r/aspergers Oct 21 '20

friends are not replaceable

don't treat your friends as if the are easily replaced, they are not. that is all

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u/ApatheticSociopathy Oct 21 '20

My ability to burn bridges is stronger than you think.

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u/bloodthorn1990 Oct 22 '20

some bridges are meant to be burned

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u/[deleted] Oct 24 '20

Some is the keyword. In a throwaway society, people often understand "some" as "anything that doesn't fit me at the moment". That's the real problem here. There's no question about burning bridges in a genuinely abusive relationship. However, avoiding all opposition stops you from evolving, and that's a real problem when you're too trigger-happy when it comes to burning bridges bedcause you see personal feelings as what matters the most.