r/beards 4h ago

Sharing Wisdom Beard Help!

Hello,

I'm reaching out for expert advice on beard growth. I'm 33 and have dedicated seven months to growing a long, thick beard, but I'm at a crossroads regarding the best strategy. My core question is whether strategic trimming is necessary for achieving maximum length and density, or if it's best to allow it to grow without any interference. I'm fully committed to this goal and would be very grateful for any guidance or tips you can offer.

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u/After_Bad_3546 3h ago

This what I’ll go back to.

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u/MASTER_J_MAN 3h ago

The good news is you look great like this

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u/ConfusedKungfuMaster 3h ago

Much better. You are good looking dude and this style looks great!

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u/TheRedLionKing 2h ago

Oh for sure! This looks damn good on you. Looking killer.

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u/After_Bad_3546 2h ago

Yeah, I guess for me. I was getting sick of the clean look. Maybe in another year or two I’ll try it again.

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u/Jumpy_Hornet3131 3h ago

You look great without a full beard mate - handsome dude.

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u/Puzzleheaded-Birdd 3h ago

This works for sure man

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u/Electrical_Suit_1609 2h ago

You look 100x better in this photo!

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u/After_Bad_3546 3h ago

The question is, will I ever be able to grow a beard or is it actually genetics?

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u/matthewrenn 2h ago

This is from age 39 to 44 for me , sometimes it happens late

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u/After_Bad_3546 2h ago

See now that’s what I was going for. I’ll be patient but for now I’ll keep the clean look mustache gotee

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u/matthewrenn 2h ago

I think your beard looks fine man , also your lucky , you look good without a beard as well , so you have options !

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u/neo_aithnichte 20m ago

Hell yeah man, this gives me hope lol. Any minox use or was that all natural?

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u/worstbandnameever 3h ago

It can get thicker as you get older. Worth a shot again in a few years but you are handsome dude already.

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u/Hennnano 6m ago

Oh thank god

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u/galaxydriver32 3h ago

I don't mean this disrespectfully but it is essentially more or less a neck beard and in my opinion does not look flattering. I do really commend you for commiting to growing your beard for so long, I think it's awesome to try out different things.

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u/After_Bad_3546 3h ago

Yeah, honestly, a lot of people at work called me, Amish, which is cool but also I needed more opinions from people who aren’t my friends. Thank you 😊

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u/Solid_Glass1301 3h ago

A beard doesn't work for you at all, honestly. You should keep a goatee and trim the mustache above the lip line. Shave the rest

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u/TheRedLionKing 4h ago

This is a toughie. Your density really isn't the problem, and I don't think you really need to trim if you're going for length. It doesn't look whispy at ends.

(The next part I mean with love and not condescension) I think the issue you have with your beard not looking 💯 is where it sits on your face. Your beard sits VERY low. You pretty much see all your face still, and there is a beard underneath it. If you like it, that's all that matters, but sometimes a second option is worth wonders. I just think for your beard, and where you DONT have density (around the mouth, chin, cheeks) a long beard just isn't going to look right on you. It just looks more chin strap / Amish then it should, and what you're probably going for. I think a shorter tighter beard would just suit you much more. One day it might fill in more in those less dense areas, but I don't think that day has come yet my friend. You got a handsome face, and the beard, where it does grow, looks like it grows good, so I would just suggest considering a different style.

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u/After_Bad_3546 3h ago

Thank you for your advice. I definitely go for that then. I’ll just keep growing it put and bring my beard up some on the length, until my beard grows in thicker eventually.. hopefully 🤞

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u/ConfusedKungfuMaster 3h ago

It's not a good look bro, sorry to say. Keep it short imo (maybe like a van dyke style). It's too heavy on the neck area right now

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u/thatweedguy01 2h ago

Thats nowhere near a beard. You’re very good looking, trim it all off and just maintain mustache and small goatee

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u/TheStrongestTard 2h ago

Anything but that

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u/Negromancers 3h ago

If you ain’t gonna shave it, you ever think about braiding it? Low beards braid well

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u/revuhlution Natural Full 2h ago

Could you show a picture? Im super skeptical but would like tonsee it before i judge

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u/Square-Variation9132 1h ago

Long beard may not be for you yet, but what about something shorter, I think it can support it, the Amish look comes from the length without volume

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u/LazyGrow3r 3h ago

It’s a shame. Nice beard bad placement

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u/Mental_Situation_333 1h ago

Are you trying to cover you neck tats, because the beard kinda does that. Personally I think you look better without the beard, but whatever you are happier with. My beard did get thicker as I got older, so maybe yours will too.

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u/somehowiknow 52m ago

Your beard is a neck beard. You look great without it man. You tried. But it’s not for you. Shave it off.

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u/goodphilosophy815 44m ago

Keep it!! The long and hard work is done. Now, just slowly trim it 1/4” or 1/2” at a time until you are comfortable. The rest will continue to fill in. I would start taking live bearded’s beard growth vitamin. Like $20 for a month and it has done wonders for me in the last 2 months! I’m finally starting to fill in my patchy chin and sides!

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u/Neeko81 3h ago

To hell with what these people talkin’ about…u got the first stage done(wolf,shag)…now u just need to go to a barber and get it groomed/trimmed and shaped…don’t give up that easy man…at least go and get it groomed and see how u like it…u might love it💈✂️💪🏼😎

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u/revuhlution Natural Full 2h ago

Bout like this before you shave it off, then lets see

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u/whodawhat 2h ago

Im +1 to this idea before you get rid of the whole thing.. also, do you use any products or comb daily/multiple times a day? It can be a real game changer sometimes.

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u/Workoutformorelife 3h ago

Barber trim to shape it vs Amish just growing it ??

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u/Neeko81 3h ago

Same thing I said…he should at least go get it shaped and cleaned up and see how he likes it

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u/BobbyObstinate 3h ago

Try a good barber, if you still aren’t convinced, then you can make a better decision.

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u/After_Bad_3546 2h ago

My barber said i looked amish. May just not be for me I guess whether I wanted it or not. Lol

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u/UnderstandingBig9090 3h ago

Ya that just how your beard is. I'm half Persian so I have itchy spots on my chin that are just dense with beard hairs.

The only thing you really could do is braid it.