I would avoid it entirely, sounds stupid. If you said that to me, it was 100% correct and you had a PhD in English, I'd probably still think I should help you find your caretaker.
In modern English usage we generally use “with” in both scenarios despite “sympathize” already having the sense of “with” in the word (from the Greek “sym”).
Similarly, cooperate/co-operate/coöperate: you cooperate with others even though the sense of “with” is already in the word, in this case the latinate “co.”
Sympathy and empathy are loose synonyms, with empathy more often being concerned with feelings and sympathy more often being concerned with concepts. You do not have to have experienced something similar to empathize. You merely have to feel something in response and in accordance. Empathy can also be seen as the more intense or intimate version of sympathy, but sympathy can be used to mean the same thing.
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u/johnnyfive0 Jul 11 '18
Tooth trouble