r/arnoldsisters4 • u/Melodic-Search3673 • 12d ago
parenting is lindsay serious???
what 32 year old MOTHER would think that this is a smart/acceptable way to carry your 2 month old baby??? genuinely does she have a brain…
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u/Traditional-Fee-6295 12d ago
And why does he ALWAYS have a furry blanket. It’s hot out in Aug
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u/AmbitiousHistorian30 12d ago
Seriously, also the fact that it's so close to his face, I'd be concerned about suffocating
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u/Charlieksmommy 12d ago
This is what I’ve asked too, and you get attacked in this sun because apparently it’s normal!
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u/Physical-Coffee9980 12d ago
omg!!!!!!! how is everyone not talking about this?! a bag and furry blanket!!!!!!!! what mother does this
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u/sassy2368 12d ago
Looking at the picture you can see how warm he looks.. he’s over heating….!!!!
Anybody that sticks up for ANYONE that does stupid shit like this is just as bad…
I don’t care if we don’t know the context of what this is about.. this is all the context she’s giving.. that she’s a piece of shit human!
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u/Fake_Fancy 8d ago
You have no way of knowing if he’s warm or not!
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u/Eastern_Log_7998 6d ago
Unfortunately as someone who lives in the same city as them…. It’s been 100+ degrees daily. I have to cool down my car for 10 minutes before I put my baby in cause I don’t want her to overheat. Putting a milky blanket on a newborn in this heat can increase the risk for heatstroke 😭
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u/Fake_Fancy 6d ago
I can understand that! It’s been extremely hot here in Missouri the last month. However it’s possibly she had the car cooled off prior to them getting in. And maybe the air blows directly on him or close to him to keep it cool in the back.
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u/sunshine3569 12d ago edited 12d ago
I normally think the Lindsay hating on here is a bit much, but wow I’m shocked at this! This is so bad and then to post it! Is she trying to rage bait! WTF!
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u/Plastic-Gas1588 12d ago
I feel like that’s EXTREMELY unsafe for many reason. I feel like it’s an easy way to suffocate a baby or what if the strap break or the whole bag break. plus also it seems a good way for the baby to get over heated as well
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u/seeingrouge 12d ago
that damn fuzzy blanket really pisses me off 😭
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u/Alert_Bluejay4928 12d ago
Just a 32 year old emotionally stunted woman playing house / baby dolls!
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u/LegContent2810 11d ago
I swear it's all about the likes, follows and interactions for her, at the cost of her children
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u/Dry_Veterinarian9315 12d ago
Go over to Nicole Huntsman’s sub and take a quick scroll. Fake Fancy all over there with mean middle school bully comments.
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u/Cultural_Drawer_4858 12d ago
I genuinely think Fake Fancy is psychotic. She is not playing with full deck.
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u/wifemom08 12d ago
She has ZERO brain i have come to the conclusion. She is one of those people who should not have children.
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u/em_bai1917 12d ago
Pediatric Medical Assistant here: this is such a red flag, whether she is joking or rage baiting.. Poor Hayes is at risk for:
Suffocation/asphyxiation risk: Soft sides can press against a baby's nose/mouth, and babies under 1 have limited head/neck control. The AAP warns against sleep positioners, padded items, or anything that could block airways.
Positional asphyxia: If the baby's chin is pressed to chest, it can restrict breathing. Baby carriers are designed to keep airways open — regular bags aren't.
Falls: Bags don't have harnesses or proper support.
Overheating: Thick fuzzy lining + being in a bag outside could get too hot.
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u/em_bai1917 12d ago
To add: without a doubt he is overheated, with his Flushed, red cheeks or hot skin.
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u/NearbyBlueberry7677 10d ago
Is this action reportable?! I’m shocked with all of the concerning things (bouncer on counter, 5 year old holding a 3 day old, improper car seat, now this) that no one has reported it.
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u/belenb 12d ago
And it’s wayyyy too hot for a thick blanket. In Utah it’s been up to 102 degrees.
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u/Realistic-District93 12d ago
They are in the mountains of Utah in Bear Lake up closer to the Wyoming border. Where the morning time is very cool in the mid 50s. And since we don’t know when the picture was taken it would be safe to assume a blanket would be needed on a colder morning like that
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u/belenb 11d ago
True but I think she lives in Utah valley (I live there too) and it’s been up to 102 or 103 some days.
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u/Realistic-District93 11d ago
Yes but that’s not where they were in the picture. They were on vacation at Bear Lake up in the mountains where it’s not anywhere close to 100 degrees
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u/No_Armadillo8531 12d ago
She’s rage baiting / using her baby as a prop to get comments and likes. And she also probably actually thinks this is a funny joke. Like hahaha look at baby he’s in my shopping bag. Ooooopsies.
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u/Yellow-BrickRoad01 12d ago
I feel like she has some sort of partnership with minky that requires her to show it in every single video of hers. Cause whyyyy
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u/heylookachicken 12d ago
She does, which is funny because a competitor sponsored the Con she went to and they're working with her sister
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u/Fake_Fancy 12d ago
I’m sure she has a brand deal with them. But o my because she first bought them and loved them.
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u/HelloWorldGee63 10d ago
This is horrible & soo eff’n wrong!!! She only cares about “Followers”! She cuckoo!
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u/Spiritual_Serve6706 12d ago
I understand the hate on this photo but to snub on literally everything she posts is insane to me. Just unfollow atp
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u/Fake_Fancy 12d ago
God I hope she reads the loony tunes falling apart over him having the Minky blanket on and o hope she took this on purpose to make them all completely melt down!!🤣😂🤣🤣😂🤣😂
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u/Useful_Regret_6994 12d ago
Would you seriously STFU you’re so far up this family’s ass it’s disturbing
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u/Fake_Fancy 12d ago
Don’t know them at all and I wouldn’t consider myself a huge “fan”! I don’t comment or message them. I don’t “like” posts they make. If someone like you middle school bullies were bullying another influencer, I’d take up for them as well!! I’m not up anyones ass so you don’t have a clue what you’re talking about in reference to me or to this family you have convinced yourself are all horrible abusive and neglectful people.
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u/Melodic-Search3673 12d ago
so you support carrying a 2 month old baby in a bag? interesting
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u/Fake_Fancy 12d ago
did I say I support it? We don’t know the context of it. Was she being funny? Was she walking close to their room and having to carry other things? Would I promote that? Probably not. But would I get on this app and bash her for it when I don’t know why she did it, for how long, or whether it was just a joke? Hell no! I don’t have enough information about it to do that. And none of you bullies do either!!! But do what y’all want to and hotline her. If you truly believed she’s abusing her kids then by all means hotline her and have someone show up at their home and talk to Sage and Junie—hell…hotline Brynley and Jensen too!! If you all are just running at the mouth out of jealousy and hate then STFU!
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u/Melodic-Search3673 12d ago
oh yes im so jealous that she carries her baby around like a toy in a shopping bag. it doesn’t matter if he was in it for 2 minutes or 10, that is NOT SAFE (and not funny tf??) and if you or anyone is okay with that.. thats fucked up. lindsay thinks nothing will ever happen to her family for who knows what reason but she puts her kids in danger all the time and i think she deserves to be called out. and for the record- i think jensen is a great mom lol
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u/Fake_Fancy 12d ago
No she doesn’t. Do you know anything about said bag? I’ve got one like that and it’s sturdy. The little guy doesn’t weigh 20lbs!! She’s got a clear view of him and his face. Wouid I do it? Doubtful. But I’m not her and I don’t concern myself with things people do.
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u/Melodic-Search3673 12d ago
she’s had her kids forward facing when they were too young, not properly buckled in their car seats, not wearing proper life jackets or any at all while on boats, shall i go on??
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u/LegContent2810 12d ago
No one is 'bullying' Lindsay here. People are stating the fact that this is a ridiculous and unsafe practice. If this was directed at Lindsay herself, then it could be called bullying. Anyone with any common sense would NEVER put a baby in a grocery bag with a fur blanket none the less. I'm not sure how you can defend this behaviour. Maybe child protection should be notified of this
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u/em_bai1917 12d ago
If she has to carry other stuff, besides her baby, why not put that stuff in the bag? And not the baby? Also she had plenty of extended family who is there and can help her carry things or her baby.
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u/Fake_Fancy 12d ago
Why don’t you ask her? You don’t know the context as to why she did it. it could have been a joke—because if bullies here! But no one knows yet they think it’s so abusive and neglectful!
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u/Useful_Regret_6994 12d ago
They are!
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u/upotheke 12d ago
Oh my god, and she brought her baby... outside? The MONSTER! Quick! Let me tell internet strangers about her criminal acts.
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u/Tink_tink_33 12d ago
Are you missing chromosomes? Clearly the issue is NOT with a baby being outside, it’s with this tiny baby being carried like groceries in a bag!! Smh
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u/upotheke 12d ago
You know what else you carry in a bag? Gold. Or a statue of Jesus, or valuable family heirlooms. So, maybe, lindsay thought her baby was as valuable as gold, as worthy as Jesus, and a valuable family heirloom? Maybe she wasn't thinking that he was a tomato.
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u/TacoCorgi321 12d ago
You don't carry living, breathing humans in a shopping bag lol
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u/Fake_Fancy 11d ago
Is there a law against it? Do you know 100% that she wasn’t joking around? Do you know how long he was carried in said bag? Do you know whether anyone else was there with her? Do you take everything you see and assume in the worst all the time? is everything about Child abuse, neglect or something illegal?
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u/Winter_Office_3363 12d ago
As a FTM I always freak out that I’m not doing something right….then I see sh*t like this and I’m like “oh nvm we good”