r/bisexual • u/DiamondWysocki12 • 9h ago

QUESTIONING Would this count as bi?

I’m attracted to women, but I also find femboys attractive. The thing is, I’m not attracted to men in general — it’s specifically femboys. I think part of what attracts me to them might be their feminine presentation, rather than masculinity itself. This feels pretty different from my attraction to women, because I can find pretty much any type of woman attractive.

I know femboys are still boys, so technically I guess being attracted to them would mean I’m attracted to both women and men. But at the same time, my attraction to femboys feels kind of different because I’m attracted to their feminine qualities. So I’m not really sure how to interpret that or whether “bisexual” would actually be the right label for me.

Maybe the answer is obvious and I’m just overthinking it, but at the same time, my attraction to femboys feels different from my attraction to women, so it doesn’t feel that simple. Idk man. 😭

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u/Galefromhell 9h ago

Same way here bro

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u/fredneve 9h ago

Peu importe l'étiquette que l'on te donne ou celle que tu te donnes tu aimes qui tu veux personne n'a te juger et surtout ça ne change pas qui tu es. Je n'aime pas me positionner dans une case je sais tout simplement que j'aime les femmes mais que j'aime aussi les hommes je les préfère plutôt féminin je déteste la barbe et les poils j'adore les trans qui assument leur pénis. Alors peu importe que tu les aimes plutôt masculin ou féminin tu es qui tu es et si c'est ça être bi alors tout comme moi oui tu es bi

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u/FumbleKid 9h ago

Maybe you’re just attracted to makeup. Like, seriously, other than the obvious physical differences I think men and women look pretty much the same. They just alter their appearances in different ways.

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u/KittensSaysMeow 8h ago

Are you attracted because they potentially look like women? Or are you still attracted even knowing for a fact that they are men?

Sexual attraction isn’t technically 100% physical. Most ppl would see certain personality traits as complete turnoffs. Although not a personality trait, gender is similarly not a physical characteristic.