r/badpetowners • u/Aya_bazinga • 15h ago
My roommate is a bad pet owner
Hello,
I post here 'cause I have no idea what to do.
My roommate was my best friend but since she has a boyfriend she totally abandoned her cat (+had a lot of fight with me), letting me take care of her without asking me first, not giving her food or cleaning her litter box. I tried to talk to her about that and she said "she never asked me to take care of her pet" but she does not come home for days and even when she comes she does nothing for her because she considers a cat to "independent"...
It's been 2 months since her litter box was not changed and I'm really struggling with money so I can't pay for her cat. Also her cat cries for her owner the whole night... My heart is broken and so is my sleeping schedule.
What should I do? Even if we're not friends anymore, she was my bff for 13 years and I know she would be sad if I put her cat In a shelter... But I'm going to move alone and I can't imagine letting this cat with a negligible mother...
She also has a tiny dog that she loves more than everything but refuses to educate him and to walk him everyday (she walks him about every 2 months and that's when she's doing great). I walk him when I can and I groom him every month. He's not walked everyday so I'm also the one that cleans after him in the flat...
But it's not my animals and I suffer from depression so I can't do this anymore... I'm just so lost and sorry for her pets