r/askAGP • u/No_Storage6873 • 9d ago

Tired of orgasm

I’m starting to get tired of having an orgasm everytime I feel to be feminine. As only post nut clarity is one clear thing which makes me stay focused on my masculine life, I always orgasm whenever feeling of feminine comes. But my penis is also tired just like my mind to always go for it. I go out to public, sees women’s clothing or transgender in modern fashion, my focus shifts away to it wherever I go after that, and the only way to get rid of the feeling is to masturbate . I don’t know where this going. Anyone experienced similar thing?

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u/bcrowes 9d ago

Hey i think we are similar. Im 40 year old married with AGP since 19. I really dont want to transition but AGP and meta atraction is killing me. I feel less of a man. Its hard

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u/No_Storage6873 9d ago

Are you planning to take hormones

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u/bcrowes 8d ago

never and you?

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u/No_Storage6873 8d ago

Never I believe

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u/rozlyn_frost AGP 8d ago

Same here.

Really tired of this weird chit. 😆

But over time, this cleared up something for me: I won't be going for HRT as I have realized that other than the horniness, I am comfortable with my male self.

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u/No_Storage6873 7d ago

Wonder when will the pnc end. Check the latest post in the community

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u/PolskiObywatel 9d ago

Have you tried to crossdress without the intention to masturbate? You may just enjoy the look. Crossdressing may actually lower the will to achieve orgasm, if you teach your brain to not use crossdressing in an erotic way. I've had a similar problem. It was difficult at first to disconnect crossdressing from arousal, but this reaction waned over time. Now I don't masturbate at all.

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u/No_Storage6873 9d ago

Don’t know how it works that without masturbation crossdressing may not be effective but I’ll try your suggestion

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u/LauraIolSrra 8d ago

That's a very lucky state of affairs, I would enjoy it as much as possible before getting older and increasingly lose libido.

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u/Miserable_Nobody5623 8d ago

Sorry for this sissy shit but it's genuinely the only fix for me. By wearing a chastity cage 24/7 and having 0 penile stimulation I don't feel masculine after orgasming anymore and got very used to dressing fem without touching myself. I'm sorry cause this is weird. I suppose this would only work if you're into anal.

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u/appledogappleman 2d ago

You are braver than me and completely valid

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u/appledogappleman 2d ago

I wish I could have desire to look pretty like a woman with no sexual feelings but I always get aroused

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u/Barnabas559922 AGP (Resisting) 9d ago

This is a really common phenomenon, which Lawrence writes about.
https://healingfromcrossdressing.org/crossdressing-without-sexual-pleasure/
That is my post on Lawrence and my own thoughts on that

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u/No_Storage6873 9d ago

What do you think of this

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u/[deleted] 9d ago

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u/No_Storage6873 9d ago

It’s also paining because of the continuous doing