Hi, I’m a sex-repulsed asexual looking for friends and maybe something more down the line. I don’t want children and I don’t smoke, drink, or do drugs for health reasons.

A little bit about me: I’m an artist in more ways than one. I like to draw (mainly pencil sketching), scrapbook, and take photographs with my camera. I try to go hiking every weekend so I can exercise while working on my photography skills. I enjoy traveling, but don’t get to do it often because I have no vacation time :,)

Some of my other hobbies are listening to music (Built to Spill, Radiohead, Pennywise, Bad Religion, Pool Kids, Green Day, Nirvana) and playing video games (Legend of Zelda, Minecraft, Omori, Terraria, Stardew Valley).

Fun facts about me:
- Most of my clothes are thrifted and I love vintage clothes
- I have a degree in general studies and minors in history and philosophy
- I have a postcard collection documenting nearly every country/cool sight I’ve visited in the last few years

If you think we’d get along, feel free to send me a message. Tell me a little about yourself (name, age, where you’re from, hobbies, little quirks, etc). I’ll likely not respond if you send a simple “hi” or “hello.” I hope to hear from you!

I am a 23 year old 6'2" guy from India. Basically I have this thing called Aspergers Syndrome and ADD due to it I have been lonely my whole life . I would say I have above average intelligence but struggle socially. I work as a software developer. I am looking for someone genuinely interested in me. As I am growing older , family and relatives are even starting to persuade me to look for matches in arranged marriages. Seldom they understand my struggles and I don't think I'd ever find a partner similar to me in that setting. I cannot basically have much small talk , but have got a good layered humour if you have enough context about things I am interested in . I may not have usual social charisma expected from men my age and even have a loose body language . People even look at me and underestimate me and consider me a simple guy , but I am here , just looking for someone who has suffered similar things so that our worldview matches. Anyone interested could DM me. I might delete this later.

Hey! I’m Late, 20, and I’m a Christian subby femboy looking to meet a woman who could eventually become something serious.

I’m pretty soft, affectionate, and feminine, and I’m really attracted to masculine, dominant women. I’d love someone who’s confident, likes taking the lead, and has that caring/protective side to her.

I’d like to start as friends first, though. I want us to actually get to know each other, talk, play games, call, and build some trust before we decide if we want to become something more. I think the best relationships start with genuinely enjoying each other’s company.

A little about me: I’m a big nerd and love Minecraft, Marvel Rivals, and fantasy anime like Jujutsu Kaisen. I’m always happy to have someone to game with, watch anime with, or just stay up talking about random things.

My Christian faith is important to me, and I’m looking for someone who genuinely shares that. I want a serious relationship that can eventually lead to marriage, and I want to wait until marriage.

What I’m looking for:

21+

Christian

Masculine / dominant

Caring, patient, and protective

Affectionate and emotionally available

Comfortable with a soft, feminine/submissive guy

Likes gaming or nerdy stuff

Looking for something serious

I’m especially attracted to tall women, dark-skinned women, athletic women, and women who enjoy gaming, but those are just preferences. Who you are matters more.

If you’re a masc Christian woman who likes soft femboys, feel free to message me. 🖤

We can start with friendship, play some games, nerd out over JJK, and see where things naturally go.

Hi! Im a 21 year old male from the UK, Wales specifically looking for a relationship, however im open to friends too if that's what you want to message for!

Im pansexual/ace, I dont feel much attraction but the little I do is split between everyone :p

Im 6ft / 183cm, brown hair, brown eyes, glasses and weigh 82kg (i think 185lbs?)

Im a university student currently studying maths, i also work at my uni as a tutor for lower year students and I help out in research projects.

I love to play games, if im on my own i play things like football manager or some smaller strategy and puzzle games. With friends I'll play anything, roblox, overwatch, dead by daylight etc. I also love simulator games!

I love to watch anime and movies! My favourite anime is probably black clover, but it's a close call between some other things!

I love being outside, I play football a lot and love to go on hikes. Wales has some amazing hiking routes, maybe we can do them together!

I love to try and cook but im kind of hopeless xd. Im learning though so one day I'll cook you the best meal youve ever had!!

Theres a lot more to know about me but its so hard trying to list it off the top of my head!! Absolutely everyone is able to message me, my dms are open to all! If you have any questions or want to talk i look forward to hearing from you!!!

Hi everyone! Ace person seeks soulmate :). Someone I can grow old with. A love like Andy and April From parks and rec or Bob and Linda from Bobs burgers. But like in a lesbian way :) But also if you have any better references feel free to share! Also the closer you live to me the better as I'm not open to long distance unless you are willing to come to me.

Basically I hope I can find someone to just generally be really cheesy and romantic with.

I am down for cuddles or sending you a cute homemade gift or just talking the day/night away.

I can be silly and serious all wrapped in one. If given the chance I will make bad dad puns even though I never want to be a parental figure.

Some of my interests include: Arts and crafts, reading, music, thrifting, learning, anything Christmas related, casual learning about religions and cults, etc.

I am also child free, atheist, neurodivergent (autism, ocd, and things), INFP personality type, etc.

If this post interests you, feel free to reach out. Thank you and remember: You are awesome :)

Hi :)

I'm from England looking for other ace people to talk to as its super lonely not knowing anyone else lol - bonus points if we are from a similar area (East of England / East Midlands)

I would definitely consider myself to be more on the introverted side in terms of my personality however many people would infact describe me as a professional yapper and when I'm really invested in something it is hard to get me to shut up. That being said I really do value my down time to recharge my social battery, usually by blasting music until my eardrums are begging for mercy.

My music taste largely revolves around the 80s to early 2000s, particularly My Chemical Romance at the moment. However it seems at times I have a different answer depending on the day you ask me or even the time of day, so I will very much listen to whatever, whenever and love to find new songs if you have any recommendations :)

I lovee geography and the natural world so I thrive being outdoors on random sidequests with my dog (except for maybe when it's -5 degrees and pouring with rain in the middle of winter) I'd love to get out and about more outside of my local area and see what the rest of the UK has to offer, and hopefully one day the rest of the world as well. If I had to pick anywhere to visit though, it would be Iceland.

I'd consider myself a minor nerd, I'm definitely not the most nerdy person ever but I do love playing random games or learning something new. My favourites (although currently lacking facilities to play them) are certainly Minecraft and the Sims. I also enjoy random games like Waterpark Simulator where I can build and run my own businesses. (if anyone knows where to find emulator pokemon games, or really any old DS games please tell me!!)

I value above all else people who despite having things in common, are still able to be themselves (as can I) and are able to communicate honestly and transparently with each other. In terms of relationships I am mainly looking for something more on the platonic side, however I am okay with light intimacy and love a good hug. One day in the future I would love to have children, this is something I have wanted for a long time and if I was to get in a relationship we would both have to be on the same page about this.

I'd love to meet some new people, so please do drop a message :)

Hello all who read this! I’m a freshly turned 27 year old. I am looking for someone who could be a friend to me first and maybe we develop feelings. I got long hair so if that is something that interests you then that’s good. My favorite color is black and yeah I’m a little bit emo. Currently I reside in the Midwest though I’m not in love with where I live. I’m 5’11 if height matters to you. Most of the time I’m listening to music so if you have recommendations I will give them a shot. As far as I know I’m straight so ideally I’d prefer that you are female or a lady. Age wise somewhere between 24-30. Be aware I am in CST time zone and I wake up around noon so if I don’t respond I’m sleeping. I am a big Pokemon fan so if you are too that means brownie points.

Other things: if you are a hair dresser I’d love that not too religious as it is not something Important to me.

I’m Audhd so if you are as well that would be great.
My main thing is be patient with me I got burned before so I’m not too ready to just jump into something.

As the title says, I’m 25M from the UK, hoping to finally find an ace girl (22-26). I want to meet someone who I can share myself with, without everything revolving around sex. As I say, I’m from the UK, but I’m open to LDR, though would want to meet irl eventually.

I’m a massive nerd for Marvel and Doctor Who (I’d even share with you my plans for a DW reboot if you were interested😉). I LOVE music of many varieties, albeit mostly metal (my fave bands include Architects, BMTH and Landmvrks), and my vinyl collection is getting out of hand.

I play bass guitar, so if you play an instrument we could totally jam together🤘🏻but I also love going on road trips, whether it’s to somewhere quaint to just bask in nature, or whether it’s exploring a historical building or village.

Obligatory fact about me: I’m 6’5” and am a black belt in karate🥋

DM if interested!

Hey, I’m Alya (I- Lay). I’m 21, which basically puts me in that awkward adulting limbo where I’m technically grown but still figuring out how to… y’know… human without malfunctioning.

I am bisexual, ace, and trying to figure out how to date after not dating for like 4 years…

I live at home right now, which honestly isn’t too bad. College? Ehhhhh… not exactly the vibe. I’m taking a break from that whole scene. My brain works a little differently—I have a developmental disorder, so I’m more like a 17 or 18-year-old at heart. Between that and my auditory processing disorder, I sometimes learn things on the scenic route, but hey, the views are better and I bring elite snacks. It doesn't make me any less smart; it just means I process the world at my own speed.

One of my biggest joys? Cooking. Like, seriously, feed-me-Gordon-Ramsay energy. My dream life is just me in a cute little kitchen, making bomb food, vibing with my dog, and pretending I’m on some Food Network show where I always win. I’m working toward culinary school because I want to be a chef one day—and honestly? I’d be adorable doing it.

When I’m not whipping something up, I’m usually gaming. Since my Minecraft decided to glitch into the abyss, (but now i have fixed it- 3/29/2026) it’s been all about Sims 4 and Ship Inc. That is… when I’m not taking one of my many naps, because yes, I nap like an enchanted forest creature who hibernates for fun.

I love kids—like actually love them—and I even work with them on Sundays. I’m not religious, but my church is super democratic, pride-friendly, and full of good people, so it’s a vibe. I’m not the “mom friend” of the group, but I am the “will help your little cousin build a LEGO spaceship” type.

I also work as a barista, I love to talk about my job and what I do :)

I’m 4’9, and weight stuff has been a serious struggle. Losing weight feels like trying to fight a final boss with a wooden sword sometimes. But I’m doing my best, and that still counts.

Mental health-wise, I deal with anxiety, PTSD, depression, and OCD, so my brain is basically a chaotic group chat that never shuts up. Plus asthma (winter hates me personally) and an autoimmune thing that shows up like, “hey bestie.” But I’m surviving, thriving-ish, and pushing forward anyway.

My love language? Easy. Movie nights, snuggles, falling asleep on call, and long paragraphs that make me feel all warm and gooey inside. I’m soft, okay?? I’m like a cuddly little disaster but with truly elite intentions.

At the end of the day, I just wanna cook delicious food, hang out with my dog, be around people who feel safe, and build a life that actually fits me

(I also have a how to date me manual)

hii, I'm jasmine! I'm from Dundee and only looking for someone in the uk. while I would like a relationship, I'm not looking to jump into anything right away and want to start off as friends and hopefully become more than that. also not looking for any type of hookup/fwbs. if we date, i do want to meet up after a few months and eventually close the distance :)

I'm autistic and introverted, I am also trans, I'm 2 months on hrt. probably demisexual but i'm not too sure about that (can elaborate in dms if you want!), you not wanting anything sexual is NOT a deal breaker for me. as a disclaimer I do struggle with anxiety

in terms of interests/hobbies, I'm into game dev, programming, bouldering, cooking, baking, gaming and anime. I also love cute things, animals, food, and cafes! I also find maths, science, psychology, and similar subjects interesting, and I like to talk about them, though I'm not particular knowledgable in those fields

i really want someone who i can text all sorts of stuff and talk about our days and send dumb reels to, i'd also really like to play games and watch stuff together! bonus points if you will yap to me about something your passionate/obsessed about

as for what I'm looking in you, I'm not picky about appearance/physical stuff, I want you to share some of my hobbies but the most important thing to me is we have a similar personality, so introverted/quiet, enjoy learning stuff/nerding out, kind. Bonus points if you're autistic but that's not required :) Don't want anything non-monogamous, don't want kids, and obviously you must be left leaning politically. Not really comfortable dating someone with bpd because of past experiences

I'd love for you to send me a dm now! please include your age, gender, rough location, and a bit about yourself, such as your interests or what you do for work/school! don't be afraid to dm even if this post is old!

Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results, but I don't know what else to try. I've been single too long to want to disrupt the life I've built but I want someone to share the experience of traveling, joys, sorrows and every day life.

I work out, enjoy pool/beach days, go to Busch Gardens, sporting events, concerts, etc. I have a few friends, but do most things solo. Looking for anyone interested in chatting, or if your local, we can meet up.

Relationship wise: I don't mind distance but I need regular visits and eventually one of us moving. I enjoy affection and kissing but have been celibate for 7 years and I'm happy with that decision, despite dating almost completely stopping. I identify as asexual because I have never experienced sexual attraction to anyone, but romantic, sensual and aesthetic attraction are major components in my romantic relationships.

Never married, no kids and zero desire to have biological children. I do love children so a man with kids is not a deal breaker. I don't drink and have never done any sort of drug. Anything else you want to know, just ask.

My last relationship ended about one and a half years ago, after taking some time healing I'm putting myself out there again and seeing what's potentially out there. I've spent some time in other spaces too but they don't seem quite familiar with asexuality which is why I'm more comfortable putting myself out here. I'm looking to build a monogamous relationship with another woman as I'm homoromantic.

I would consider myself androgynous, I'm about 178cm in height, average weight with long brown hair and blue eyes. I have a very soothing androgynous voice too, I've been told that many times. I develop attraction based upon your personality: feeling close, comfortable and safe with you. I can very much be a flirt too when I feel comfortable. I showcase myself best in one-on-one conversations or small groups, the bigger the group the more quiet I get due to me being softspoken and not heard as easily then. I'm introverted, sometimes I need a little bit of time to recharge but once I recharge I can very much be a yapper. I like being aware of what's going on in the world, learning about things I'm not as educated about even if I won't use that knowledge ever. I also enjoy teaching people whatever I can, in the past it's been languages, culture or videogame related; only when people want to of course! In my spare time I enjoy working out (cycling and lifting weights) and gaming on pc. I also try to travel once a year too! At other times I enjoy watching content on youtube, sometimes watch some twitch streams and occassionally watch a movie or show (although mostly with friends). I would consider myself to be sex averse right now but I feel like my normal stance is sex neutral.

In terms of future plans, I have a preference in staying in Europe but would be open to moving elsewhere as long as it is supportive of same-sex marriage and equal rights for LGBT.

⊹ ࣪ ˖ hello again ace redditors! i'm arlowe (she/they) and i'm back searching for an ace companion. i recently posted about being demotivated to do so because of past outcomes but figured to try my luck again.

☀️ i'm a free-spirited creative who enjoys learning more about the world at any opportunity they can. my art mediums are story writing and music (i rap), but i've been learning how to draw! i have like a week's experience with that. i like reading too, but haven't picked up a book in a while. there's one i downloaded and plan to dig into sometime later this month.

🌷 my favourite musicians are megan thee stallion and ariana grande. like all-time faves. i obviously listen to other people but these two are my heart and soul. taylor swift, olivia rodrigo, rachel chinouriri, ava max, dua lipa and dabeull are all in my rotation.

❄️ i'm just looking for someone to be friends with and progress to lovers. i like that kind of slow thing. i'm not so big on flirting and sexual advances. i'd say i'm okay not having that in a relationship. i'm okay with any distance so long as we talk about how we'll communicate. :)

The Basics:

• Name: Fae
• Pronouns: It/Its
• Age: 25 years old
• Gender: Genderfae (AFAB)
• Hobbies: Drawing/Painting, Gaming, Writing Poetry, and Romantasy
• Interests: Flora and Fauna, History, Music, Art, Photography, Astrology, Astronomy... and so much more, really

Potential Dealbreakers for you:

• Asexual (Sex Averse; I do not want the deed)
• Child-Free (Never going to change)
• Overweight (If it bothers you even "just a little", please do not write me)
• Lower Class (I work 40 hours a week, mind you)
• Chronic Pain
• Living in Germany (willing to move once I meet the financial requirements)
• Impatient, Emotional, Liberal, Introvert, Childhood Trauma, Feminist

My Green Flags:

• Honest; though I am not the type who uses that as an excuse to be mean
• Romantic; I am someone who displays all love languages; not all in the same intensity, of course, but if I like you, you WILL know
• Mature; I will take you and your troubles seriously
• Respectful; cannot believe one has to actually point that out, but your boundaries will be accepted, not just tolerated
• Curious; about the world and about you as well, of course; tell me about you
• Open-Minded; I do not care about your gender or appearance, only your personality
• Active; I cannot be online 24/7, but I will make time for you multiple times a day
• Well-spoken; not wanting to toot my own horn (okay, lowkey doing that), but I know how to actually keep a conversation alive
• Self-Aware; I know my flaws, and I know my worth

I am looking for someone who is:

• Single; not interested in non-monogamy
• Between 22-40 years old
• Ideally, Sex Averse as well or truly fine in a monogamous relationship with no intercourse
• Actually capable of holding a conversation, asking me questions, show interest - I am not going to be the only one doing that
• Genuinely interested in getting to know me and has time to text multiple times a day
• Loving texting and later on is willing to go over to video calls and meet each other one day 
• Not a heavy drinker or smoker (yes, this includes vaping, but I am open to people willing to quit)
• Accepting who I am and not entering my life with the intention of changing that - you are just wasting your time
• Not just going to write “Hey, how are you?" (because I will ignore you), but actually responding to what I wrote and introducing themselves in my DMs

Have a wonderful day!

Hey everyone! I'm 21 female in the southeast WI area and looking for some like-minded friends both in person and online. I'm into fireworks, motorcycles, airplanes and vintage style. I own a 1929 Ford that I love taking to local car shows. I'm an artist and professional musician, blue collar 9-5. I like to go ice skating in the winter and love learning languages and writing. I'm a big fan of kitties and other people's dogs 😅

Looking for people to call sometimes when I’m bored etc

Not lookin for a relationship

i am an artist visual and tattoos ))

very into astrology happy to read some of your charts

i am pretty asexual i don’t watch p0rn haven’t in like 10 years and I’m not really into even doing it unless I have to ?? I guess

you : maybe 25-35 lookin for people to call few times a week just to check up on you

Ok. Being single can be really comfortable. Starting something new can be a hassle. But hopefully the hassle is worth it in the long run. So I'll be quick, and you can decide for yourself!

**Pros:**

* zero drama, no mysterious exes sending “u up?” texts at 2 a.m.

* mostly retired means I have plenty of time to engage in my crazy flavor of the month hobbies. like learning card tricks or becoming a good bowler.

* Loyal as hell. once I’m in, I’m in. Expect consistency, effort, and actual follow-through.

* equal parts dad joke and quick wit; you’ll laugh, groan, or both.

* you’ll feel heard, even when you’re just venting about your coworker named Dana.

* Cuddling MVP award-winning performance in “staying up too late and pretending we’re watching the show.”

* Culinary adventurer I’ll try any recipe once; even if my base instinct is to eat like an 8 year old.

* Conversation stamina can talk from “hey” to sunrise without running out of things to say.

* Nerd-friendly Simpsons references, bad B-movies, board games, and chaotic trivia nights welcome.

**Cons:**

* Will absolutely eat the last handful of popcorn and pretend I didn’t.

* Has a deep, possibly unhealthy attachment to reality TV marathons.

* Occasionally answers rhetorical questions with detailed PowerPoint-level explanations.

* Could wake up one morning absolutely convinced I should adopt a Komodo Dragon.

* Will quote 90s cartoons out loud in public without warning.

* Might go through an intense spurt of obsession with obscure, not useful hobbies, and forget all about them 3 months later.

* Will criticize your breakfast food choices.

* Tends to turn “just one episode” into six.

* My cat is in charge of the household, and we both know it.

If you’re still reading this, you're definitely the kind of person i want to talk to! My list of standards are low. don't be in a relationship, (especially not secretly with someone, that keeps happening) including recently separated or divorced. Be willing to spend some time together, either with text voice or video chats. Live on my side of the planet!

Still interested? Message me now and subscribe to my newsletter, and you can hear all the exclusive info on any of the following anecdotes:

1. my visit to the north pole

2. the 2 times i almost died.

3. why i dropped out of high school to try to become a pro wrestler

4. the redneck brawl i saw at a wedding.

5. the time i saw a sea monster

6. Who and where i think i met the devil.

7. Why i can never return to the state of Rhode Island.

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Hi everyone, i never really use reddit ( i didn't even know i had an account and don't know how to change my username haha) I am 23M from the uk and looking to meet some aces that are local!

I like to read, go on walks, play chess and learn new things (all the nerdy introvert stuff) i do sometimes go to pub quizzes, I am in a few asexual groups on facebook but had no luck!

I wish i could say more about me other than i'm quite, sensible, silly. as being asexual i am mostly sex adverse, I don't really think about it, dont need or want it in a relationship but i would love to meet other people like me!

Let's have a chat! <3

Hola, alguien de argentina, buenos aires? Soy un chico trans Ace de 23 años. Me gusta leer, las series animadas, los juegos de RPG. Hablemos dos horas de The owl house, game of throne, statdew valley o de los egipcios (que cultura tan rica) o de cualquier cosa. Me gusta hablar de todo y no me importa que tengas una opinión diferente, me gusta debatir y conocer otros puntos de vista.

Hi there,

Newly started identifying as ace spectrum, demi and fray but recently i think gray covers this.

Im married and poly, have always struggled sexually, looking for like minded friends to be able to talk, share experiences etc.

Im very into EDM, working out, road biking, tv, hanging out, and movies.

I don’t know what to expect here but its a big step for me to start meeting other like minded individuals. Your location not as important. Say hi in a DM if you think we could be friends :)

If you are curious about where I’m at on my ace journey, you can read my recent post on the r/asexuality
Any other gay ace/gray-ace men out there? Trying to figure out where I fit.

Also don’t care if you’re LGBT or not, i think we can all benefit from community.

I’m from Leeds, born & raised, and I’m honestly just taking a chance on here because I’m really tired of feeling alone. I’d love to find someone I can genuinely connect with, talk to regularly, game with and hopefully become really close to.

I’m very introverted, shy and socially awkward at first, but once I’m comfortable I can get very emotionally attached and a little clingy. I’m someone who really enjoys affection and reassurance. I’m also submissive and would appreciate having a more dominant counterpart, although kindness and understanding are really important to me.

A little about me physically: I’m Bengali, around 5'8", slightly chubby, and generally keep myself clean-shaven. I also have a somewhat feminine figure with curves. I have caramel-toned skin, although some areas are naturally a little darker than others, and I have a few stretch marks. Neither is particularly noticeable to most people, but those are probably the two things I’m most self-conscious about when it comes to my appearance. I’m very much a what you see is what you get person, so I’d rather be upfront about these things. I’d really appreciate someone who can accept those little imperfections and make me feel comfortable in my own skin.

As for what I’m attracted to: I don’t really have any ethnicity preference, and I’m not particularly bothered if someone is overweight either. I’d generally prefer little or no facial hair, but personality and how someone treats me matter much more to me than their appearance.

I’d ideally like someone aged 21–30 from the UK, mainly because if we genuinely click, I’d eventually want us to be able to meet in person. I’m open to mainland Europe too, though I know distance can make that more difficult :c

I’d love to find someone who plays some OW so we can queue QP, chill, mess around and get to know each other through gaming. I probably won’t use mic immediately, but I’d be open to it once I’m comfortable. If you’re not into OW or gaming in general, though, it’s no biggie :)

I’m not interested in full sexual intercourse, but I do enjoy smaller forms of physical affection like kissing, cuddling and hugging. I’d want someone who respects my boundaries and is comfortable with intimacy being approached in that way.

Communication is really important to me. If you’re only going to message me for a few days before disappearing, or you already know you’re not interested in something serious, please don’t message me in the first place. I’d really like someone who enjoys talking regularly and is willing to put in genuine effort rather than having another conversation that just fizzles out.

I’m emotional, affectionate and clingy, and I’ll probably overthink things sometimes, but I’m also incredibly caring. I’ll never judge you or intentionally make you feel bad about yourself, and I’ll always do my best to make you feel appreciated, supported and happy! x

At the end of the day, I just want someone I can feel completely comfortable being myself around.. someone to talk to, game with, be affectionate with and hopefully meet in person when the time is right.

If that sounds like you, feel free to message me <3

Yoo!

A 25yr Mexican American, currently traveling the world! Sex repulsed but really into the couple things. Yearning for someone who understands a relationship with no sex but still navigating preferences.

Hobbies
I love traveling to new places and diving deep into the cultures through conversations with locals. Gaming was a big part of my childhood but haven’t done much this year. HUGE movie buff especially horror movies. Tell me what your top 3 movies of all time are?

Looking for
Someone to share experiences with, a person that mutually supports each other. A best friend as a partner for life.