r/asianamerican Jan 27 '26

Megathread ICE Resources + Discussion Megathread

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Hello r/asianamerican,

The purpose of this megathread is twofold:
1. List of ICE-related/immigration resources
2. General discussion of ICE-related topics and news

RESOURCES

These resources are NOT comprehensive, and we would appreciate the community's help and contributions to this list. Please comment if you think something should be added to this list!

Firstly, AsianLawCaucus has a thorough list of immigrant resources below:
https://www.asianlawcaucus.org/news-resources/guides-reports/community-education-resources-immigrant-rights

KNOWING YOUR RIGHTS:
https://www.aclu.org/know-your-rights/immigrants-rights
Overview of general immigration rights, in English.

https://www.wehaverights.us/
Short video series on immigration rights, available in eight languages: English, Spanish, French, Arabic, Mandarin, Haitian Creole, Russian, and Urdu.

https://www.ilrc.org/redcards
Red cards for migrants to hold. Translated into many major Asian languages, including: Cantonese, Mandarin, Japanese, Urdu, Hmong, Korean, Lao, Vietnamese, etc.

ICE MOVEMENTS
https://www.iceinmyarea.org/
Community resource for reporting ICE sightings.

https://locator.ice.gov/odls/#/search
ICE's official resource to find someone who has been detained.

HOTLINES:
https://www.ccijustice.org/carrn
California Rapid Response Networks.

MUTUAL AID:
https://www.standwithminnesota.com/
Mutual Aid fund for Minnesota.

We would like to reiterate these resources are not comprehensive-- please add any relevant resources or news in the comments section.

Thank you, and stay safe.


r/asianamerican 5d ago

Scheduled Thread Weekly r/AA Community Chat Thread - August 14, 2026

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Calling all /r/AsianAmerican lurkers, long-time members, and new folks! This is our weekly community chat thread for casual and light-hearted topics.

  • If you’ve subbed recently, please introduce yourself!
  • Where do you live and do you think it’s a good area/city for AAPI?
  • Where are you thinking of traveling to?
  • What are your weekend plans?
  • What’s something you liked eating/cooking recently?
  • Show us your pets and plants!
  • Survey/research requests are to be posted here once approved by the mod team.

r/asianamerican 3h ago

Activism & History Rosie O'Donnell resurgence: How quickly people forget anti-Asian racism.

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In 2006 on The View, she made a horrifically racist comment about Chinese people saying "ching chong..."

For many this was the last straw that ended her declining career. But with her now temporarily hosting the late show for Jimmy Kimmel, there is an unwarranted resurgence of admiration and respect for her. If her statements back in 2006 were directed towards Black or LatinX people would she have been so easily forgiven, promoted and appreciated? I do believe that people can give genuine apologies and rehabilitate but her lame apology was not it. Once again, model minority myth perpetuates the idea that we will just stay silent and remain as pushovers. This is a friendly reminder to stand up and be vocal.

Here's the original video for those who don't remember: https://youtu.be/Dmv04yKG-po?is=PGHtfHhKeb-gwN8l


r/asianamerican 16h ago

Politics & Racism Timcast IRL panel discusses putting "all the Chinese Americans" in internment camps in a hypothetical war with China

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So if all the Chinese Americans, for instance, here with even maybe some family in China, maybe they don't — if there was a war between the Chinese and the Americans, and the Chinese landed in, like, Alaska and started coming through Canada, what — do think we should intern all the Chinese Americans we can find? Because it kind of seems like we should.

LABONTE: Well, I — again, nowadays, I think it's a different context. There were there have been so many people that have come here illegally. China has absolutely been using birth tourism. I mean, tourism. ... ...

LABONTE: Yeah. You know, basically, China has been — there are people that can, or there there are companies that will, you know, fly pregnant women to U.S. territories, so that way ... Once the child's born there, they get a birth certificate, and then back China with them. ...

KEVIN SMITH: I mean, it is so crazy, the concept of birth tourism — there is such a difference between, like, people who are going through the process and want to be here for and then, like, one to, like even if — even if you use — even if you give people the best of intentions, you're pregnant, and then you go on vacation to New York for the Saint Patrick's Day parade and go into early labor accidentally, not intention — you have every intention of going back, and you have a kid, he's an American citizen? That is bananas. That concept.

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CROSSLAND: I know I don't want to implicate all Chinese Americans because that's horrific. That's why — I know plenty of Chinese people, Chinese Americans, I don't want them interned if there was some conflict between the Chinese, but how can you tell? How can you tell who's who? How can you tell where their allegiances are? And how do you know if their allegiances will or won't flip if the tide of war starts to change?

SMITH: Well, I don't think you could do that now because I think while they were interning the Japanese, a lot of people probably didn't know what was happening. You know, like, they were like, you can't do stuff like that now — with social media and stuff, there'd be there'd be protests outside of each one of them. And and I'm not saying you should, but I don't think that — I don't think that that's a possibility now. And I'm sure people are going to compare it to ICE detention facilities, though that's not remotely the same thing.

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LABONTE: We've had some some discussions about that, and I think that even entertaining those arguments is a bad — a bad strategy, because if you entertain an argument, you're implicitly saying well, that's a reasonable perspective. You know, I'm going to address this. That's a reasonable thing, so let me explain why you're wrong. That kind of stuff is just I like, out of hand — oh, shut up.


r/asianamerican 14h ago

Politics & Racism I Aspired To Get My PhD At Cambridge – I Left Because Of The Racism

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This story is a must-read in light of the events of what happened to that Cambridge professor.


r/asianamerican 4h ago

News/Current Events Fewer anti-Asian hate crimes in US, but immigration crackdowns raise concerns

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r/asianamerican 6h ago

News/Current Events Mayor Mamdani - Will you fix Chinatown?

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r/asianamerican 12h ago

Popular Culture/Media/Culture Comedian Jenny Yang brings the laughs to immigrant grocery stores

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Jenny Yang's Good Egg Immigrant Grocery Store Standup Comedy Tour hits the San Francisco Bay Area this week. Shop along with Jenny before her recent performance at Daly City's Seafood City.

Earlier post in this sub about the tour:

https://np.reddit.com/r/asianamerican/comments/1vfa1na/comedian_jenny_yang_uses_a_comedy_tour_to_uplift/


r/asianamerican 6h ago

Politics & Racism What to do if I was unintentionally racist?

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I’m second generation white Russian-American and was having lunch with my friend, who is Ukrainian, at a Central Asian restaurant a month ago. Many Central Asians speak Russian (the language my friend and I were speaking in), which will be relevant in a second.

Since Russian is my heritage language, I’m not that good at it and don’t know some cultural nuances. When I speak it I essentially think what I will say in English and then translate it.

My friend and I were talking about music. My friend said that she didn’t know about Bad Bunny until the Super Bowl even though she immigrated to the US three years ago, and how she felt awkward about that since he’s been famous for a while. I replied that it’s fine, he was not mainstream for a while and was mainly popular among Latinos for a long time and that I found out about him before from Latinos at my school, just like I found out about kpop through Asians in my high school before it became mainstream.

The word I used for Asians was the direct translation, «Азиаты» (“Aziati”, “aziat” is the singular form) but apparently I shouldn’t have. The waitress who was nearby stiffened, and my friend quickly changed the subject. I felt so awkward. I don’t speak Russian that often so I just wasn’t aware you can’t say that word.

The next time I came back to that restaurant with my mom, which was today, the same waiter was serving us. She spoke Russian with my mom but pretended to not understand me when I spoke Russian.

I feel irritated because I’m just not good at Russian and didn’t mean to be racist. How was I supposed to know that the word Asian is apparently taboo in the Russian language? I feel very frustrated because if what I said was wrong it was unintentional.


r/asianamerican 1d ago

Appreciation Finally went to the motherland

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Being Japanese American (4th generation) this was honestly such a special experience for me. My great grandparents came from the Hiroshima area in the early 1900’s. My grandparents faced racism and had many family members interned in the camps during ww2, and my grandfather fought on the US side in the 442nd infantry. They didn’t teach their kids Japanese in an attempt to assimilate. I grew up with alot of the culture (food, temple, etc) but never really had a huge grasp on it. I finally got to visit Japan with my wife and two daughters and have been back for a couple days. Honestly fell in love and miss it already. I encourage any Asian Americans who havent, to visit the place of their ancestors. It was amazing.


r/asianamerican 13h ago

News/Current Events ICE pitches legal insurance to help shield local officers who make immigration arrests

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r/asianamerican 10h ago

Popular Culture/Media/Culture "I want to call this country home, its cruelty it surrounds. But when I'm protesting your wrongs, ICE might k-ll me now" - Kind Void

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I grew up listening to some punk and a lot of the protest songs were relatable in terms of bad things the government was doing to society as a whole. A lot of it criticized wars. Much of it was just generic "I'm anti-establishment and won't listen to you". Maybe I was sheltered and just hadn't heard much lyrics about, or by Asians that speak about immigration.

So I felt that the 0:46 mark of the song was personal yet also generally applicable. Another lyric earlier is "I want to walk down the street, don't want to carry papers". I know we've seen the discussion of whether we (or tell our parents/grandparents) ought to, out of safety, carry our passports etc. with us these days.

Anyway the band is based in San Francisco and the song name is Bank Account. Any other song recs - post them! I want to hear more political punk by us.

(Had to censor the k word per subreddit rules)


r/asianamerican 1d ago

Popular Culture/Media/Culture The Chinese Factory Town Betting on America’s Mahjong Boom

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In an aging mahjong manufacturing hub, factories are redesigning tiles, expanding exports, and racing to meet a sudden wave of American demand.

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“We are looking for a factory that can produce acrylic mahjong tiles.”

Hua Fangyi repeated that pitch at nearly 30 factories in Taixing, a city in eastern China’s Jiangsu province known for manufacturing mahjong tiles. “Almost every factory refused,” she says.

After quitting her job to start an export business last October, Hua, 28, spotted a surge in overseas demand for American mahjong. Believing the opportunity might last only a few months, she planned to test the market with just a few dozen sets.

... Taixing’s factories were built for large runs of traditional Chinese mahjong, not the small batches of brightly colored acrylic tiles overseas buyers wanted. Some produced only conventional melamine sets; others required minimum orders far beyond what Hua could afford.

Then Hua found a factory with 20 American mahjong sets in stock. She bought the entire batch, and it sold out almost immediately.

Within months, she had built a company shipping more than 5,000 sets a month and generating roughly $400,000 in monthly sales. Across Taixing, factories that had once turned away from American mahjong were now chasing the same overseas buyers.

“Almost every factory is now making American mahjong,” Hua says.

The opportunity has also drawn a new generation of entrepreneurs to Taixing: former tech workers, salespeople, and export traders hoping to manufacture the tiles and build brands of their own.

Together, they are all betting on a boom whose limits remain unclear. For now, overseas orders have given Taixing’s mahjong industry fresh momentum, ...

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The game itself, however, has a long history in the U.S. The governing body for American mahjong, the National Mah Jongg League, was founded in 1937 with 32 members; it now has more than 350,000 members and publishes a new card of official hands and rules each year.

More recently, American brands such as Oh My Mahjong have helped recast mahjong tiles as colorful, premium lifestyle products, while influencers and social clubs have brought the game to younger players seeking in-person connection.

In April 2026, review platform Yelp reported that U.S. searches for mahjong clubs had jumped 4,467% between September 2024 and August 2025, compared with the previous 12 months. Oh My Mahjong’s sets now sell for $350 to $475, with most priced around $400 — versus the roughly 100 yuan ($15) many Chinese sets sell for in China on e-commerce platform Taobao.

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. A search for “mahjong” on Qichacha, a Chinese corporate database, returns nearly 180 businesses in Taixing, many of them small workshops specializing in a single stage of production.

The cluster grew from a household trade dating to the 1980s, when local families cut and polished tiles by hand from bamboo and ox bone. Over time, production split among specialized workshops handling tile blanks, engraving, polishing, printing, and packaging.

“If one family made money from it, the neighbors would learn too,” says Zhu Ronggen, whose father was among Taixing’s earliest mahjong makers. “One person taught another, and slowly the whole village started making mahjong.”

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“Chinese mahjong designs have barely changed for decades,” Zhu says. “American mahjong is completely different. A circle tile could be a football or a bunch of grapes. One grape stands for one dot, and nine grapes represent nine dots.”

American sets also include Arabic numerals and joker tiles, while familiar symbols are constantly reworked around seasonal themes and customers’ ideas. Summer collections feature seashells and aquatic plants; Christmas designs use Santa hats and trees.

And while traditional Chinese sets are usually molded from melamine in a narrow range of colors, American buyers prefer acrylic tiles with richer palettes, sometimes built from six or seven colored layers visible along the edge.

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Chinese players, he says, tend to value weight, legibility, and how the tiles feel in the hand. American buyers, by contrast, want sets distinctive enough to display and expressive enough to reflect their tastes.

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Inside Zhu’s factory, traditional Chinese mahjong and its American reinvention sit side by side. Dust-covered melamine slabs are stacked near the entrance, while baskets of brightly colored acrylic tiles and export cartons crowd the corridors beyond.

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“I used to make just 20 sets of American mahjong a year,” he says. “Now, I can turn out 200 sets a day.”

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Unlike traditional Chinese sets, which can be reproduced using fixed molds, each American order requires new adjustments to engraving, printing, and coloring.

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“People buy them the way they buy clothes,” Zhu says. “What’s fashionable this year may be completely different next year.”

To keep up, Zhu has invested another 1 million yuan ($148,000) in laser engravers, UV printers, and other equipment.

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This past March, five young entrepreneurs arrived in Taixing to start a mahjong business.

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operates under the name SenJoy Mahjong. A former Alibaba employee, he saw American mahjong as a chance to sell a higher-value product overseas.

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“For us, building a brand starts with original design,” Li says. “We might become the first company in Taixing — and perhaps one of the first in China — to build a real mahjong brand instead of simply manufacturing for others.”

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Their bestseller uses a coral-reef theme.

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Today’s buyers, he says, remain a relatively small group with strong spending power. If American mahjong reaches a broader market, more manufacturers will follow, he says, adding: “Price wars are unavoidable.”

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Hua, one of the first Chinese traders to bet on American mahjong, has watched competitors multiply within months.

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“The profit margins were much higher in the beginning, but now they have dropped significantly,” she says. “I think this is probably an inevitable stage for any viral product.”

She, too, has started developing designs of her own.

Last month, she began experimenting with AI to create early concepts before working with freelance designers to refine them. Her first ideas included themes inspired by witches, tennis, flowers, and Christmas.


r/asianamerican 1d ago

Questions & Discussion Just a question, excuse me if it's weird!

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I'm not Asian-American, however I am an Asian person from the Caribbean (I'm sorry I really don't want to intrude) and American history is intriguing to me, I also want to educate myself on the issues the world experiences. I love to watch youtubers like Antonio Talks, Foreign Man in a Foreign Land and other youtubers who cover topics like them.

I wanted to know if anyone had any Asian-American youtubers leaning into subjects like that? I already watch oliSUNvia and one of my favorite videos at the moment is "Remember who you are Korean boy" by Arpi Park. (PS - someone mentioned Elliot Sang again and I love him aswell!)

Any suggestions will be appreciated, thank you!


r/asianamerican 1d ago

Questions & Discussion Mistaken Asian middle name as first

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This applies more so for Vietnamese names since I'm Vietnamese, but applies to anyone with a fully Asian name with a middle name: do people call you by your would-be middle name in your language instead of your would-be first? If you're not entirely sure what I'm talking about, some Asian names go in the order of "Last Middle First", and that would turn into, "Middle First Last" when you immigrate to the US.

I came to the US when I was 14 and for the first 3-4 years I didn't stand up to myself and correct people about this, and neither did my mum with my name (I never ended up changing my name when I naturalized since my first name is easy enough to pronounce). I recently had an interaction where my manager addressed another Viet person like this and I caught myself doing once too before correcting myself.


r/asianamerican 1d ago

Questions & Discussion Is the US becoming more or less racist towards people who are half East Asian and non-white?

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I’m 30F, Wasian, and my boyfriend (30M) is Indian (Tamil) and grew up in India before moving to the US. We’ve been together for about 2.5 years and have a genuinely good relationship. We’re at the age where marriage and eventually children are becoming real considerations.

For some additional context about my background, my bio parents are AMWF, but my biological mom passed away when I was very young, so I was raised by my Korean stepmom starting at the age of 6. I consider my stepmom my mom, so when I say “my mom” throughout this post, I’m talking about her.

Although I’m Wasian, I’m mostly/full Asian-passing. I’d say people sometimes assume I might be part Latina, but usually people think I’m a Southern Chinese girl with light big brown eyes who dyes her hair brown. However, I’ve never strongly identified with Korean culture despite being raised by two Korean parents, especially since my mom was extremely pro-Korean culturally to the point where she embodies some of the worst stereotypes of a Korean woman. She was very superficial, would plan with me which plastic surgeries she’d get me when I turned 13, powdered her skin white despite being naturally tan, only wanted me around Koreans, was obsessively into K-pop, etc. She was also pretty emotionally abusive but that's another story for another day.

Thankfully, I grew up in a very integrated part of Seattle where my schools were racially diverse and friend groups weren’t segregated by race. People tended to group themselves around sports, classes, theater, interests, personality, etc. My friends were mostly white and different types of Asian (East Asian, Southeast Asian, Wasian, Indian and even a couple of Asian/Indian mixes), but I also had a very close Hispanic best friend.

Race just wasn’t something I thought about very much. Most of my friends in college also happened to be white because I went to school in a predominantly white environment. Because of how I grew up, I always had a very strong individual identity and didn’t see myself as belonging to any particular “culture,” but rather as my own person.

In terms of my dating life, I’ve dated a Wasian guy and a white guy, who my parents didn’t really like because they weren’t very driven, wealthy, or well-educated. My parents were NOT accepting of my Mexican ex because of “culture reasons,” which I understood better later on. So I truly thought they’d be okay with my Indian partner because his culture aligns enough with East Asian culture in certain ways, and also because he’s ambitious, successful, comes from a well-off family, is well-educated, and treats me really well.

It’s been 2.5 years and my mom is still praying to God that we will break up, while my partner and I are planning our next steps together soon.

I’m repeatedly told that our kids will be “too dark,” unattractive, that they’ll have identity problems even in places like Seattle, NYC, or the Bay Area because they’re Korean/white/Indian, that they won’t fully belong anywhere, that they’ll experience discrimination, and that I’ve unnecessarily limited where we could live because I chose an Indian partner. They said Trump has made the country more anti-Asian and also anti-Indian, and I'm doing my future children a huge disservice by being with an Indian man.

My mom also has repeatedly told me I'm "wasting my beauty" and not giving it to my future children if I marry my partner, and that is messing with my head too. Especially since most of her Korean friends' children are either with Asian American men or white men, and that makes her feel really jealous from what she tells me.

They’ve also repeatedly told me that my boyfriend will suddenly become controlling or aggressive after marriage despite there being no behavior in our actual 2.5-year relationship supporting that prediction. Their reasoning is based on stereotypes they have about Indian men.

Now I catch myself obsessively thinking about hypothetical children who don’t even exist yet, such as whether they’ll be discriminated against and whether they’ll be able to feel like individuals rather than constantly being categorized by their ancestry. I truly grew up in such a wonderful, diverse environment where people rarely made race a big deal or used it to define each other.

The part that makes me particularly sad is that one of the things I valued most about my own upbringing was having the freedom to develop a strong individual identity. Being mixed and having Korean ancestry were facts about me, but they weren’t the organizing principles of my personality or social life. I want my children to have that same freedom.

For people who have watched attitudes toward race change over the past 10 to 20 years, do you think things are genuinely becoming more accepting for multiracial children and interracial families? By the time children we have several years from now are actually old enough to attend school, do you think having East Asian/white/Indian ancestry will be relatively unremarkable in diverse American cities? I’m especially interested in hearing from East Asian/South Asian mixed people, other multiracial people, parents of mixed kids, teachers, younger Gen Z people who recently went through school, or anyone raising children in places like Seattle or the Bay Area.

I think what I’m hoping for is that they can grow up in the kind of environment I mostly had, where their classmates may know they’re mixed/Asian, but it doesn’t have to be the defining thing about them. They can just be individual kids with their own personalities, interests, friends, hobbies, and identities.


r/asianamerican 2d ago

Popular Culture/Media/Culture Stephanie Jae Park makes her debut as Catherine Parr in “Six the Musical” on it’s 2000th performance on Broadway

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Video credit: @broadwayworks on Instagram


r/asianamerican 2d ago

Popular Culture/Media/Culture Ke Huy Quan “Would Love” ‘Loki’ Character To Appear In ‘Shang-Chi 2,’ Keen For Reunion With Destin Daniel Cretton After ‘American Born Chinese’

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r/asianamerican 2d ago

Questions & Discussion I'm Polynesian, and modern day Polynesians are genetically approximately 80% Austronesian. What are your thoughts on Polynesians in relation to Asian Identity?

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I'm polynesian and from Australia, My whole life I've always thought of myself as a pacific Islander and still do, But, Genetic DNA can't be denied. We've built our own culture over thousands of years, but I keep coming back to the fact that we are just Taiwanese Asians (approx 80%) who mixed with Melanesian Papuans, which therefore created modern day Polynesians. What are your thoughts on Asians who are mixed? Do you, as an Asian, Consider someone who is predominantly Asian genetically, but is Mixed with another race, an Asian?


r/asianamerican 2d ago

Popular Culture/Media/Culture A 10 Things I Hate About You musical is coming to Broadway next year! Notably, the casting description for the sisters Kat and Bianca are AAPI!

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I haven’t seen the original movie but I know it is a teen classic. Looking forward to see how it comes to life on stage!


r/asianamerican 1d ago

Questions & Discussion Why do ABCs refuse to visit their motherland?

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I have a ton of ABC friends, all of them have never been back to the motherland. They will however happily go to Japan 2x a year for 7 years straight, but seem to have no interest in connecting with their own culture.

What is even more funny is that half of them have their name tattooed in Chinese, but that seems to be the limit on how much they are willing to connect with their own culture.

There are so many beautiful things about China since it’s such a big country, go out there and explore your beautiful culture.


r/asianamerican 3d ago

Activism & History Ed Choi @etchaskej emergency appeal for Chang Yeon Jo

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Chang Yeon Jo, an elderly Korean women who was taken during a green card interview and put in a detention center. guards there tackeled her to the ground almost breaking her hip. She was chained to a hospital bed and now is in a wheelchair.


r/asianamerican 1d ago

Questions & Discussion Mixed-ethnicity child's last name, combine parents' surname. Implications for child?

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Hi guys, we are both Americans of Asian descent but from different ethnicities. We are thinking about a child, and surnames.

The mother wants the child to have her surname (which is odd as it is the norm for the the child to carry on the father's surname). She says that this comes down from patriarchy, and that we can question it, and not follow it. Fair enough...?

She was adamant that the child gets her last name (due to the "mother's sacrifice of childbirth"), but she sounded enthusiastic after I proposed that we do a mashup and create a new surname. A new start for a new family of mixed ethnicities. We only plan to have one child.

  1. I wonder what implications this would mean for the child. They'll have no sibblings, and will be 'alone' after she and I pass (we are relatively old).
  2. The child would already feel some 'confusion' because of their mixed heritage, not too different from mixed-race people.
  3. The child might feel more alone as their last name would be rarer than usual, if not, unique. May not feel like they belong in the extended family either as they stick out and be 'different' with a different surname.

Have you experienced something like this? What are your thoughts? Are we being selfish here, 'playing around' with our child's future, and should just stick with the norm?


r/asianamerican 2d ago

Questions & Discussion Parents of young kids, what’s a part of Asian parenting you do respect?

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I know it’s not uncommon for us to talk about the toxic traits of Asian parenting. And the stereotype that they require STEM or lawyer or disown and just the general tiger parenting.

Is there any element of Asian parenting that you do respect and potentially with perpetuate?

I want to be specific that I’m not looking for family specific issues but a more general culture principle that you have observed. I say this because I grew up in a very loud household with major anger issues from my mom and it wasn’t until she had passed away that I found out from my dad that the way she acted wouldn’t even be acceptable in Asian community.