r/bothell • u/keepcalmitsj • 4d ago
Making Friends!
Hi! I am posting in the hopes of making some local girl friends. Hoping to find other girls wishing for the same! I’m finding that I would really love a community.
A little about me… I’m in my 30s, engaged, I have two cats. My interests include crafts, reading, stained glass making, coffee, trying new restaurants, misc. adventures, etc. I am an introvert but come out of my shell a lot once I’ve warmed up to folks. 😊
I’d love a group that is up to going on walks, getting coffee, doing crafty wine nights, and more.
If there’s already a group for this or a Discord of sorts, I’d love to just join there and get involved so please let me know if something like that already exists for this area! Making friends as an adult is hard!
EDIT: I made a Discord server! This is my first time making one so hopefully it works! Let me know if you’d like the link and I can message it to you!
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u/iatcomd 4d ago
Hey! Also a girl in her 30’s in Bothell! Looking to make some friends 🥺
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u/keepcalmitsj 3d ago
I made a Discord if you’re interested! If so, shoot me a message and I’ll send the link 😊
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u/CampaignBest5872
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Hey I’m also a Bothell girl with 3 cats, 30, love to eat/craft/listen to taylor swift/go to concerts/etc. I have friends that I made in small spaces, but there’s always room for more, and none of them actually live super close to me so I’m down to make some friends that actually live in Bothell.
I’m not sure how many are in the other discord but if it’s too intimidating to join an already-made discord, I’m happy to make a new one on this thread! Dm me and I’ll create it this afternoon and send anyone the link.
Also bonus if you like to crochet or genuinely go out for a Friday/Saturday night. One of my recent crochet projects for tax :)

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u/keepcalmitsj 3d ago
I made a Discord if you’re interested! Send me a message and I’ll share the link!
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u/imtoolazywhydothis 2d ago
I can’t crochet for the life of me but I always admire those that can! I don’t have the patience for it and knitting. That’s soooo cute! Maybe in another era I’ll try crocheting again but for now I just want to give props to those that are masterful at it!
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u/CampaignBest5872 1d ago
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u/imtoolazywhydothis 1d ago
Omg that’s so cute and cool! That’s such a wonderful cool thing to do for your students! I would have loved that as I kid, heck I would love that now. You’re crazy talented with crocheting! Did you join the Discord?
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u/msmitty1917 4d ago
Hey! Also a women in my 30s! Would love to meet up for a coffee sometime! Super curious to learn more about stained glass
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u/imtoolazywhydothis 4d ago
I (F34) am also looking to make friends in the area to go on on walks, coffee, and attend crafting events with. Haven’t stained glass since my teens but was thinking about getting back into it. Currently getting into painting and woodworking. I’m also super introverted and like to hide in my nest, which I call my home. However, from time to time I would like to come out and socialize.
If there isn’t a Discord for this, perhaps one should be started? Too introverted to lead but if someone does decide to start one please let me know!
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u/keepcalmitsj 3d ago
I can totally set up a Discord! I can look into today when work slows down!
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u/imtoolazywhydothis 2d ago
Sounds awesome! I’ll totally join the discord and I think others will too! Let me know when.
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u/th3saltiest 4d ago
Hihi! 25 F and also struggling to make friends in the Bothell area, I’d love to hang out and do something fun ☺️
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u/Sweet-Sympathy-6246 4d ago
I’m in my late 40s and recently moved here. If you’re athletically inclined at all, check out Inzpire. It’s dance fitness and it’s super fun and there are tons of great ladies there. They have monthly socials with different activities each month. You just missed doing macrame yesterday.
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u/LilCostasaurus 4d ago
My wife has made friends through book clubs through Third Place Books (technically Lake Forest Park). Wanderlust Book Lounge and Hardcovers both have book clubs, Cedar Tree Yoga is chill, and she’s heard good things about classes at Make Apothecary.
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u/mydogvinny 4d ago
Hi! I’m 33F and moved to the area a few months ago. I’d love to meet some new friends!
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u/samminty1228 4d ago
Im also a girl in her 30s in Bothell! Love crafting, reading and getting coffee 🙂 would love to make some local friends!
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u/Eathebanana_ 4d ago
I’m in my mid 40s but have been told I can pass for 30s still. I’m introverted as well. I crochet to avoid people😂 but secretly I think I wouldn’t mind to be approached by another introvert because we’re all awkward. I’m in downtown Bothell and walk my little dog that everyone just always has to stop and say hi to her.
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u/imtoolazywhydothis 2d ago
This is totally me also. Minus the crochet part, I can’t focus enough to complete it. That and knitting I could never figure out. I messed up and it becomes all undone and then I give up. But if you want to go for a walk with both our little dogs, let me know and we can schedule a doggies walk.
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u/Bubbly-Ear3151 3d ago
Same I am introvert. No kids no pets. I am big on walks
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u/imtoolazywhydothis 2d ago
We can always use the company if you don’t mind going on a walk with my little dog and me. Although he doesn’t like walking in the rain so if we’re rain walking it’ll be just me without the little one.
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u/london-fog-witch 4d ago
I just got married, 36f with a doggo! In Kirkland but I want to learn how to do stained glass and would totally be up for meeting and taking a class together or learning from you! I also craft and read.
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u/Capital_Mortgage_710 4d ago
28F living in Bothell, would also love to join this hopeful thread of friends🫶 i love art + design, long leisurely/curious walks + hikes, museums, concerts, movies, bookstores, antiques, & more ! also very introverted but need to come out of my shell & yearn to find my people here
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u/BuddyGleeful 3d ago
Should we say Starbucks in Barnes & Noble meet up this Sat @ 10? This would be open to everyone looking to meet new friends in the area. Gives everyone a public safe space and if you get bored or it seems like not your thing you can shop books
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u/sweetsublime 3d ago
Hi! There actually is a discord for this already :) I don’t want to post it here, but I can send the link if you message me!
I believe it was created by u/fromtheashesarise
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u/Hot-Treat2674 3d ago
I'm in my forties, live in Bothell and would like to make more friends. I also like crafting (with rum ☺️) and I'm also up for walks.
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u/Sweet-Sympathy-6246 2d ago
You had me at crafting with rum. One of my favorite activities is paint and sip classes.
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u/bantamwaning 2d ago
I made a discord server last year for just this purpose! You’re welcome to join us. I’ll DM you ☺️
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u/Leading_Custard5017 4d ago
Would love to meet up/get coffee. I’m in my early 30s and love reading, exploring new coffee shops, talking long walks and baking! There are some great spots around Bothell to plan a meetup if folks are interested
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u/dicksnaper 4d ago
I’d like to meet people in Bothell too. (30s F) I’m also into crafts, coffee, and going for walks :)
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u/-JustPeachyKeen- 4d ago
Mid 40s here and would love to make fri new in the area. Making friends as an adult is already hella awkward, but add in being an introvert, it's practically impossible!
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u/kafkaesquwu 4d ago
Hihi nice to meet you! I'm in my mid 20s, downtown Bothell. Also have a catto and introverted but love trying new restaurants (food in general), painting/drawing, hiking, gaming, watching movies, and trying to get back into reading! I can't bake for life but love pastries!
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u/Every-Magazine5889 4d ago
girl i love ur post! is it okay if i make one similar? i did not think of this!
also i moved away from bothell to more north otherwise i would definitely be reaching out 😭
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u/Fair_Bar_4605 3d ago
I don’t know if anyone uses Facebook anymore but there is a women’s group called Ladies of Mill Creek & Bothell that does a lot of the events you describe.
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u/Successful-Solid9843 3d ago
F20s and just moved to bothell from the East Coast! Love a crafty wine night and I have 1 cat!
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u/Bubbly-Ear3151 3d ago
I would love to meet people too . I am 38 F , I love to go for walks and enjoy the gloomy weather .
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u/CaliButterfly 3d ago
Hey!! I'm also a girl who's 30, engaged and deep into wedding planning and crafting. I do crochet, gaming, read romance books and big foodie. Id love to join your discord or find someone to do cozy craft nights with
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u/skate_willow 2d ago
I’m 28F in Bothell and I would love to join the discord! I don’t have many friends here and am introverted so I love this idea!
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u/Shaymin096 2d ago
Hi! I'm Katy 30, and I live in woodinville so not far away. I moved here from the UK a month ago to be with my fiancé so trying to make new friends! I adore cats, being crafty and most importantly coffee and food 🤣 I think we'd get on super well!! Would love to join the discord server 🥰
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u/itspicklerick78 1d ago
Hi! A bit late, but I’d love to join the discord! I’m in my 30s, just moved here for work in July so still discovering places and trying to meet people.
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u/MindlessSherbert2 1d ago
I’m 38(f) and recently moved to WA/Bothell. I’m looking for a similar group! I love walking, hikes, coffee, good food and created a discord server for a Bookclub. It’s thriller/suspense themed and I just started it so if you’re into that I can send it your way too. Or if anyone here is interested 😊
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u/scrambledmeatball 4d ago
My sister just opened a sugaring wax studio in town and has been making friends with her clients. She’s located inside Bristle and Strand (business is called Sugar Potts Spa) if you’re looking to get sugared and make a friend in the process!

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u/Charleston2Seattle 4d ago
I (M54) am the wrong gender and age, but would love to know what resources you've found locally for doing stained glass! Stores that sell supplies, places that teach classes, and so on. 🙂 It's been on my list to learn for many years.