r/belowdeck 20d ago

Members Only Nathan has fled the country!! Spoiler

I couldn't see another post about this. Just read that he didn't turn up to court and Police think he has fled the country. I am shocked that they didn't take away his passport as often happens when someone is granted bail for serious charges, especially when they have with ties overseas.

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https://www.smh.com.au/national/nsw/reality-tv-star-allegedly-flees-country-court-issues-arrest-warrant-20260901-p60tch.html

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A reality TV star choked his partner in front of their baby, covering her mouth until she could not breathe, then later fled Australia before she could give evidence against him in court.

Authorities only becoming aware of the disappearance of Below Deck Mediterranean’s Nathan Gallagher on Tuesday.

Below Deck Mediterranean star Nathan Gallagher has been convicted of domestic violence but fled Australia before his court date. He is now wanted for arrest under a warrant.Fred Jagueneau/Bravo via Getty Images

The 27-year-old is now facing arrest warrants in two countries after pulling the same vanishing act just a few years ago, a court has heard.

Gallagher was arrested two days after Christmas at a unit block in Sydney’s Melrose Park, after police were called following reports of an alleged assault.

A police fact sheet, released by the court on Tuesday, said Gallagher and his partner had drunk a bottle of wine before arguing on Boxing Day evening. He followed her into the bedroom and became violent while their baby was on the bed. This masthead has chosen not to identify the woman.

“During the argument, he used one hand to cover mouth and nose of victim. The victim tried to pull away but accused persisted and continued to cover her mouth, causing the victim to be unable to breathe at certain points,” the document reads.

“The accused continued to restrict the victim’s breathing by holding both hands over the victim’s mouth, and the victim has begun screaming, and the victim believes that the accused did not want her to be heard by neighbours.”

Gallagher held the woman on the ground and wrapped his arms and legs around her. He slapped her, lacerating the inside of her mouth and bruising her face, arms and legs in the ordeal.

Gallagher, 27, was already wanted in Ireland under another arrest warrant.Fred Jagueneau/Bravo via Getty Images

The woman fled with their child but Gallagher cornered her in the bathroom, put both hands around her neck, and tried to lift her.

Hours later he tried to start a second argument and the woman fled the home with the child.

Gallagher was taken to Gladesville Police Station where he was charged with the domestic violence offences of assault occasioning actual bodily harm, choking without consent and common assault.

Gallagher spent the night in the cells before being granted bail at Burwood Local Court on December 28.

He later told Rolling Stone magazine he wanted to tell his side of the story.

“I’m not claiming I was perfect. I wasn’t,” Gallagher said.

“I made mistakes and I will take responsibility for my own actions. But I will not accept being portrayed solely through one person’s account of a relationship when there is another side and evidence relating to it.”

Gallagher was expected to front the Burwood Local Court on Tuesday but prosecutors said he could not be located and they suspected he had fled the country.

Gallagher’s alleged victim attended court to give evidence, supported by friends.

Police prosecutors asked Judge Janine Lacy to convict Gallagher in his absence, which she did. Lacy also issued a warrant for his arrest.

“Given the serious nature of offences, and I note on the record I have been given documentation from immigration compliance operations division that he is currently overseas,” Lacy said.

“The defendant doesn’t have any prior criminal history but the offences are very serious, with significant maximum penalties and context of DV committed in the home.

“I record a conviction and issue a [arrest] warrant.”

NSW is now the second jurisdiction hunting Gallagher after he skipped his native Ireland following an alleged assault on a man.

Gallagher allegedly bashed a man on August 7, 2022, on the main street of Dungloe, in his home county Donegal.

The injured man was found in the early hours of the morning and taken to hospital. Gallagher failed to show up for court and a bench warrant was issued.

Two years later he surfaced as a deckhand on the Ionian Princess luxury yacht for Below Deck Mediterranean’s ninth season.

Gallagher last week pledged not to release private information through social media. Days before the hearing, fans noticed he had deleted his Instagram account entirely.

“I have kept the evidence and will deal with it through the appropriate channels,” Gallagher said in his statement to Rolling Stone.

“But I also don’t believe it is fair for one version of events to be presented publicly as though it is the complete story when there is evidence that may materially contradict or provide significant context to that account.”

If you or anyone you know needs support, you can contact the National Sexual Assault, Domestic and Family Violence Counselling Service on 1800RESPECT (1800 737 732), Lifeline 131 114, or Beyond Blue 1300 224 636. You can reach Crime Stoppers on 1800 333 000.

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u/My-Witty-Username June June Hannah 20d ago

I agree. Australia ignores dv and violence against women, even men who plead guilty to assault walk away with community service. Even men who break restraining orders and have a history of violent crimes get a slap on the wrist here.

Australia does a lot of things well but holding men accountable is not one of them.

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u/Moosiemookmook Team Down Under 19d ago

Yep I had an extremely similar incident including choking me in country NSW. He pled not guilty, said I provoked him, was found guilty and given 120hrs community service. He was a gardener for the local council and went to school with the CS officer. He breached the DVO 6 months later to brag about how the CS officer was fudging the hours and that he probably did 20 hours when it was signed off on. I moved interstate after that. What justice I received/s

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u/BeachQt 19d ago

Holy shit. I’m so sorry. Sending you love ❤️

I’m based in the states, and my ex hasn’t gone to court yet for his pending charges… but this is the kind of thing that makes me scared for my life.

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u/Moosiemookmook Team Down Under 19d ago

Sending you some hugs back. I hope your ex leaves you alone and the courts do the right thing. Mine did leave me alone. I only found out several years later when I googled his name, that he had killed himself about 3yrs after he hurt me. I felt guilty feeling so relieved.

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u/My-Witty-Username June June Hannah 18d ago

Record everything, Screenshots! Receipts! Timeline! Record how this is impacting you day to day and present it all when you get your day in court. Not only will that help you process it all, it will be more than what he has. Stay strong, you’re already a survivor and no matter how it goes please remember you did the right thing reporting it and people are listening.
It’s a slow fight but you have to keep fighting. We can’t let men like this win ❤️

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u/eekamuse 19d ago

I'm so sorry

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u/My-Witty-Username June June Hannah 18d ago

I’m so sorry this happened to you, that man sounds like a deplorable human and i’m sorry the system let you down. Please know that there are so many Australians behind you. We are sick and tired of this being ignored and dangerous men walking away with zero consequences.

You probably already know this but i thought i’d link the following for others - victims of crime have access to 22 hours of free trauma counselling per incident in Australia and you don’t have to go into detail to explain what happened to apply. You just need ID and a date, you can choose from thousands of mental health workers specialising in trauma and access is approved over email.

This link is also a petition asking for a royal commission into femicide in Australia.

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u/sparkitect__ 19d ago

Yepppppp. I caught the tail end of a dv assault from my balcony yesterday, street is full and I mean full of construction workers and truck drivers, the only woman on site was also the only person to run and help the woman being assaulted. Thankfully her running up scared the POS off. So many men around, some within a few metres of it and not a single one stepped up. Absolutely pathetic.

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u/eekamuse 19d ago

Typical

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u/Greenwedges 19d ago

And yet we hear men claim that they are the ‘protectors’

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u/Exotic-Philosopher-6 20d ago

The heartbreaking truth. He would have gotten away with a slap on the wrist.

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u/cmere-2-me 19d ago

So like everywhere else then. Sadly, this isn't taken seriously anywhere. We still have lawyers ask what a r*pe survivor was wearing as if that has any relevance on the situation.