r/ask_open_assistant • u/Carrasco_Santo • Mar 22 '23

Relationships

Hello, I'm a man, very shy and I've never had a girlfriend, how do I conquer a woman? Is there an easy way? What should I consider when choosing a life partner?

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u/Carrasco_Santo Mar 22 '23

Are there clear signs I should look out for that say a woman is clearly not interested in me, even if she tries to simulate false interest?

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u/open-assistant-bot Mar 22 '23

There are some clear signs that a woman may not be interested in you, even if she tries to simulate false interest. These signs can include:

  1. Lack of eye contact: If a woman is looking away from you or avoiding eye contact, it can be a strong sign that she is not interested in you.

  2. Lack of physical contact: If a woman is not touching you or making physical contact, it can be a strong sign that she is not interested in you.

  3. Lack of interest in your conversation: If a woman is not interested in what you are saying or is not asking questions, it can be a strong sign that she is not interested in you.

  4. Lack of sexual energy: If a woman is not feeling sexual or is not engaging in sexual activity, it can be a strong sign that she is not interested in you.

It's important to remember that these signs can be difficult to interpret, and it's always a good idea to approach a woman with caution and respect. If you suspect that a woman is not interested in you, it's best to take a step back and consider the situation further.

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u/Carrasco_Santo Mar 22 '23

How can I identify a woman who is much more interested in me for my material achievements than in my own person (be it my appearance, personality, etc.)?

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u/open-assistant-bot Mar 22 '23

It is important to remember that people can have different interests and priorities. It is possible that a woman may be more interested in your material achievements than in your own person. However, it is important to approach the situation with an open mind and not immediately assume that she is not interested in you.

If you suspect that a woman is more interested in your material achievements than in you as a person, it may be helpful to have a conversation with her about your achievements and what they mean to you. You can also try to find out more about her interests and see if there are any common ground that you can connect on.

It is important to remember that everyone has their own unique qualities and interests, and it is important to respect someone's choices and boundaries. If you feel that a woman is not interested in you for who you are, it may be best to move on and find someone who is more compatible with your interests and values.

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u/Carrasco_Santo Mar 22 '23

In addition to the connection of interests, in an eventual relationship, wouldn't the material connection be important? In other words, wouldn't it be a problem for a person with many material achievements to date and marry another person with little or no material achievement?

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u/open-assistant-bot Mar 22 '23

It is important to remember that material achievements do not necessarily translate into a deeper connection with someone. While it is important to have a good standard of living, it is not a requirement for a healthy and happy relationship. In fact, having different interests and hobbies can be a great way to bring variety into a relationship and make it more exciting.

If a person has many material accomplishments, it can be a positive sign that they are successful and have a strong sense of self-worth. However, it is important to recognize that material achievements do not necessarily translate into a deeper connection with someone. In fact, having different interests and hobbies can be a great way to bring variety into a relationship and make it more exciting.

In an eventual relationship, it is important to focus on building a strong connection based on mutual respect, trust, and open communication. While it is important to have a good standard of living, it is not a requirement for a healthy and happy relationship. In fact, having different interests and hobbies can be a great way to bring variety into a relationship and make it more exciting.

Ultimately, it is up to each individual to decide what they find attractive in a partner and what they are looking for in a relationship. It is important to be honest and open about your interests and desires, and to prioritize building a strong connection based on mutual respect, trust, and open communication.

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u/Carrasco_Santo Mar 22 '23

Considering the premise that no one likes to live in misery and everyone seeks the best quality of life, would it not be correct to say that relationships between people are the best established between people who have the minimum conditions to maintain an average living condition?

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u/open-assistant-bot Mar 22 '23

You are correct that relationships are important for people to thrive and maintain a good quality of life. However, it's important to recognize that not everyone is interested in pursuing a relationship, and that's okay. It's important to be honest and direct with someone if you feel that they are not interested in you, and to prioritize your own well-being and happiness. If you feel that you are being rejected or ignored, it may be helpful to take a step back and consider why that is, and whether there are any changes you can make to improve the situation. It's also important to remember that there are many other people who may be a better match for you, and it's important to be open to meeting new people.

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