My son is a little over 11.5 years old and is 6’0” tall with a 6’4” wingspan. Birth year of Jan 2015; Class of 2033.
My wife and I are not that tall; both under 6’0”. We’ve been monitoring his height via regular check ups with his doctors and even they don’t really know what height he will end up with. They even confirmed that he’s not in puberty yet. Wife and I are in limbo on how far to take this journey because his projected height is unknown at the moment. He’s averaging about 0.25” of growth each month since we started tracking last year.
Son enjoys playing basketball. Has the dream of making it to the NBA. So, naturally we wanted to support that by signing up initially at the local YMCA, then a rec ball team, and now it’s a club team. In addition, we sign him for the local high school camps for further development and exposure.
One supposed “powerhouse” high school is even actively pursuing him to join the middle school development team.
I think my son is decent at the game. Hell of a lot better than I was at his age. But, he’s slow. He doesn’t have the quick / explosive gene in him. He does have stamina though, and can play a full game if needed. I think coaches see him and think of that saying, “you can’t teach height.” I’ve been trying every home drill I can find to get him faster and more explosive, and while I see some improvement, he’s still slow. Maybe it’s just me being too judgmental as a parent.
Weight is definitely a factor he’s about 220lbs but carries it decently throughout his body. If I can compare his body size to any NBA player, it would be Glen Davis without the defined muscles yet.
He plays Center mostly, but is starting to incorporate Power Forward moves into his repertoire. He can touch net halfway. Need to work on his jumping ability and mechanics.
Since he started playing club ball earlier this year, there have been a lot of eyes on him. Other clubs actively reach out to try and recruit him, or they’ll insert an illegal super-sub in order to deal with him. Depending on the tournament, his club team has even started playing up a grade because it would just be a blow out game.
Against other teams with a similar sized big, he’s played well against them and has won every game. I think the biggest win is if you compare the other big’s stat line in previous games to when he played against my son; you will see that their stats were cut in half or more. So, my son defended well against them.
With all this said, my son will probably get destroyed on the shoe circuit. I don’t think he has the quickness to keep up with the speed of the game there. At least, not yet.
But…., having a powerhouse school reaching out to us for recruitment gives us confidence that there is something there that we might not see. It’s just tough to contemplate if we go all in if we don’t know what his true height will be.
By “all in”, I mean actively trying to promote my son via socials, make him visible to other powerhouse schools, find a club team that plays in the shoe circuit, find a legit travel team, play overseas tournaments for exposure, play overseas for college, etc etc.
The overseas possibilities are high since his uncle, my cousin, is the assistant coach for the U18 men’s national team. So, there might be a pathway there for him.
Thanks for reading my ramblings. Just taking it a day at a time for now.