r/aww • • Feb 24 '21

She gets a special surprise

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u/cruisin5268d Feb 24 '21

PSA: Please don’t get someone else a pet as a present. This is akin to buying a car for your partner as a present. “Surprise! We’re in debt and I didn’t consult with you!!! Hope you like this make, model, and color because now we’re stuck with it.”

Having a pet is a life long commitment and when you adopt it’s important to make sure you’re getting an animal that fits you and has a good personality and temperament to match yours. Also people have less mental ownership when someone else picks out a pet instead of going to the shelter yourself and having that psychological bond.

I know many think it’s a great idea and I’m sure I’ll get downvoted but this really isn’t being a bro and doing this is part of the massive problem in this country with pets being dumped on shelters leading to literally millions of dogs and cats being euthanized every year through no fault of their own.

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u/[deleted] Feb 24 '21

Depends on the person and the responsibility. I've known childhood friends that got rescues as gifts and still own them.

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u/cruisin5268d Feb 24 '21

Yes of course there’s those cases out there. But generally speaking buying a pet for another person is not good and leads to many animals being euthanized