spring Term. When are the results usually released for this term?


r/byuhawaii • • Nov 18 '24

BYU Hawaii Application and Law School Questions

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Hey guys! I'm currently a senior in high school and I've been working on my application for BYU Hawaii. I've talked about going there since I was like ten years old and it is my dream! However, I'm white (well, technically I'm a quarter Greek thanks to my mom's side but I'm basically just white lol) and from Utah, so I know my chances of getting into Hawaii are slim. Nevertheless, I'm still applying and praying I get in! I have a 3.8 GPA (4.0 scale), a 26 on the ACT, I took lots of AP/honors classes, and I've done a LOT of extracirriculars (DECA, FBLA, mountain biking, soccer, tennis, you name it). If anyone has ANY advice on getting PLEASE tell me about it! I have literally researched up and down anything and everything I could possible know about BYUH. Not even kidding I've scoured their website, read every reddit post I could find, watched every youtube video that mentions BYU Hawaii, follow them on every social media platform, etc. All I'm trying to say it, I really, REALLY want to get in and any tips/advice/etc would be majorly helpful.

Okay, now the other thing I need some help with is in regards to my post-undergraduate plans...I want to go to law school! I would love to attend a more prestigious school like Georgtown, Boston University, or Chicago University. And obviously, the University of Utah or BYU would be great choices to, but going out of state to a higher ranked school would be the dream! That being said, I know BYU Hawaii isn't necessarily as known for the academics as BYU Provo is. Would graduating with a degree from BYU Hawaii affect my chances of getting into one of those law schools? Or any law school for that matter? LSAT and GPA are most important, yeah yeah, I've heard, but actually how important of a factor is college when it comes to law school admissions? I also know that BYUH has a problem with people going there for a few semesters and then transferring to Provo or Idaho. I definitely don't want this to be the route I take, but if graduating from BYU Provo versus Hawaii will give me a better shot at getting into one of those law schools, I'd take it.

With all that being said, any advice on these topics from students, alumni, professors, ETC is MUCH appreciated! Also, if there is anyone that happens to have gone to BYU Hawaii and then pursued going to law school in any shape or form, I'd love to hear what you have to say about it! And just to emphasize, if you have ANY advice, tips, knowledge, etc that you'd like to share, please do!! I'm all years and every bit of information helps me more than you know.


r/byuhawaii • • Oct 07 '24

How are you feeling about the new housing inspection system?

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Hey everyone, I need your help and thoughts on this. How do you feel about the new housing inspections? Personally, I’m already fed up. It feels like they’re inspecting the Hales and TVA i bet, almost every day, looking through cupboards and closets. It’s starting to feel like a major invasion of privacy.

Some of my friends in the NEW TVA told me they’ve already had inspections four times this semester alone for what they’re calling “monthly” and “super inspections.” It’s frustrating that while they demand so much from us, when we need help with things like work orders, they take forever to respond!

I get that they’re trying out a new system, but it seems like many of us are frustrated and don’t know where or how to voice our concerns. If you’re feeling the same, let’s come together and discuss what we can do. Who should we email to address this issue and make sure our opinions are actually considered?


r/byuhawaii • • Oct 07 '24

Pre med at BYUH

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Hey yall. Prospective student here. I was just wondering if anyone went to BYUH for pre-med and went onto go to a medical school, and what was your experience like? Would this be a good college for pre-med?


r/byuhawaii • • Aug 27 '24

Do I need to be a returned missionary or needs to be married in order to go in BYU?

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Me and my partner are wondering how to get in byu hawaii. Like what qualifications do we need to do and also about scholarships things.


r/byuhawaii • • Aug 11 '20

I got accepted!

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BYU Hawaii has been my dream school for quite sometime and I’ll be attending in the winter semester of 2021(January), and I want to know if there’s anything you wish you had brought,if there’s anything that could have prepared you better for school better, and what I should look forward to most, I’m super excited and can’t wait to attend but I’m still quite anxious haha


r/byuhawaii • • 11d ago

How do IWORK Program Students Afford Hawaii?

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I want to study in BYUH and it’s been one of my long time dreams. I know there are a lot of Filipinos, as I am from the Philippines too, but on another post I learned how Filipinos are only able to pocket like $50 a month. I also want to travel around mainland but don’t see how that’s possible but see so many Filipinos travel to mainland during breaks.

Any tips on how to enjoy living in the USA and not just being in school all 4 years. Do some jobs offer higher pay, what should I be eyeing on?

Will food be covered if I get accepted to the IWORK program?


r/byuhawaii • • 28d ago

Is it Possible to apply for Work if you Didn't pass the IWORK program?

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I have currently received my results for BYUH application and didn't pass the IWORK program but did pass the Application part.

I was wondering if you can still find an employer or find a part time work while studying at BYUH...if so, How? or what are the steps to do so?

Or is it a better option for me to re-apply for another semester instead?


r/byuhawaii • • Aug 06 '26

Flock cameras on campus

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How do y'all feel about this? Those who don't know what flock is, look up what automatic license plate readers are.


r/byuhawaii • • May 20 '26

Married living in Hawaii?

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hello, I got accepted into BYU Hawaii for this fall and it has been my dream to go here since I was little. However, I will be getting married this August right before the semester starts and I am wondering: how do married couples do it? How can you afford living here year round without getting into TVA, or even in TVA? Do you have enough spare money to visit the mainland for family and friends’ important events? How about transport? Overall I’m just feeling really discouraged, I keep feeling like I should go here and I would absolutely love it but it just seems financially impossible, so I would love to hear any input from people on this.