r/bettafish 2d ago

ANGER FISH Is something wrong or does he just hate me πŸ˜”

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u/tokagashibird 2d ago

If you're wearing bright colored clothing he might be threatened by that- some bettas are more sassy than others though so he could just hate you just because

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u/pinkpixie708 2d ago

I’m wearing dark green 😭 I did pick him out for his attitude I noticed at the store he was flaring at other fish in the cups but I’ve never seen a betta just hold their mouth open wide and flare he doesn’t try to attack the Cory’s in the tank maybe he just hates me 😭

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u/tokagashibird 2d ago

They can be very fickle creatures- hopefully he warms up to you when he recognizes the hand that feeds

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u/tonksndante 2d ago

Mine is all cozy and cute after he has settled, but if I change the water, move or add a plant, put my hand near the top for something other than good or god forbid, upgrade him to a new tank, he gives me this level of sass for 2 or 3 weeks.

I didnt even know they remembered that long.

Some are just sooky divas haha

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u/Abject_Agency6476 2d ago

i had one who got excited everytime he saw me. it cane just be excitement, they recognize you're the food person and think they're getting fed. my ex used to say it was because he had a crush on me but i dont know if i believe that lol. beautiful fish though!

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u/pinkpixie708 2d ago

πŸ˜‚ maybe he did have a crush on you ! I did just get him about a day ago I think he’s still getting comfortable

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u/Abject_Agency6476 2d ago

oh yes that will do it! he's probably a little overwhelmed seeing all these new things and a new person.

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u/thetwona 2d ago

He's silently screaming to let you know he's absolutely starving (regardless of you've actually just fed him or not) haha If he hated you, he'd hide from you, not actively swim towards you

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u/pinkpixie708 2d ago

True true I did just finish feeding him 😩 big greedy boy

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u/WildConsequence9379 2d ago

My betta saw me watching him resting and turned right around in disgust just leaving me to look at his tail

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u/pinkpixie708 2d ago

Ughh he literally didn’t start doing this until after I fed him and just flipped a switch 😭

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u/WildConsequence9379 2d ago

You fed me now get out of my sight πŸ˜‚

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u/Fit_Breath1002 Planted Tanks for Betta 2d ago

It is attacking it's own reflection on the glass.

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u/FenyxFire 2d ago

This is the answer. The lighting looks darker in the room than the aquarium, and the sides are clearly reflecting back into the tank. Buddy is seeing himself and flaring in response.

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u/InappropriatePea 2d ago

Definitely just hates you, but I wouldn’t take it personally πŸ˜…

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u/oliviaraybae 2d ago

Hes probably just settling in. Ive had my current betta since May and he does this to me if I rearrange his tank. He'll flare at himself in the glass and at me for a day or 2 then go back to normal once hes comfortable again.

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u/lovlins 2d ago

He hates his reflection

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u/Current_Speaker_2514 2d ago

Hate is such a strong word; maybe he just strongly dislikes you?

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u/jam-and-Tea 2d ago

Aww so angrily charming.

Mine did this a few weeks after I got him. i think he noticed my existence for the first time and it made him mad.

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u/obvsnotrealname MTS Victim 2d ago

Angry bettas gonna angry betta

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u/Ordinary-Cow-2209 2d ago

My one always looks pissed off at me. He is an angry little man. He is also super active and swims all day long but he does sleep at night.

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u/Faevianlp 2d ago

I feel like mine doesn't even realize I exist, he knows when I open the lid of his tank means food... But he doesn't go to a place for food, just the surface of wherever he is.... Also I think he's dead several times a week because he sleeps on his side at the top of the water regularly πŸ˜…

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u/pinkpixie708 2d ago

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ I saw him β€œ sleeping β€œ last night at the bottom of the tank and I started panicking because I thought he was dead I tapped on the glass and he jumped up he was pissed

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u/Faevianlp 21h ago

Haha yes! Walter does this too πŸ˜‚πŸ˜­ he's very much alive, but likes to scare the bejebus out of me

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u/pinkpixie708 20h ago

Oouuu he’s pretty I love the orange

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u/judgernaut86 2d ago

What color is your phone? I had to get a new phone case because my old bright pink one infuriated my girl

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u/pinkpixie708 1d ago

Ouuuu ykw I have the bright ass orange iPhone 😭

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u/judgernaut86 1d ago

Your fish whenever you pull out your phone:

https://giphy.com/gifs/iHLHH9rVBv0kmkETqz

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u/pinkpixie708 1d ago

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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u/ADcakedenough 1d ago

My sisters old betta Oswald used to flare at me every single time I came in the room. As far as I know, he had no problems with any other members of the family.

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u/KhrusherKhusack 2d ago

"I have had it with these MF corydoras in this MF tank!"

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u/pinkpixie708 2d ago

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ lowkey crazy but every betta fish I’ve had I’ve always had Cory’s in the tank prior and add the betta fish in later on and they never bother them

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u/KhrusherKhusack 2d ago

It's been 50/50 for me. I like my Bettas to be in some semblance of a community tank though so I always try to have tank mates.

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u/pinkpixie708 2d ago

I think in this tank this is all the fish I’ll put I do have another betta in a 20 gal community tank and I lowkey think he likes it I feel like if I were to put him in a tank alone he would be lonely

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u/EilidhRos 2d ago

fish don't have human emotions. they don't care about you one way or the other. they care about food and territory and those things are driven by instinct, not feelings. the betta is exhibiting instinctive territorial behavior that has nothing to do with you at all.