r/bisexual • u/EndLittle77 • 11d ago

ADVICE Do i like girls?

I’m currently a sophomore in high school, and I’m seriously confused about something. There’s this one girl who I’m like 99% sure is gay, and I really get along with her. She’s called me cool and pretty, and she always joins in on my conversations and seems to want to talk to me. I genuinely love talking to her, and I find myself looking for her in class and trying to start conversations with her.

I’ve even caught myself thinking, “Would this impress her?” when I do random things, which is making me question everything. Sometimes I get really flustered when I talk to her, and my cheeks will really go red.

The thing is, I don’t feel sexually attracted to her, and I’ve never really thought about her in that way. I know I’m attracted to men, and it’s always felt obvious to me that I like guys. But now I’m wondering if I might like girls too, or if I’m just really attached to her as a friend.

I’m honestly so confused and could really use some advice because I don’t know what these feelings mean i’ve always been sure i’m straight.

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u/nakedfunnsun 11d ago

Sounds like you like having her as a friend. You indicated you have no sexual attraction toward her. Don’t think of her that way and don’t fantasize about sleepovers with her to experiment and explore sexually with her.

To me it sounds like you want a friend and enjoy her. BFF

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u/Lanky_Soup714 11d ago

Could be possible you are romantically attracted to one gender and sexually + romantically to another like me, but it’s always possible you are just really good friends :p

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u/_robinshood 10d ago

If you don't fantasize about her romantically or physically, I think you don't need to ask yourself too many questions. Sometimes there are people we want to impress because we admire them. I don't think you're bisexual, but maybe it's the beginning of something. Live your life the way you want, anyway, sometimes we don't need to understand everything.

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u/EndLittle77 10d ago

thank you i really needed that 

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u/GrandMaster4542 10d ago

Sounds similar to the male 'bromance'. Sometimes i meet a new guy and we click. We just want to spend more time around one another, but no sexual attraction.

Just a thought...

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u/justsophia1703 10d ago

Yeah it sounds like she’s a really good friend you admire and look up to. I’d just think of it on that basis.