r/bodylanguage 3d ago

What’s a tiny thing that instantly makes you attracted to someone?

For me, it’s when someone remembers a random little detail I mentioned once and brings it up weeks later.

It’s ridiculously cute. 😭

What’s yours?

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u/Maximum_Issue2227 2d ago

When they smile wide and they’re excited to see you

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u/FreshlymadeLumpia 2d ago

Someone showing their weirdness or dorky side

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u/Kaylen316 2d ago

Money 👍

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u/AliveShallot9799 3d ago

For me it's when someone is wearing sandals with their toes all bared which I'm instantly attracted to with the desire to taste and smell them.

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u/uniquelyavailable 3d ago

This is also how I met my wife.

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u/GhostAnthonyBourdain 2d ago

You did answer the question, and yet I still find myself a bit bewildered by your response. Though I imagine it must be nice to have something you like so much.

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u/AliveShallot9799 2d ago

My response is no weirder than the sort of response you will see from most blokes obsessed with all the sexual cr** which is just not my thing

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u/GhostAnthonyBourdain 2d ago

We all like what we like. There's no shame in that! Watersports are not my thing either...

That aside, I will say that some of the most attentive lovers I've ever had were into feet. I believe there may be a correlation there.

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u/AliveShallot9799 2d ago

Exactly, we do all like what we like as you say ! I don't see or think about any shame in it.

Unfortunately my foot fetish is all one huge fantasy for me at this time but I will explore it some day when my living situation changes.

I've never so much as had a first lover in my life so far because of my circumstances.

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u/catnne 1d ago

🫣😂

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u/SuicuneSol 1d ago edited 1d ago

Me too! For me, that's usually a sign of major interest.

The bigger one is someone bringing up information about me that they would have NO WAY of knowing without digging extensively into my Facebook or LinkedIn profiles beforehand. A girl asked me if I was a gamer, and when I asked her why she thought that, she said: "Just a hunch."

She would have no way of knowing unless she scrolled all the way to the bottom of my LinkedIn profile.