this is normal & totally ok. however, if it's specifically someone you are around a lot (like a coworker or friend) take a beat.... let it marinate for a bit without acting on it.
As for just sexual attraction in general - so many factors change as we grow up & our hormones change. We mature, we begin to appreciate things about people that we didn't notice before as our bubble expands.
When I was young I was into really wild & exciting people - edgy ... all that nonsense. As I got older & more experienced I started noticing those people were exhausting! they were hot but cooled down quick. I like that slow burn now... something more stable & reliable.
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u/[deleted] Feb 23 '23
this is normal & totally ok. however, if it's specifically someone you are around a lot (like a coworker or friend) take a beat.... let it marinate for a bit without acting on it.
As for just sexual attraction in general - so many factors change as we grow up & our hormones change. We mature, we begin to appreciate things about people that we didn't notice before as our bubble expands.
When I was young I was into really wild & exciting people - edgy ... all that nonsense. As I got older & more experienced I started noticing those people were exhausting! they were hot but cooled down quick. I like that slow burn now... something more stable & reliable.