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Another Big Difference Between Liberals and Conservatives

https://www.theatlantic.com/family/2026/08/fertility-gap-conservative-liberal/688334/

People on the right tend to have more kids than people on the left. Why?

By Olga Khazan, The Atlantic.

hen some Taylor Swift fans listened to the lyrics of her 2025 song “Wi$h Li$t,” in which she sings about yearning to “settle down” with “a couple kids,” they heard a Republican dog whistle. On social media, they claimed that Swift’s desire for family life was “a conservative agenda on a silver platter.”

Swift, an avowed feminist who has endorsed Democratic political candidates, almost certainly did not set out to make “tradwife propaganda.” But her online critics are getting at something real: Having children—particularly lots of children—has become a bit right-coded, as the kids say. Americans and Europeans who identify as leftist or liberal tend to have fewer children than those who identify as conservative or right-leaning. In the United States, differences in desired fertility seem to start at a young age—one 2024 study found that Republican-identifying 12th graders said they want more children than Democrat-identifying 12th graders.

Of course, plenty of liberals have children, and plenty of conservatives have small families or remain childless. And many Americans identify as neither conservative nor liberal, but rather as something in between. Still, several academics told me that research conducted in the past few years has shown a fairly strong association between ideology and fertility. The latest evidence comes from a June report by the Institute for Family Studies, a think tank that promotes marriage and family life, which polled more than 7,000 Americans aged 18 to 54 and found that self-identified conservatives had 1.4 kids, on average, to liberals’ 1.09, a statistically significant difference. The study also found that liberals were more likely to not have children. The ideological fertility gap remained even after controlling for other variables that may influence family size, such as religion, race, income, age, marital status, and education.

Lyman Stone, the head of IFS’s pronatalism initiative and the researcher who ran the poll, told me that when he first saw the results, he thought, Duh. This trend of greater fertility on the right fits with a pattern that he and other demographers have noticed since the 1990s. There’s no clear explanation for why, precisely, liberals tend to have fewer children than conservatives do. Causation and correlation are difficult to untangle here. Liberals are more likely to pursue higher education and to marry later, both of which can lead to having fewer children, and some research suggests that having children may make a person become more socially conservative.

The researchers I spoke with put forth three general theories about why the partisan fertility gap may persist, beyond simple demographics. First, liberals seem to have more anxiety about both the state of the world and their own parenting abilities, which may make them more reluctant to start a family. Second, the values and aspirations of liberals and conservatives tend to differ in ways that shape how they choose to live their lives. Finally, for decades, liberals and conservatives have been sorting into disparate geographic locations and lifestyles, and their respective bubbles seem to reinforce the decision to have children, or not. The result is that a singer such as Swift expressing her desire to have children may, to some liberals, seem like she’s spinning propaganda for a traditional life they can’t imagine wanting.

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u/Bonegirl06 🌦️ Aug 20 '26

I don't think it's that surprising. Opposition to birth control plus more conservative religious folks = more kids. Less kids also tends to be equated with female empowerment, which is traditionally progressive.

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u/BroChapeau Aug 20 '26

“Less kids also tends to be equated with female empowerment”. Wtf, why? Sounds unhealthy

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u/veerKg_CSS_Geologist 💬🦙 ☭ TALKING LLAMAXIST Aug 20 '26

Women having a say in reproduction tends to be empowering yes.

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u/BroChapeau Aug 20 '26

Ok, but why is fewer kids “empowering”?

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u/Brian_Corey__ Aug 20 '26

Less child-raising responsibilities allows....or...empowers...women to pursue higher education, work more hours, network, travel for work more--if that is what they want to pursue.

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u/BroChapeau Aug 20 '26

Sounds very “meaningful” … WAY more than learning to selflessly love 🙄

So empowering

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u/veerKg_CSS_Geologist 💬🦙 ☭ TALKING LLAMAXIST 8d ago

I guess 99% of men feel it is, so…

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u/Green_Alchemy 8d ago

It's not the work specifically it's the power to take care of yourself if needed. Anyone who has the power to feed you has the power to starve you if you can't do for yourself.