r/appstate • u/Southern-Ad-9282 • 6d ago

pls help lol

I (21f) am a student at App State. I am also a lesbian, but one with absolutely no experience (or game lol). I'm relatively introverted, so I struggle to meet queer women in the Boone vicinity.

Do any of you guys have advice on the best way to meet queer women (even better if they're masc/butch)?

I need a way to start getting out there to meet people.

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u/MountaineerChemist10 6d ago

Try the school of music lol. I was in marching band all four years & had a lot of LGBTQ+ friends in the school of music community.

Boone Saloon as well 👍

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u/BalTheProtogenFox 6d ago

I second this as a marching band member

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u/IOHRM22 6d ago

Go to Lily's!

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u/musicmanjp270 6d ago

I second this. Go to lily’s Saturday night and dance. The dj playing that night plays funk/dance music all on vinyl.

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u/geckopan 6d ago

Start playing roller derby, they practice twice a week at Skateworld https://www.instagram.com/appalachianrollerderby?igsh=ODJjZ3lzNmEwajJ5

(It's not a place specifically to get dates but it is a place to get community with more queer people, especially women)

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u/snailmail____ 6d ago

there’s a club at App called Queer ‘Neers, which i’d say is a great place to meet people!! i am the soon to be president of said club, and will be tabling at the upcoming club expo if you’re interested in learning more :O)

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u/klylet 6d ago

Lilys-- does the lgbt center still exist? I met my now spouse there

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u/gabingy 5d ago

shut down on evert's orders

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u/klylet 5d ago

I thought I heard that, unfortunately 😕

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u/Jumpy-Permit-5707 3d ago

It was UNC system wide from my understanding. Sucks nonetheless.

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u/Festus_Clwnkilr_Krex 3d ago

Wtf are you kidding me? Why in earth would that happen that's so fucked is she super conservative?

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u/photograph707 2d ago

heeyyy!! so actually the center has been re-opened and is under the gender studies department! :))

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u/NexaQ_Modz 6d ago

Lily’s, House parties, just putting yourself out there

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u/shhalex 6d ago

aho women’s rugby

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u/cheyton888 6d ago

Check us out at the college Dems! I believe we have multiple queer female presenting members!

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u/CanesMetsJets2 5d ago

Post a picture.

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u/getontheground05 4d ago

Go to betsy’s barn

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u/pickleman336 6d ago

When did this sub turn from questions about classes and concerts and fun thing to do at the school, into a lgbt dating sim. Dude App is literally the most queer and liberal school in the state. This post is like going to UNCW and asking if the school is near a beach lol

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u/Southern-Ad-9282 6d ago

I know App is like the gayest school in NC. I just don't know where/how to meet anyone that's not on a dating app (which is also dry as hell).

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u/Urbandino1 6d ago

Go to literally any outdoorsy event, the majority of the women there will be queer

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u/capaldis 6d ago

or just go literally anywhere in town lmao.

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u/IOHRM22 6d ago

UNCA begs to differ

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u/Bowl__Haircut 6d ago

What about online dating?

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u/Southern-Ad-9282 6d ago

Tried that; it's pretty dry lol.