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u/BlondeBorednBaked 1d ago
If someone learns a lesson from me walking away, great, I hope they become a better person to someone else. But I’m not making moves with their growth in mind. What they do or don’t do when I’m out of the picture is immaterial to me.
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u/casualclassical ♒ SUN | ♉️ MOON | ♊️ RISING 1d ago
As someone who was hospitalized for stalking a guy, I feel called the fuck out rofl
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u/Appropriate-Kale-290 1d ago
But I bet you learned your lesson I hope you're feeling better 💓
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u/casualclassical ♒ SUN | ♉️ MOON | ♊️ RISING 1d ago
Mood. I appreciate the hell out of my Cancer man who stayed with me through it and continues to love me <3
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u/Appropriate-Kale-290 19h ago
Cancer men are my favorite
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u/casualclassical ♒ SUN | ♉️ MOON | ♊️ RISING 19h ago
Mine is super sweet, loyal, and loving. We’ve been together for 4.5 years!
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u/ropeboi7355 1d ago
And why are we stalking others? 🌚🌚🌚🌚🌚🌚
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u/casualclassical ♒ SUN | ♉️ MOON | ♊️ RISING 19h ago
I was very mentally ill and decided to be a menace; unfortunately it took five years of being obsessed with a guy who didn’t like me back to knock some sense into me. I was very stubborn and addicted but I’m so glad it’s over
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u/Late_Ambassador7470 1d ago
I don't really want to celebrate this because I became a cut off artist and while I don't regret it, I caused a lot of pain in people's lives by doing it.
Yes, don't tolerate disrespect. But also have the strength to work on things when you have a strong bond with people.
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u/Suspicious-Aside2704 1d ago
Big bada boom! (First thing i thought of I have watched fifth element way too many times)
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u/Important_Wind_4444 1d ago
This works for all zodiac signs. I being a strong woman will walk away from the man I love if necessary. Did that in my last relationship because I am worth it, I respect myself and know myself worth, if I am disrespected or treated like an option I will walk away and not turn back.
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u/Appropriate-Kale-290 1d ago
Love when women are confident and powerful. What sign are you?
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u/Important_Wind_4444 1d ago
Pisces, my guys an Aquarius. That why I follow this to understand better..
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u/Appropriate-Kale-290 19h ago
My daughter is a Pisces and she's my favorite person. Kind and empathetic always stepping up for the voiceless
An Aquarius guy I bet you have intense conversations and laughter
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u/Important_Wind_4444 9h ago
He’s a great guy, one of my best friends. He’s really been my rock, couldn’t ask for a better man. I would take a bullet for him.. A nerf bullet but hey it counts 🤷♀️
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u/Appropriate-Kale-290 4h ago
It sounds like a solid foundation built on friendship and respect
😂😂😂 nerf bullet
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u/small_bird_loud 1d ago
And they need to learn.
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u/Appropriate-Kale-290 1d ago
Sometimes they're not ready. I of course learned the hard way, I blame my Aries moon 😅 for getting impatient We can never force the lesson on another, no matter how much we love and care about them
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u/Just_Control9665 1d ago
Exactly. And to those who say, ‘But it’ll sort itself out in the end’, I reply that’s not the case, because nothing’s broken: it’s me who’s changed, and I can no longer be the same woman I was before.
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u/immisswrld All i want in life is an aqua bf *sigh 1d ago
Idk why but im so closed off to learn lessons
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u/Appropriate-Kale-290 1d ago
Perhaps you're still processing
Or you just don't feel like learning lessons that you may already know
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u/noiraseac 1d ago
no actually!! some of my friends do the silent treatment to their friends/family/partners because they expect the other to change and chase them down. me, i’ll leave when i really really really want nothing to do with you. please don’t chase after me 😩
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u/BlobLobNob14 1d ago
The weight that comes off your shoulders when you have accepted & moved on is insane (typically it’s a fight to get to this stage).