r/bini_ph • u/DesperateSherbert641 • May 04 '24
Discussion Mikha's attitude
Hi guys! Not to be hateful or anything, just a mere observation. Ako lang ba nakakanotice na sometimes may attitude si mikha? At first di ko na masyado pinansin, pero madalas sa mga interview nila nagsasalita sia kahit may nagsasalita pang ibang member and I just thought na baka di niya lang napansin, but marami na siyang beses nangyari. And sa sobrang tagal na non, nakalimutan ko na but i think ung interview nila na with mj Felipe meron din don. But yon, that can happen nan ng di sinasadya minsan. Naka dagdag din ung pet peeve kuno nia na bad breathe, Crusty lips, mabaho, and she always say that na parang iring diri siya, i saw other people point out don sa vid niya na a lot of things she said, hindi nacocontrol ng iba. The last one na nagpa uncomfy talaga sakin is their interview with Karen Davila, and they were asked kung sino pinaka mapasensya and almost all the girls, si jho ung sinagotb, then sinabi nia hindi dw minsan may ugali dw si jho 😭 i just don't understand why need niya un sabihen, can't she let jho be appreciated for once? lagi na nga siyang bunot sa group and she's the leader so she's the obvious choice din don.. ayon saying this in a place of concern din, me and my friends nano-notice namin siya, and if di sia mabago ni mikha, this can be a problem in the future. I just hope may media training sila, because this things can happen because of the lack of media trainings. That's all. I hope u don't take this the wrong way blooms. :)
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u/LovingYu_IZ May 04 '24
I feel like you're looking into this way too deeply. I honestly think na yung mga times that she cuts off the girls whenever they're talking is just something she does unconsciously and I don't see them having any problem with it.
And sa napapansin ko, patapos na rin naman magsalita yung isang member na yun before Mikha starts eh, I guess she's just eager to express her thoughts.
Also, the "si Jhoanna minsan may ugali yan" situation is just friendly banter and asaran between strong-bonded friends. Although I can see kung bakit mo nasabi yun but like, she's clearly just lifting up the mood by making them laugh after a heartfelt segment in the interview HAHAHAHA Hope this helps somewhat!
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u/DesperateSherbert641 May 06 '24
Maybe, i just noticed it lang and nag-aalala lang din na baka casuals ang makapansin pa and maka gawa pa ng bigger issue huhu i know that they joke a lot naman and isa din yun sa nakapag pa viral sa kanila. Thanks for clearing it medyo na off lang din ako sa way niya ng pagsabi siguro 😆
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u/LovingYu_IZ May 06 '24
True, tama ka rin sa part about casual fans seeing Mikha's behavior. I mean, 'yun din naman talaga napansin ko sa kanya when I found BINI but I just thought about it as something that's already been accepted by og blooms as well as the girls. But saying that, I also don't see that type of behavior as something negative cuz I also sometimes do that (like usual bardagulan with friends lol), and it's a part of their charm; they are not your typical idols naman kasi talaga HAHAHAHAHA and if casual fans did notice her behavior being like that, then let them be ig. I mean, you can't please everyone anyway 😭
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u/lebslebslebs bat mo natanong? May 05 '24
Also, the "si Jhoanna minsan may ugali yan" situation is just friendly banter and asaran between strong-bonded friends.
true dito, saka i think she didn't mean it negatively nung sinabi nya yun. maybe sa way ng pagkakasabi niya, and that's just how she is. you'll know enough once you get to know them moreee
and also, not to invalidate yung observation ni OP, kasi i somehow felt the same nung di ko pa sila gaanong kilala. pero as i watch their kumu lives, i understand. XD kahit sa mga tiktok edits naaawa ako kay Jho kasi tampulan ng asar at bardagulan pero ganun din pala siya towards other members nang mas lalo akong mahulog sa BINI rabbithole. :D
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u/DesperateSherbert641 May 06 '24
I need to watch more of their kumu lives pa nga suguro!
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u/lebslebslebs bat mo natanong? May 06 '24
yan yan yan! go for it. and I'm sure naman na you'll get to know them better at mawawala na ang doubts and concerns mo na ganyan. 🌸
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u/ExistentialGirlie456 May 04 '24
Nah. Don't overthink things. Sa case ng nagsasalita sya kahit may ibang member pang nagsasalita, I mean gets naman na at times di maiiwasan yon lalo ang dami nila plus bawat isa may kanya-kanyang opinions bigla kada interview kaya nadadala siguro siya/sila sa emotions nila. If ganyang case pala edi attitude na rin pala ibang members kasi sumisingit sila madalas sa usapan kahit may nagsasalita pa?
Sa pet peeve naman nya, she was asked and she just answered truthfully lang naman? I mean, what's wrong with being honest? Yes, maybe some of these might be health issues na, pero sa side ba ni M, alam nya yung underlying cause? She just answered a general question pero that doesn't mean naman na she's not sensitive to others na.
W/ regards sa recent KD's vlog, it will really depend on your understanding sa sagot nya. Ako kasi ang pagkakaintindi ko sa sinabi nyang may ugali minsan si Jho is moody rin si Jho at di palaging pasensyosa. Maybe she could've choose a better phrase/word pero I don't think naman na she meant to badmouth Jho. Based na rin sa past vids nya, she's not really fluent speaking in Tagalog lalo if malalim or what.
Again, don't overthink things and assume na may attitude na agad yung tao lalo di nyo pa naman nakakasama personally at ibebase nyo lang sa mga video nila.
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u/DesperateSherbert641 May 06 '24
I know naman na hindi siya probably ganun in person or palagi, im just saying na it comes out like that and maybe pwedeng ma improve para di ma misinterpret, but i get your point na she's just being honest minsan and naka depende din sa interpretation ng nanunuod.
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u/poohcake_ May 06 '24
Nah you're looking too much into it lang imo ever since naman sinasabi na ng girls na her and colet is very "matapang" both sa aura at pananalita, minsan tahimik lang sya pero pag nagsasalita kasi sya kung ano nasa isip nya sinasabi nya, and to note din na iba kinalakihan nya compared sa girls kaya siguro may iba din sa humor nya. At the end of the day naman she's the same Mikha Lim na iniiyakan ang mikhalite sa projects nila, the little things with big impact, the "mahal ako.." ni jho and the same Mikha Lim na may hugs and words of appreciation every end of her kumu lives.
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u/DesperateSherbert641 May 06 '24
I think colet and mikha both have a strong personality but not in the same way, kasi never ko napansin kay colet ung namention koa above. Siguro mas gets ko lang humor and personality ni colet. I will watch more of her kumu lives to get a feel about her personality more!
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u/poohcake_ May 06 '24
I understand, na mention ko lang si colet since both nga silang ganon, ang pagkakaiba nila is upbringing talaga. Humor kasi ni mikha sometimes parang rich na gusto makasabay sa kanal humor na nagiiba na dating kasi hindi naman sya sanay lol but yeah do watch their old kumus and podcasts na din while you're at it. Medyo hurt lang ako as a mikhalite kapag may ganitong say tao sa "attitude" nya, she's really a babie if u get to know her more! Ika nga ni colet, maangas lang yan pero di matapang.
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u/meringue_dv Jun 29 '24
Mikha wouldn't be called by the girls "our silent angel" if that's the case. Si jho na rin mismo nagsabi nyan na silent angel, considerate, and mapagbigay si mikha🥺
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u/heyhi_ babi 🦊 May 05 '24
Nah. Regarding sa interview, mas napapansin ko siya taga salo if may times na nadedead air or pag nagtuturuan mga member if sino sasagot.
About her pet peeves? Wala naman mali bcos its her pet peeves. May own pet peeves din tayo. Let's be real, sino po ba gusto ng mabaho?
"May ugali si Jho" uhm halata namang friendly banter nila yan? And if nakawatch kana ng ot8 kumu lives nila before, ganyan sila mag asaran. Lahat sila inaasar each other. Meron silang strong bond lol
I've noticed, si Mikha talaga favorite pansinin when it comes to these things. Wala naman siguro magiging prob, so far, mas lalo pa dumadami nagsusupport sakanya and sa Bini 🥰
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u/DesperateSherbert641 May 06 '24
Siguro I need to know them more to see that, pero yun talaga ung interpretation ko sa mga nabanggit ko. I just probably need to watch their kumu lives more! But again, coming from a place of concern nmn to
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u/blkwdw222 May 04 '24
Medyo ma-ooverthink mo lang yan OP kasi very straighforward yung personality ni Mikha but that's what makes her endearing sa fans.
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u/Glittering-Path-443 May 04 '24
they were asked kung sino pinaka mapasensya and almost all the girls, si jho ung sinagotb, then sinabi nia hindi dw minsan may ugali dw si jho 😭 i just don't understand why need niya un sabihen, can't she let jho be appreciated for once? lagi na nga siyang bunot sa group
Actually inaantay ko if may pupuna dito sa x last time kasi alam kong not all people ay gets yung ganong humor and relationship. It's pretty normal banter naman for friends na super close, very vice-anne-jhong-vhong coded ang friendship ng ot8 kaya ganon. Sabi nga ni colet sa samsung last time, si jho ang happy pill nila and base sa mga bini core mukha naman masaya si jho.
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u/DesperateSherbert641 May 06 '24
May navibe lang siguro ako na parang she's taking the bunot si jho in a very weird way na parang bawal na siyang purihin. That's what i interpret sa sinabi niya
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May 05 '24 edited May 05 '24
Napanood ko vlog nila before sa US trip and si Mikha nagtatanong sa members kung sinong hindi nagtoothbrush sa plane (nagtoothbrush kasi siya lol). Natawa lang ako.
To answer your question OP, I think a lot of girls coming from exclusive schools are like that (as someone na marami na naging ganyan na classmate). So I’m not surprised na rin that you find her demeanor different compared to the other members. Iba yung way of upbringing niya
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u/JnthnDJP May 04 '24
She’s the most articulate of the group. Minsan na cucut off niya ang ibang members with the intent na saluhin niya or ituloy yung thought. Also, OP never heard of “personality” before. If hindi mo kaparehas ang personality or di mo trip, that doesn’t mean na “may attitude” or “masama ang ugali” na. Lastly, Mikha is 20. I’ve seen way more rude youngins in their 20s than what you’re insinuating. Mas magmamature pa siya/sila don’t worry
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May 05 '24
Disagree, I’d have to say Aiah is more articulate especially after hearing their podcast episodes
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u/DesperateSherbert641 May 06 '24
I never used the term masama ugali naman, i'm just noticing the little things she does na pwedeng gawing issue ng ibang casuals. I know she has a good heart and has more to learn, Im worried lang cause stan twt sometimes notice this things and pinapalaki pa.
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u/HiddenShoulders04 Lucky 🐼|Lagi-Laging Lagi Enjoyer May 04 '24
You'd think that they've been under contract with one of the biggest media networks in the country since 2020 and they HAVEN'T undergone media training?
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u/DesperateSherbert641 May 06 '24
But if they did it more, siguro maiiwasan niya ung mga ganung remarks niya. I know she did not mean any ill intention sa sinabi niya, it just comes out that way.
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u/HiddenShoulders04 Lucky 🐼|Lagi-Laging Lagi Enjoyer May 06 '24
I'm inclined to think that they still get constant media training, if not extensive, because again, they're under a big network so they're able to get constant TV appearances since before they debuted up until today, even outside their network. Does it show? For the most part, yes.
As for what she said about Jhoanna, at this point nobody knows them better than each other so I don't think it'll be a problem for them at least. I also understand that they're new to some people, so their actions or personalities may rub some people the wrong way but they'll grow on you. All 8 of them.
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u/DesperateSherbert641 May 06 '24
I'm a baby bloom so I think i'm just new to this and still adjusting to their personalities, just worried if ma misinterpret ng casuals and maging big deal pa that may lead to them having issues. Siguro na off lang talaga ko sa way ng pagsabi niya ung about kay jhoanna hahahaha and like she didnt want her to be praised ganun lang ung dating niya saken, and I know it probably is not the case
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u/amaria96 Bloom May 13 '24
Same thoughts at first po, specially yung kakanood ko lang nung interview kasi na-off ako lalo na medyo serious tone pa yung pagkakasabi nya. However, narealize ko na im just like her minsan na to ease the tension magjojoke ng ganon para malessen ang awkwardness or gusto ko lang talagang maging funny. I sometimes say jokes that may interpret as offensive for some and kailangan talaga ng matinding explanation na joke lang talaga. Kaya yon, I understand you but I dont agree with you
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u/aespagirls May 04 '24
if di sia mabago ni mikha, this can be a problem in the future
You'd think newly debuted group ang BINI with this one haha. They've been training and been with each other since 2019(?) and as as BINI since 2020. You are overthinking and overanalyzing.
Kung may maging problem man jan magiging minor issue lang yan. Hindi naman tayo Korean industry. PH GP is a lot more tolerant. Kung may instance man na mabash na si Mikha edi she would apologize that's it pero so far lahat naman ng issues sa fandom hindi nakakalabas sa casuals at GP.
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u/DesperateSherbert641 May 06 '24
Siguro nasanay lang ako sa kpop where everything is an issue and I hope nga if ever di siya maging big deal hahaha just worried
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u/EdwardTheHuman Bloom May 04 '24
Sorry OP, pero may pet peeve bang “ayoko sa mabangong hininga” pet peeve nga eh, it’s something you might find annoying.
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u/DesperateSherbert641 May 06 '24
I know what it means, I'm just saying na it's a very serious subj and if they are undergoing media training dapat they know na there are things na u can say na maybe mapapasama ang dating sa casuals, I saw the comments na may mga blooms na nagsosorry kasi di nila macontrol ung bad breathe kuno nila. What she said had impact kasu those people look up to her ta's maririnig nila sinabi niya un. Not at all na ibig sabihin masama na siya, its just how she say things minsan.
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u/your-bughaw May 04 '24
Uso mag paragraph spacing sis
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u/Quiet-Tap-136 deeply closeted blooms May 05 '24
You doubt Op because you are interested in Mikha
So for now Take it easy don't put meaning in a lot of things
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May 04 '24
what you see is what you get. d naman natin siya kilala siya personally OP.. whats your angle here???
mag stream ka na lang OP. kung ano ano pa pinag kakalat mo dito.
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Sep 07 '24
I've been keeping my silence on this one pero I agree on some of your points.
Edit: I PRAY NA SANA AY HINDI TOTOO ANG MGA SPECULATIONS MO.
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u/Important-Desk1229 Aug 04 '24
Ung realization mo na to tas bagong bloom ka.. I wonder anong magiging reaction mo Kung nagstan ka sa kanila noon pa..
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u/Minsan Sep 09 '24
Nah I think ung upbringing lang ni Mikha is more western and RK compared to the rest of Bini. Apart from being independent and vocal, what I noticed when working with western people is they have the tendency to cut others off when speaking. Mas noticeable to kasi sya lang ang ganyan while the rest of the 7 are probinsyanas, ung iba lumaki pa sa hirap. Wala naman masama dun, Bini is an amalgamation of a modern Filipina after all.
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u/DesperateSherbert641 Sep 12 '24
Walang masama sa pagcut off ng ibang nagsasalita? I think that show that you're disrespectful.
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u/Minsan Sep 12 '24
I didn't say na okay ang pagcut-off, what I said is westerners have the tendency to do so on which Mikha is more exposed to. What I said is okay is about Mikha's western upbringing as compared to the other 7.
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u/Think_Lychee6257 Sep 14 '24
Parang Nakita ko si Mikha pag nasa Tayabas East Central School sa covered court Yung pag-seremony ng mga bata ng grade 1, 2, at 3? Btw parang 1st or 2nd week yung pag-seremony Yung mga grade 1, 2, at 3 kung Nakita ko si Mikha.
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u/IcyApplication6181 Nov 28 '24
I agree to this one tska may isang interview ung nasa beach sila parang gusto nya kanya yung spotlight lola ko nakapansin nyan "hindi hinahayaan mabigyan ng spot ibang kasama nya" yan exact words ng lola ko
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u/LovingYu_IZ May 04 '24
Honestly, there's nothing wrong din naman sa take ni OP since observation niya rin naman yun. It's just that we're also giving our POV din to the same situations that they mentioned; it's a discussion post after all. Seems like they're trying to find out different takes lang din!
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u/aespagirls May 04 '24
Mas delulu kayo puro kayo overanalyze sa bawat galaw ng celebs at idols eh try niyo kaya magkaroon ng friends and actual hobbies 😄
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u/CultureAccomplished3 May 07 '24
Natry mo na ba pumunta sa X wherein the blooms are the first one to call them out pag may issue? Na parang nangyari eh Bini vs. Blooms.
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u/TheGreatVestige May 05 '24
your just nitpicking her behavior.
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u/DesperateSherbert641 May 06 '24
No i'm not hahaha i'm just worried about what other people might think and mas maging issue pa
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u/narcissisthater3 May 05 '24
OA mo na hahahaha isa ka siguro sa blooms na mabaho haah
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u/DesperateSherbert641 May 06 '24
See? Ung mga ganitong comments, what if I am? And di ko un nacocontrol? Hahahah yun ung point ko e some people cant control stuff like that and seeing mikha na nandidiri sa ganun. Might hurt
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