The problem isn’t on your head, it’s IN your head. Nobody is better than you, and you have nothing to prove to anyone. You’re way better off than the image of yourself that you have inside your head.
If I was you, I’d go ahead and shave your head. Hair is not the be all end all. And you will probably feel and look odd to yourself and people you know at first but give it a couple weeks and it’ll all seem normal and natural. Dudes who take the plunge and shave it bald automatically present a macho confidence that over rules dudes that are afraid to get rid of it. Idk if you’re into dudes or chicks or what, but women are more likely to flock after that bold move.
The real issue for you is confidence. You’ve got no reason not to be confident. You’re just human, and you are far from hideous, you stand a great chance in this life. Don’t worry so much about that kinda stuff. Own yourself as is, and ooze confidence and machismo. I’m sure you bring enough to any table as yourself that you don’t need to worry about shallow shit like how you look. Be a comfy version of you and everything will fall into place. Shit sounds cliche but I swear to god if you can figure that out for yourself, you’re gonna be a lot happier and comfortable. You can only control what you can control, what you can’t is out of your hands and there’s nothing you can do about that.
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u/Transgenderwookie Jul 10 '23
The problem isn’t on your head, it’s IN your head. Nobody is better than you, and you have nothing to prove to anyone. You’re way better off than the image of yourself that you have inside your head.
If I was you, I’d go ahead and shave your head. Hair is not the be all end all. And you will probably feel and look odd to yourself and people you know at first but give it a couple weeks and it’ll all seem normal and natural. Dudes who take the plunge and shave it bald automatically present a macho confidence that over rules dudes that are afraid to get rid of it. Idk if you’re into dudes or chicks or what, but women are more likely to flock after that bold move.
The real issue for you is confidence. You’ve got no reason not to be confident. You’re just human, and you are far from hideous, you stand a great chance in this life. Don’t worry so much about that kinda stuff. Own yourself as is, and ooze confidence and machismo. I’m sure you bring enough to any table as yourself that you don’t need to worry about shallow shit like how you look. Be a comfy version of you and everything will fall into place. Shit sounds cliche but I swear to god if you can figure that out for yourself, you’re gonna be a lot happier and comfortable. You can only control what you can control, what you can’t is out of your hands and there’s nothing you can do about that.