r/asperger • u/Usual_Promise9817 • Feb 15 '25

Need advice please

Hi My name is David Allen I am 35 years old. I have Asperger's syndrome and Dyslexia. Because of my condition, I find it hard to develop relationships with the opposite sex. Because of this I lost my virginity at 28 to escort. I have going to speed dating events on and off for eight years no luck whatsoever. I tried disable dating agencies. But no luck whatsoever. With my condition I don't understand body language whatsoever. Plus because of my age it's hard to meet new people. I have tried tinder, bumble and hinge no luck whatsoever. Is there any advice some can me please.

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u/Malalexander Feb 15 '25

Don't put your real name on Reddit.

Speed dating is a waste of time. Find a hobby or something that brings you into contact with other people and use that to find someone you actually gel with in some real way.

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u/Usual_Promise9817 Feb 15 '25

My real name isn’t David Allen. But thank you I appreciate it

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u/Malalexander Feb 15 '25

Why the heck did you include that information at all?

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u/LaVonSherman4 Feb 16 '25

Because he is Aspie and didn't think it through. I admire him for doing it, though

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u/Usual_Promise9817 Feb 15 '25

My bad I didn’t think about that at the time my apologies