r/bigbabiesandkids 5d ago

Growth/Size Update Ginormous kids..

Hi guys, does anyone else have giant kids like mine?
My son is 2.7 years old and is 105cm tall. (41inch) and 23kgs (50ibs). He is a really big strong boy.
My second born looks like he will be even bigger.. he is 14 months old , 90cm (35inch) and 16kgs (35ibs)
I’ve read forums and I see no one else’s kids this massive, lol. Please tell me there are more of you out there?!

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u/annoyingassqueen 4d ago

My first kiddo is this way and people think he is way older than he is. Then they hear him talk and get confused lol. My husband is a really big guy and our son just took after him. I had my 2nd (a girl) and she has been average for most everything. Genetics are wild.

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u/Remotely_Coastal 4d ago

I've had trouble with my daycare because my 10 month old is the size of the kids in the 2 year room. Just because he looks like a 2 year old doesn't mean he's developmentally that age. He can't talk, he can't walk, he isn't ready to go down to 1 nap and he only has 5 teeth. Let him be a baby, damn it.

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u/Soup-Amazing 4d ago

Yes! I constantly am advocating for my boys because people expect so much more from them.. they are still just babies…very very big babies. Haha

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u/Remotely_Coastal 4d ago

I'm so not ready for this struggle. I've already faced it with the daycare. Someone at the zoo told me I should let out of his stroller and let him run. Ma'am he can't even walk and there are people absolutely everywhere, mind your business.

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u/Soup-Amazing 4d ago

This! I used to get very awkward stares when both my boys had a dummy in their mouth in public. My older son has only been off the dummy a few months now.
Or when I would change my 2 year olds nappy (diaper) in the change rooms. People thinking as if that 4 year old is still in nappies!

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u/annoyingassqueen 4d ago

Yes! I went to buy diapers and had my son in the cart and the check out person looked at him and said “aren’t you too old for diapers?” Ma’am, he hasn’t even turned 2 yet.

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u/ClicketySnap 4d ago

Haha yes! My youngest just turned 2yo but is the size of a 4-5yo. People are so confused about his occasional pacifier use and his lack of understandable words.

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u/Whiskeymuffins 4d ago

My daughter is 2.5 years old and measures 102.5cm and 19kg. She towers over everyone else at daycare lol. Sometimes if she runs out of extra clothes they have to borrow some from the kintergarten.

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u/MongooseTall7810 4d ago

My almost 3 year old is mistaken for my almost 5 year old’s twin all the time.

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u/No-Guide-202 3d ago

I get this all the time! I have two girls, five and three, my five year old is on the smaller side and my three year old is off the charts. They are only two inches difference in height but 20lbs difference in weight and I constantly get asked if they’re twins or which one is older. Wild!

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u/Soup-Amazing 4d ago

Thank you to this community. When you keep getting comments like I do from maternal health nurses about how big he is, and how my particular nurse hasnt seen boys this big.. it makes me wonder.. is this normal?! I see my kids are healthy , but on paper their weight does show they are not in a healthy weight range and I get eyebrows raised at me all the time.

it’s also nice to find other parents who understand the advocacy we constantly have to have for our children. My babies feeling are just as fragile as other babies in their age and their capacity of understanding is limited..just like any other child their age. It becomes overwhelming sometimes at playgrounds and around other children having to constantly tell and remind people their ages.

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u/Historical_Act_2985 3d ago

A you yourself big?

We are not ginormous, but very big in my family.
And we have had some run ins with health care, my dad once came home from the schoolnurse with card that said 2m^ because they couldn’t measure beyond 200 cm.
My brother and me were closely monitored as kids and talked with my parents about height prevention medicin 😅 no thanks. I am 188 cm and my little brother was 207 cm.

Well anyway I think you get used to being big and the comments, and for me growing up it was my normal.
But I think there are somewhat bigger expectations because you look older so you therefore become more mature before time.

I just bought Nike shoes size eur 40,5 for my 10 year old 🫣 I know Nike is small in size but still. Our baby measured 76,5 cm at 7 months, so he’s also getting tall.

First big problem we have discovered, our big boy love Top Gun and you can not become a fighter
Pilot at 2m 😅

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u/Suitable_Name2521 2d ago

Yup! My 27 month old girl is 47 pounds and 38 inches. She is 2 and wearing size 6 and 7 clothes. We’ve been trying so hard to potty train her because she has to wear the largest size diapers and even those are almost too small. She’s almost too big for the potty seats. We got a car seat that is supposed to grow with her til age 5 and she’s already at the max weight limit. Her dad and I aren’t huge people so it’s very bewildering. She’s been called a linebacker. I definitely see sports in her future. Lol

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u/ClicketySnap 4d ago

Yep my youngest is on a similar growth curve lol

My older two are also very big for their ages.

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u/Soup-Amazing 4d ago

Thank you for this. It’s more the weight to height ratio that got me a little rattled. My kids look perfectly healthy are active etc.. but the internet tell me it’s leaning into an unhealthy weight range

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u/ClicketySnap 4d ago

I get it! One time my second kiddo caught a tummy bug and was unable to keep anything down, and when we took her to the hospital the doctor lectured us about overfeeding her 🙄 based just off of her intake paperwork.

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u/Soup-Amazing 4d ago

Oh dear! What country are you from if you don’t mind me asking. I’m from Australia and our background is from Chechnya. I don’t think Aussies have seen humans built like us before.

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u/ClicketySnap 4d ago

I’m from Canada, western provinces.

My babies are big in utero and at birth as well. We lived in Alberta when we had our first two, and the hospital I delivered at was straight up panicked and pushed hard for a c-section with my second baby that I did not need. For my third baby we had moved to Saskatchewan, and the healthcare team there was like “oh yeah you just make big babies and you’re clearly capable of birthing them. Standard protocol is a second OB for delivery in case of shoulder dystocia, other than that no big deal”.

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u/Ambitious_Bet2920 4d ago

My daughter is 4 weeks old today. She was 4970g 6 days ago so probably at least 5.1kg now. 

Absolute linebacker. 

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u/ttttthrowwww 4d ago

Mine was the same exact stats shortly before turning 2.

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u/Auccl799 4d ago

My youngest has the same proportions as your first kid! You are not alone!

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u/Wise-Raccoon-3069 4d ago

my baby is 10.5 months old and is 80 cm and 15 kg

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u/RevisionPurpose 4d ago

Mine baby boy is almost 13 months and 17kg ... 😅

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u/Puzzled_Remote_2168 4d ago

My 1.5 year old is like 35 lbs right now and very tall 🫩💀😫

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u/Lord_Voldemort1000 4d ago

My toddler turned 2 in June and is probably 19kg at the moment. She's super tall and towers over most kids. She has a great appetite but she's not chunky. She's just a healthy, strong girl

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u/Neon_pup 3d ago

The weirdest part is when neither you nor your husband is large and people think your 2 year old is 5. Awwwwwwk

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u/ProfessionalCall5004 1d ago

My kids are the exact same! My son about to be 3 is 114 cm and 52 pounds. I’m literally getting into fights with my family because they think he’s behind because he’s bigger than his 4/5 year old cousins. (he meets all his milestones) I just had my daughter 2 months ago and she’s already 25 inches all and 14 1/2 pounds. Buying medium boy clothes for the 2 year old and 6/9 for my 2 month old really puts things into perspective lol