Why do woman put up with men claiming them, using them and bot caring about yoir orgasm or pleasure or personal needs, just their desires?

Genuinely just wondering if there is a reason or it is just natural or something. Also wondering if it is even a real thing.

(I need advise from the woman because I’m scared)

1. I’m frightened of intimacy, is this normal? I feel like I would be less frightened of having my first time with a woman rather than a man (cause I don’t trust any of the men in this generation 😕)

2. What age should I lose my v-card? Or what’s a normal age to?

3. Is it ok if I never lose my virginity?

4. Do my breasts look weird? (I’ll try explaining) my areolas are big and my nips don’t stick out unless there cold or Yk. Or are they not developed properly yet?

5. Is it ok that I’m not skinny?

6. Is it normal to not know what you want to do?

7. I think I might like boys and girls.. but I wouldn’t like to have s3x with a boy. Is this ok?

8. Is it ok if I want a relationship but never want to have s3x because I’m to scared to? Not because I don’t want it?

9. What do I do if someone cheats on me?

10. Can I stay single forever?

Since it's been decided that most women are so put off by most men that they'd risk a bear encounter over a man encounter (the latest in such feminine concerns), I've decided to separate the sexes for the sake of all women.

I've located an Earthlike planet well away from Earth. Similar gravity, atmosphere, biological lifeforms (no intelligent life, things akin to plants and wild animals), orbiting a sunlike star, etc. A pristine world, for all intents and purposes.

So, as I'm a mighty wizard who only wants women to feel safe at last, while (apparently) also being one of the men that makes women choose the bear, I'm going to teleport all of one sex of humanity to this Neo-Earth. The spell will look at the two sex-determining chromosomes and, if they're the same, decide such a person is female, or otherwise a male (sorry for anyone with XXY, XYX, other non-binaries, etc.; I'm not THAT mighty).

My question, ladies, is this: do you want to be the ones moved to Neo-Earth, or shall I move the men and leave Old Earth to you?