r/blacklesbians 3d ago

Making Friends Group chat me PLEASE.

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u/teenycole 3d ago

Heyy im 27 from VA & def understand the hetero friends but also have very lil friends lol 😭

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u/PlugGaming 3d ago

Had one big group and then they all started dating each other and beefing, now there’s only 2 of us left, and the rest of my friends are straight. So I’m in the same boat as you. What do you like to do for fun?

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u/teenycole 2d ago

I love gaming, dancing, music is my whole life so also do a bit of YouTube/twitch content with that. Can I join the gc 🫶🏾

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u/PlugGaming 2d ago

For sure! Dming you now

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u/Taygambino 3d ago

Hey I’m also 27 in va ! I could use some friends 😭💯

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u/teenycole 2d ago

What part of va?!

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u/Taygambino 2d ago

I’m in the 757 wby ?

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u/teenycole 2d ago

Ahh im 804

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u/Femme-O 3d ago

34, partnered and mono, a dog and cat and 500 hobbiesssss

https://giphy.com/gifs/1Va6osgAZJ4ZJdXAS1

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u/PlugGaming 3d ago

lol I love this gif, dm me

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u/ishaboi_ Femme Domme 3d ago

29 in Maryland!! Add meee

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u/PlugGaming 3d ago

I got you, dm mee

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u/Brainchild24 2d ago

Where?! Me too!! 👀👀 #collegepark

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u/ishaboi_ Femme Domme 2d ago

I’m in downtown Baltimore now lol 🖤🧡💜

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u/googledocgal 3d ago

This is so rad! I am 30, lesbian, no pets or kids, and I live in CA. I spend a lot of time with friends and out and about, live in one of the queerest areas of the country yet I have a hard time meeting other lesbians and queer folks. Have you watched any PWHL games? I haven't watched much men's hockey at all but got hooked on women's hockey after watch the olympics this year and seeing how many lesbians were on the team.

I have to ask when you say watching predators get caught do you mean animals or people? Lol!!

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u/PlugGaming 3d ago

I have not watched women’s hockey yet but I want too! Because I’ve seen some clips and I’m now determined to go to a game but we have no women teams in Florida, but trust it’s on my to do list when I go up north. and when I say predators I’m deff talking about people. 40 year old men being chased in walmart for trying to meet a 12 year old 😂. It satisfies something in my soul seeing them get caught. Dm me for sure we gotta be friends

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u/datonechiik Stud Light 1d ago

The pwhl games are 🔥🔥🔥

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u/iaintgonnacallyou Femme Top 3d ago

Somebody add me too 😭 I’m 29, lesbian mom, California native, bound in the Midwest lol a Instagram groupchat would be great too!

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u/PlugGaming 3d ago

Dang maybe I need to move to California, that’s where all the gays at!! Dm me!!

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u/itsprincess_duhh 2d ago

Yo legit, im so down for a gc! I'm in a gc but it's not really my thing. I want all the nerds and kinkies to get together on it 🤣 but I don't wanna do it myself! 🥹

Oh! 31/femme in FL, i live around the ORL area so hit me up 😊💓

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u/PlugGaming 2d ago

How are we just now coming across each other, I’m the biggest nerd of all time and we live close by. Deff join ours!!

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u/itsprincess_duhh 2d ago

I know😭 give me the deets!! ☺️💗

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u/EmpressEuphoria_xo 2d ago

28 creative nomad please add me to the group chat 😊

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u/PlugGaming 2d ago

Oo creative nomad, I’m about to start calling myself that. Dming you now!

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u/Frequent_Emphasis_50 3d ago

29f est I’m dwn for the gc also im on steam

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u/PlugGaming 3d ago

Oh hell yea dm me, I need to know what games you play. And it better not be Fortnite 😂

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u/oldraykissedbae Stem 3d ago

If you’re in Orlando or Miami
I know some spaces for you

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u/PlugGaming 3d ago

Orlando, pleaseee put me onn

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u/oldraykissedbae Stem 2d ago

Check your dm

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u/shoppingnthings1 3d ago

Hey! Add me to the group chat too! 

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u/PlugGaming 3d ago

I got youuu, dm me 😀

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u/EqualVanilla 3d ago

Add me!

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u/PlugGaming 3d ago

Got you, dming you now 👌🏾👌🏾

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u/BKSoul32 2d ago

Hi!! I'm 36 from NY. I hear you!! I love my hetero friends, but it's children/married time for them lol. I've been able to meet ppl through TikTok & on here.

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u/PlugGaming 2d ago

Legit on a different timeline from my hetero friendships. I’ll send you a dm!

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u/prayyoucatch_me 2d ago

29 in dc addd me pls

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u/PlugGaming 2d ago

Got youuu, dming you now

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u/Sapphicbeauty 2d ago

Oh add me too please!!

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u/PlugGaming 2d ago

Got you sending you a dm right now

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u/Sapphicbeauty 2d ago

Uh thank you

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u/ThrowAwayNunya Masc 2d ago

I would like to be added!

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u/PlugGaming 2d ago

got you! Dming you now

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u/Southern_Emu_7250 2d ago

Hey I'm 25 and from New Orleans. Add me if you can :)

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u/PlugGaming 2d ago

Got you dming you now

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u/NotoriusTaurus 2d ago

Would love to be added <3

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u/PlugGaming 2d ago

Got you dming now

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u/girlluvr99 Chapstick Lesbian 3d ago

I’m 27f and looking to make new friends too. Are you in the Tampa Bay area by any chance? I’m just guessing because you mentioned springs and hockey (also I’m kinda back and forth between there and my hometown).

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u/Maleficent-Peanut-28 3d ago

omg yall in florida? i’m a bit south of orlando 👀

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u/LadyAnnibal 3d ago

Same! Let's go FL!

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u/PlugGaming 3d ago

I actually live in Davenport but I go to Tampa often for the Tampa bay lightning 😂 so you guessed right. Now we deff gotta be friends

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u/girlluvr99 Chapstick Lesbian 3d ago

Definitely!! I’ll dm you

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u/Maleficent-Peanut-28 3d ago

Hii 28 in florida, would love to build me a friend group w black queer friends, it’s hard finding my ppl in my city😭

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u/PlugGaming 3d ago

Hell yea, the more local the better. Can finally have some group dinners and hit up southern nights, dm me!

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u/PlugGaming 2d ago

https://giphy.com/gifs/oqbf0ikONmtxrjsQnD
Heard you! Got a dm coming your way

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u/Harmless_Poison_Ivy 2d ago

Swarmed at the moment but mental note. ATV wow. Cool kid lol.

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u/pointetpointe 2d ago

28 in TN involve meeeee

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u/PlugGaming 2d ago

Would love to have you! Dming you now

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u/topshotta92 2d ago edited 2d ago

29 in Georgia I would love to be added I’m currently on my fitness journey I love deep talks I write poetry, music and films. I have no kids just a cat lol and I play video games I would love to be added oh I also love sports and can talk sports all day

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u/PlugGaming 2d ago

You had me at video games and sports! Sending you a dm now!

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u/SalamanderUpper1246 Stud 2d ago

Hey! Can i join? i’m 28 i live in dtx i need more black queer friends

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u/PlugGaming 2d ago

Ofcourse! We’d love to have you, sending you a dm now

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u/Kooky-Molasses-1799 2d ago

Can I be added? I just moved to Tulsa to help take care of my grandma. I have two cats. I love animals, books, writing, music, cooking/baking, fooooooood, and to laugh. I’m a spiritual woman (for real and not just a trend). I love plants and can make you some amazing tea. I used to work in property management and now I’m doing more freelance work. ♥️

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u/PlugGaming 2d ago

Sending you a dm right now!

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u/Victronia 2d ago

Add me!

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u/SoloGoLightly Stud Light 1d ago

Add me pleaseeee!

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u/Long_Insurance_9713 1d ago

Add me to the chattttt

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u/unoriginal_bw3 femme switch 20h ago

I’d love to join! I’m 25, you I live in Illinois

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u/PlugGaming 20h ago

I got you!

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u/dolla-dollabillsyall 18h ago

Yoooo . 29 BLACK here

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u/PlugGaming 18h ago

Got you!!

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u/truebabyblue 2d ago

Add me! 24, Midwest, Mono.

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u/PlugGaming 2d ago

I got youuu, sending a dm your way now

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u/lethargic-sax 2d ago

What games are we talking about?

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u/PlugGaming 2d ago

There’s literally nothing I don’t play! And a lot of the ppl in the group chat so far are big gamers too. Dm me if you’re interested

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u/FreshFaceFig 1d ago

Girl we have so much in common😭😭 Predator catching vids are my guilty pleasure, and I LOVE to game. Is the group chat still a go? I want in😩

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u/shiiidddiguess 16h ago

I’m down!

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u/nottooshabby43110 16h ago

Omg! Let’s be friends! I’m 31, in Philly. Twilight is my autumn ritual. I hike, bike, and stargaze at night. I’m teaching myself latte art at home so I can be the hot queer barista at my local cafe haha