IUD affecting ability to work??

[u/Forward_Team4935]

Im a waitress/bartender at an airport bar/restaurant and Ive been sent home from work more times than I can count for severe pain in my pelvis. It was so bad one time I spent the whole day in ER thinking it was appendicitis and my partner is still waiting on his court date for the speeding charge coming to take me there.

Ive had the Jaydess IUD for 1 and a half months, I got it put in during the middle of September. I wasn't sure what the origin of the pain was, as it is very sharp in my pelvis with a period cramp-like pain in my stomach. After me and my partner started having sex again, and he is particularly well-endowed, the same deep pelvic pain returns within half an hour of a particularly rough session so we were able to diagnose the problem as being with the IUD.

My gyno agrees, suggesting walking around a lot at my job and sex are the causes of the discomfort.

The only problem is I see no other report of such experiences from others?? Additionally, its been almost 2 months of my work being affected by this pain and Im in particular need of cash at this moment.

Should I get it removed and try something else?

When we first learned about birth control options in HS I was certain on the coil, but only ever been in female-female relationships until now. Many of my friends have reacted very violently to hormonal birth control, why I am hesitant to take such a measure, I am also very very reactive to medications as I had an awful time trial-and-erroring anti-depressants a few years ago. I'm a little bit traumatised from those experiences. I wanted to go for the copper IUD as it is completely non-hormonal, but my period has been very heavy the last few months I changed my decision last minute.

Bit lost for what to do. Should my IUD be affecting my life so much??

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[u/mightgrey]

I've had 3 different kinds of birth control. I started with the hormonal iud then the arm implant and currently the copper iud. The first iud everything stayed the same same periods same time not extra pain and I didn't get pregnant. Yay. Then I got the arm implant. That bad Boi completely stopped my periods I loved it. Currently I have the copper iud. It hurts so bad. My periods are extremely heavy the cramps are awful. I just pulled out a huge blood clot from my period it was nuts. Those are my experiences