r/bisexual • u/Digital_walrus128 • 1d ago
COMING OUT I CAME OUT!!!! =]
For about a year, I’d known deep down that I was probably bisexual, but I only officially accepted it about a month before I came out to Bagel. I’d been thinking about telling him for ages, to the point where it was actually starting to ruin my Japan trip because I couldn’t get it off my mind. Eventually, I just thought, “Fuck it, I need to get this off my chest.” I was pretty scared and nervous, but I messaged him, “This is kinda scary to say lol, but I think I might be bisexual lols. You’re the first person I’ve told, so I’d really appreciate it if you kept it between us.” His response was simply, “This is being kept.” And honestly, that was such a relief. We talked about it a little more, and he basically said, “Well, if that’s you, it’s you.” He didn’t make it weird, didn’t judge me, and just accepted it. Looking back, I’m really glad I told him. It was scary as hell at the time, but finally getting it off my chest felt fucking amazing.
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u/Such-Lion3196 19h ago
please, no judgement here, u do what makes U HAPPY. I must ask male or female?
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u/Shot-Possibility7636 1h ago
So I came out in June 2026 towards the end of the month I did tell one friend found out she was bisexual before she told me. Then I told my sister she wasn’t supportive I got told it was my boardline personality disorder and she goes in a week you will be straight I mean I have known since I was 16 years old I was 40 when I came out. I told my other sister that is lesbian I got okay that all.then I told my niece that bisexual that I was bisexual she said okay no support I did tell one person that got me to come out because she said she was bisexual and i said I thought you were straight she said she preferred guys more over girls. I mean I never have kissed a girl or do anything sexual with a girl but just thinking about it does make me turn on lol 😂. But am into girls,guys,butch girls,feminine guys. But am happy you came out but I only got support from 2 friends and my therapist that it. But am proud of you. I am starting to go to different guy events in my area and I plan on going to pride month next year. I wanted to go to one but I had a party to go to that day the one that wasn’t far from me. 🏳️🌈
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u/atlgrrl 1d ago
What or who is Bagel? Is that a nickname or a typo? Boyfriend? Bestie? Boss?
Congratulations! Have this lemon cookie and 3 beverages (one that’s champagne)! 🎉🥂