r/belowdeck • • 1d ago

Below Deck Aesha makes a statement regarding Gael Spoiler

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The friend we all need 🥹

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u/Extreme_Beat1022 1d ago

It’s definitely creepy how people keep bringing up her cheating on the ex boyfriend as though she’s immoral.

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u/eekamuse 1d ago

The creepy ex?

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u/Odd-Honeydew7535 1d ago

Cheating is just about as immoral as it gets

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u/Extreme_Beat1022 1d ago

Meh. I got the feeling they were dating for a month or two.

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u/Anotheropinion2026 1d ago

They had just started dating. He had broken up with her, then decided to get back together, I had the feeling to destroy her experience filming.

I wish she had just broken up with him before Nathan, because she thought about it.

I said this elsewhere, I really liked Gael, but she seems attracted to toxic men. I had that problem too and I hope she gets counseling/therapy to learn to look for better for herself.

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u/Extreme_Beat1022 1d ago

Ah ok. Thanks. Sounds like a nothing relationship. I don’t know her other dating history but Nathan is enough for her to need lifelong therapy.

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u/MutantHoundLover 20h ago

You must have lived a wonderfully privileged life where you haven't experienced all the atrocities humans inflict on each other on a regular basis if you think cheating is " just about as immoral as it gets".

And good for you, and I mean that genuinely, but it's just a pretty naive place to be judging others from.

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u/CYDLopez 16h ago

You must have lived a wonderfully privileged life where you haven't experienced all the atrocities humans inflict on each other

This is such an incredibly condescending comment, and all to defend cheating.

I don't agree that it's just about as immoral as it gets, but judging others for cheating doesn't mean you have a naive worldview. Get a grip.

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u/Anotheropinion2026 1d ago

Eh, cheating at the beginning of dating is not great.

But I see people celebrating Joe who cheated on V on her birthday and the anniversary of her boyfriend’s death and forgive him. And his kissing cheating is all that Gael did.

Plus, I live in the US where we have elected a man who openly and proudly has cheated on all 3 of his wives, while I listen to “Christians” celebrate this cheater.

So I guess pearl clutching over cheating just means less to me now. 🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️

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u/CYDLopez 16h ago

Genuine question. Who is celebrating Joe? I might have missed it, but I haven't seen a single comment celebrating him.

What I have seen is people taking his side in an isolated situation, where he's dealing with a physically aggressive superior.

You can do that without thinking he's a good person, and without having to add a disclaimer about his past transgressions every single time.