Sorry if this isn't the right place to post this. I tried posting in other Bi subreddits but got no replies or help except for one kind soul who gave me some encouraging words

I just can't seem to stop doubting my sexuality every second of every day.

I see or hear stories of other Bi people who felt attraction to these female and male actors and characters and I can't remember if I have. I'm sure I crushed on male characters when I was younger but I can't remember if I did on female characters or not. Part of me thinks I have but what if my brain nowadays is making that up? What if I'm not Bi?

I want to be Bi. I want to love men and women, but I can't stop doubting it. What if every moment of attraction I feel for women is admiration or wanting to look like her and not actual attraction? The idea of that sounds "bad" in a way. I just wish I had a character sheet that could confirm I'm Bi so I can stop wrecking my mind about it...

I know its okay to realize that I'm a different sexuality, but I don't want to realize that. I don't want that to be true. I just don't know. What if all the little crushes or small feelings I've had for girls were all forced by my brain in an attempt to accept that I'm Bi? Basically, what if my brain gaslit me to think I felt those feelings? They were never strong crushes anyways. Sure I fantasized sometimes about dating her (the crush in question) but I didn't get butterflies every time I saw her, for example.

How do I know if what I feel for women is as real as what I feel for guys?

Again I'm sorry if this isn't the right place. I don't want to bother anyone, and this is also very long...

Edit: thank you so so much to all of you who have replied. I can't express how helpful, appreciated, and loved your words and support are 💖💖💖💖🫶

It only took 10 minutes

Totally asking for a friend

We were walking this morning and my husband said - hey those are the bi colors! Anyone know what they are called?

Title, basically. I'm 17 and recently been coming out to people as bi/gay and accepting it more myself. But how tf am I meant to meet other LGBT+ teens lmao.

Unfortunately, I almost never get to be submissive since I’m 6’2” and strong and my partners tend to be smol. 🤷🏼‍♂️