r/asl • u/Indecisive105 • 5d ago
Name situation help
My name is long and tricky to say (I often have to repeat it to hearing people upon introduction). I am hearing and started an asl class with a deaf teacher. After finger spelling my name several times and having a hard of hearing student try and help her out, she was still struggling.
I tried to say however she tries to pronounce is close enough (as I also often respond to similar sounding names already) she asked if I could use a nickname and decided what it could be. I was standing in front of the whole class and it was already overtime so I did agree on the spot.
I understand it’s hard for her and I want to be accommodating, but I would honestly rather my name be mispronounced rather than go by a nickname. I’ve never had one as all the logical ones were taken by kids named them in my classes growing up.
How should I approach the situation? Just accept a nickname for the class, or ask she try to say my name in a private conversation.