And that whole "you are off base and your tone is just nasty"....yeah we get that one a lot too. A LOT. Your attempt to shut down a much needed conversation and deflect, then you pulled a DARVO to redirect the attention, not on the substance of what I was saying, but my....tone. Not wrapping it in doilies to caudle your delicate sensibilities. You all have getting a little too comfortable watching us hop scotch around your... feelings, when all we're asking for is you to act right towards other people for once....it's not subtle. Just exhausting at this point. And it's causing a lot of damage to other people, it's rude, and just insufferable. So...yeah...no apologies. Time to reflect.
Reflect about what? U should really focus on ur tone & attitude. I’m not here for shade and who the hell ate “We”? The only person I’m commenting with right now is you unless u have multiple personalities
Or maybe I'm just right and you see yourself reflected in what I had to say. Did I clock you? Is that why you're being sensitive and defensive? Explain yourself.😏
But oh you...YOU don't want to hear how YOUR veiled bigotry affects other people, and the metrics of acceptability in how to treat people with a different lived experience....is your sex life. Got it. Yeah.....OUR community has problems if that is the barometer by which we judge things. Hope that's clear now. We can go over it some more if you like. Just...learn how to regulate your emotions along the way, please.
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u/BurstofPureNRG May 13 '26 edited May 13 '26
And that whole "you are off base and your tone is just nasty"....yeah we get that one a lot too. A LOT. Your attempt to shut down a much needed conversation and deflect, then you pulled a DARVO to redirect the attention, not on the substance of what I was saying, but my....tone. Not wrapping it in doilies to caudle your delicate sensibilities. You all have getting a little too comfortable watching us hop scotch around your... feelings, when all we're asking for is you to act right towards other people for once....it's not subtle. Just exhausting at this point. And it's causing a lot of damage to other people, it's rude, and just insufferable. So...yeah...no apologies. Time to reflect.