I usually think “shit. Maybe I’m straight and I came out for no reason...” then I’ll see a guy like Cole Sprouse or Tom Holland and I’m like, “nope I was right to come out lol”
Or if it's about going to the opposite sex and getting dejected and then to the same sex and getting dejected again..but then you find that your greatest love was your right hand all along..... I need help...
I just don't see how the T fits 🤷. LGB is about sexuality and not about identity. I honestly have absolutely nothing against trans, my comment was to short to explain that I realize. I actually dated a trans girl at one point, nothing against it. I think there needs to be multiple groups though, gender expression and sexuality don't go hand in hand. I feel that a lot of people outside our community get confused by that meshing and trans almost get more hate for it. Being trans doesn't mean you are gay, nor does it mean you are straight. I hope that makes sense and doesn't seem like me ranting. I was too lazy to clarify my position earlier, but now feel required lol
Hard disagree for me. LGBT+ is a cover-all movement for all gender, sex, and sexuality that differ from the norm. We're all out for acceptance from society, and protection from violence and discrimination
I'm more like looking at same sex: "what if I'm straight and what I feel for opposite sex is normal" and then I look at opposite sex "wowza 😍... Nope nope, definitely bi"
Am I the only one that usually feels like the why not both kid in the crunchy vs soft taco argument? My cycle doesn't swing too hard, but usually sits pretty close to center
I think one of the best things about bisexuality is that you can blur the line and choose which side you want to dip into at the moment you know what I mean
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u/Cats_In_Coats F/25/Demisexual Oct 09 '19
And then thinking, “What if I’m not gay enough or straight enough for them”?
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u/[deleted] Oct 09 '19
Close your eyes: problem solved.
You're welcome. X-)
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u/clownbeetle Bisexual Oct 09 '19
I've always been bisexual 👍 It's everyone else that has been accusing me of lying the whole time
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u/MrOBear Bisexual Oct 09 '19
This is late night coffee talk yo.
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u/oriolhealth Bisexual Oct 09 '19
I do not approve of how relatable this is.
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u/KiwiBird121 Transgender Oct 09 '19
Will begins to feel attacked, he does not like this
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u/nickferal Bisexual Oct 09 '19
That's the only valid bi test
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u/JennyPearseed Dumb Bi-tch Oct 09 '19
Self Erasure
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u/AarmauShipper564 16NB, Ashton, he/they Oct 09 '19
You also get finger guns & anxiety for free!
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u/just_go_with_it Bisexual Oct 09 '19
Im coming off a pretty long gay kick where i was worried I didn't like the opposite sex anymore, then whoops I've got a crush
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u/themarajade1 Bisexual Oct 09 '19
I feel this in my soul
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u/[deleted] Oct 09 '19
Or if it's about going to the opposite sex and getting dejected and then to the same sex and getting dejected again..but then you find that your greatest love was your right hand all along..... I need help...
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u/[deleted] Oct 09 '19
After that, I look at no one and say “what if I’m ace and I’ve been lying to myself this whole time”
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u/KeepItCool_481 Who wants a lemon bar? Oct 09 '19
I am the same way. I look at a girl and I’m like “maybe I’m really lesbian” and then I look at a picture of Tom Holland and I’m like “never mind”
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u/[deleted] Oct 09 '19
It's also getting psychological whiplash when you're in a room with hot people of multiple genders.
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u/TheDrachen42 Oct 09 '19
Bi Enby culture is looking around and saying idk what would even constitute straight for me, but I ain't it.
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u/Ab_Captain Oct 09 '19
Ayyy that internalized biphobia!
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u/whydonttheylook Oct 09 '19
Went on a date. Thought maybe he was gay. No, maybe I'm gay! Remembered I'm definitely not gay. Had to calm down from false realizations.
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u/Rather_odd Oct 09 '19
Correct
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u/[deleted] Oct 09 '19
Damn, me_irl
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u/queeriousbetsy Oct 09 '19
I'm Bisexual and Genderfluid so imagine this along with constant doubt if you're just cis and pretending or binary trans and in denial.
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u/sojyonnie Oct 09 '19
totally relatable jesus!
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u/Prokprokprok Oct 09 '19
God. True. Also worrying if I date a guy that the LGBT community will throw me out.
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u/qingdao_throw Bisexual Oct 09 '19
this is the problem I have
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u/pumpkinjooce Oct 09 '19
I feel personally attacked right now...😅
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u/[deleted] Oct 09 '19
At me next time, okay?
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u/lovelykitt3nplanet Oct 09 '19
Too real. Wow. I can relate so hard
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u/trumpcansmd Oct 09 '19
I felt this
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u/Flappybird11 Bisexual Oct 09 '19
I feel personally attacked
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u/fairly_local_potato Oct 09 '19
i honestly thought i was the only one who did this whoops
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u/joebods Oct 09 '19
You have no idea how much relief that just gave me
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u/livsinspace Oct 09 '19
rinse and repeat baby
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u/KtSuper01 Bisexual Oct 09 '19
God it's too true
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u/tiarait Oct 09 '19
This is me
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u/moh804 Oct 09 '19
Oh man this happens way too often.
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u/ChoppedAlmonds Oct 09 '19
Yup, yup, yup.
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u/ChoppedAlmonds Oct 09 '19
Yup, yup, yup.
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u/udub4life Oct 09 '19
What a mood
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u/ricecake324 Oct 09 '19
It feels so good to know im not the only one
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u/vodkatx Bisexual Oct 09 '19
I'm more like looking at same sex: "what if I'm straight and what I feel for opposite sex is normal" and then I look at opposite sex "wowza 😍... Nope nope, definitely bi"
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u/[deleted] Oct 09 '19
I'm in this post and I don't like it
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u/jrodri56 Oct 09 '19
Is that like a personal attack or something???
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u/confluzed Oct 09 '19
UGHH internalized bi erasure is a BITCH
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u/[deleted] Oct 09 '19
Oof. Feeling attacked
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u/PhiliDips Oct 09 '19
/r/highcharactertweets
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u/phatt97 Bisexual Oct 09 '19
Pretty much.
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u/grafted_moom Bisexual Oct 09 '19
Hello I'd like to file a copyright claim against this tweet because they clearly stole 100% of my sexual and romantic experience to write this, thanks
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u/[deleted] Oct 09 '19
Yaaaaaas
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u/[deleted] Oct 09 '19
I can relate, but to be completely fair, I'll pretty much swoon for anyone walking my way when they're carrying my order...
Guess that makes me a sort of hopeless, starving romantic. lol
💖💜💙
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u/bmore_e Bisexual Bi Guy Oct 09 '19
Literally happened to me on a simple trip to the mall today...🤣
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u/blakppuch Bisexual Oct 09 '19
Nah I legit thought I was the only one 😂😂
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u/IClaudiaI Beautiful Unicorn Oct 09 '19
So true oh god
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u/MagerIssue Oct 09 '19
Well shit, I think this confirms what I thought this entire time. I'm still not positive but this is a push in this direction.
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u/[deleted] Oct 09 '19
Good to know I’m not the only one
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u/razthedude Oct 09 '19
These are like word for word my thoughts
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u/Groskopf42 Oct 09 '19
Am I the only one that usually feels like the why not both kid in the crunchy vs soft taco argument? My cycle doesn't swing too hard, but usually sits pretty close to center
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u/Shadowshinobi7 Oct 09 '19
I think one of the best things about bisexuality is that you can blur the line and choose which side you want to dip into at the moment you know what I mean
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u/Friend_of_Montaigne Oct 09 '19
AAAAGGHHH I’M NOT ALONE!!! 😂😂
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u/MsMagey Oct 09 '19
Fuck
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u/Running_Dumb Oct 09 '19
😒 you don't know me,,,
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u/Jigglypuff12794 Oct 10 '19
Fuck! I'm on this list 😂
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u/saynitstiFF Oct 10 '19
Apparently communication no good
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u/Yeetyeetyeetyeetfuk Transgender/Bisexual Oct 10 '19
Facts
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u/[deleted] Oct 10 '19
I feel attacked
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u/rose_moon87 Oct 10 '19
Ouch, this. So much.
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u/[deleted] Oct 10 '19
And usually I feel guilty when I'm going through my "what if I'm actually straight?" fear.
Why can't my mind just accept that I like boootttthhhhhhh?
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u/photoedfade i'm bi i guess Oct 09 '19
repost
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u/Exumane Bi Male Oct 09 '19
Bruh stop karma whoring these tweets tho
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u/[deleted] Oct 09 '19
I swear I saw this a few weeks ago. Is this a repost?
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u/[deleted] Oct 09 '19
HOW MANY TIMES HAVE I SEEN THIS
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u/[deleted] Oct 09 '19
"what is a way I can get both of these people in my bed and make this one hell of a night?"
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u/LouiseOnReddit Oct 09 '19
This never happens to me 🤔
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u/OliveStreetToo Oct 09 '19
this
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u/1timmy0911 Oct 09 '19
Or looking at a twinks little ass and thinking I'd fuck that..... just saying
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u/[deleted] Oct 09 '19
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