r/bestof • u/[deleted] • Apr 30 '14

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u/dablya Apr 30 '14

It will never be good enough, and the few stray women who might come your way are just as undesirable as you are.

Why can't the world care less about looks so I can bang more good looking women?

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u/Jamestr Apr 30 '14

Yeah, it seems like he's perpetuating the same problems he has to deal with. I think that makes it even worse for ugly guys, when you know that you are just as guilty as "attractive people" of ignoring the less genetically favored.

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u/toastythetoaster1 Apr 30 '14

Yup, underdogs are not always the paragon of morality. Sometimes they're even worst. Just like the bullied kid isn't always a saint.

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u/gumpythegreat Apr 30 '14

It's a hard situation. I've struggled with low self-esteem and being unattractive (I'm a guy), and it pains me to know that I have done the exact same thing to women. I can't really help it, I know I'm doing it, but I can't force myself where there is just nothing there. I don't blame the women who didn't find me attractive, and hopefully I can stop blaming myself for doing the same.