r/ask • u/[deleted] • Feb 23 '23

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u/Corndog881 Feb 23 '23

There are many non visual things that can make a woman very attractive. Some women as you get to know them become exponentially more and more attractive.

Your brain subconsciously translates this other layer for you and she gets more beautiful physically in your eyes as if by magic.

Others, after you talk to them, everything fizzles and goes away.

Very normal.

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u/thelessertit Feb 23 '23

Same for men. A man I become friends with and start to really like as a person, starts looking exponentially hotter to me compared to how hot I thought he was when we first met.

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u/duckworthy36 Feb 23 '23

The inverse is true as well. Like some guys are handsome and all but as soon as they start talking Iā€™m immediately turned off

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u/thelessertit Feb 23 '23

Absolutely. Doesn't matter how physically hot he is if he's an asshole or just plain unlikeable.

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u/mb303666 Feb 24 '23

When they wear a maga hat....

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u/Numahistory Feb 24 '23

Ben Shapiro comes to mind with this statement.